I've had those types of relationships and I wouldn't perform oral, for the same reason. It is too personal. I did very limited things with those guys... I barely kissed them on the mouth... more of a wham bam thank you ma'am type of thing. I was dressed and out the door 15 minutes after the act. No holding each other, no cuddling afterwards, also, I never did it at my house. Liked total control on being able to leave when I wanted... not having to wait for the guy to leave. Those no-strings-attached relationships can be difficult for some, because some get emotional involved with the other person. That is why I stuck to strictly raw sex, nothing personal, no lovey dovey stuff. Why? because they are not my boyfriend. Just a person I occasionally boned.
1 0 0 0If giving is too intimate for him then receiving it should be too. So his behavior does not add up and I doubt it's that. I've never really heard of such a thing either. Plus as someone who also has a sort of friend with benefits I do not see how oral is particularly intimate. Sure it's easy to romanticize it, I did it for a long time prior to ever doing oral, but in reality it's not really that special. I'd say sex itself is by far more intimate than anything else. Even kissing/making out is more intimate for me than oral. I think what you're dealing with here is someone who is just either a) lazy or b) does simply not enjoy giving oral sex.
1 0 0 0That's one of the main benefits... if you're having sex with the guy then oral should be on the table too.
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how is oral intimate? I love eating pussy more then being inside pussy (blow jobs are first though). to me being inside a woman is the ultimate in intimacy. a blow job or eating someone out is anywhere from just fun to really showing someone how much you mean to them.
0 0 0 0He should be up for giving if he expect receiving, END OF STORY!
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5 4No I don't think it's too intimate! Sex is more intimate then oral!!
0 0 0 0That's just a typical male douchebags behavior. My fwbs eats me out and enjoys it and I suck him off. Also a lot of douchebags are also like that with girls they date
3 0 0 0No its not, that's why you're friends with benefits . lmao
0 0 0 0It's simple as this: if he receives but doesn't give, than he's a prick who only wants to get his and go. If oral sex is "too intimate" for a friends with benefits relationship than why is he wanting you to give him oral? He ain't worth your time as a date let alone a friends with benefits . Just tell him to get lost so you can find a guy who isn't a sexually selfish prick.
1 0 0 0Why is anything too intimate? Isn't that what the benefits package is all about?
0 0 0 0I'm in a casual relationship and my partner always perform oral everytime without me asking. Depends on the guy. I think many guys enjoys giving oral.
0 0 0 0I do it all with my friends with benefits
0 0 0 0Some guys (and some girls too) are just selfish. Even without realising it...
0 0 0 0Thats wrong of him not to give it back.
But, anyway. Haven't you ever seen Pretty Woman? It is different scenario, but same concept ;-)0 0 0 0
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