strictly speaking it isn't sex, so it isn't 'gay', but i definitely think its a grey area, which is better answered by looking at why you would want to share this experience with other guys.
as a straight guy myself, i enjoy a good wank, and i also love women rub one out, and on the very odd occasion i have done this with my gf (she does hers, i do mine) for mutual visual enjoyment.
each to their own tho. if you enjoy watching movies with mates, there is no reason you can't watch p*rn with them too, and if you all are comfortable with it, then go for it. but yeah, you need to look at why you would want to do this in the first place i think.2 1 0 1At an younger age especially teens those who virgins it's not weird to jerk off in groups especially while watching p*rn or getting into some kind of a competition. I think it's pretty normal nor is it necessarily being bicurious. Till the 70s or 80s this would hold good. Since especially the 90s like everything mentality also evolved with gays coming out into the open where the dumb & blind society's perception and vision modified accordingly.
No it isn't weird nor are you necessarily gay or bi0 4 1 0Fully agree
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You're doing something sexual, therefore it's a shared sexual experience. I don't masturbate with friends and I don't know anyone who does (unless they're sleeping with those friends). You may as well just sleep together, haha!
Whether it's gay or not, well it's definitely AT LEAST bi-curious. Which is fine, I have no issues with that... but my boyfriend better not jerk off with his buddies, haha! I'd consider that a sexual experience, which I'd consider CHEATING. Those circle jerkers better be single or in open relationships, haha! It's more than just a bunch of buddies hanging out (excuse the pun :-P), haha!2 3 0 1Well maturation isn't intersexual if you wanna see it that way fine all the world us fucked up and now I don't give a fuck.
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It seems pretty weird to me. I'd be a little weirded out if I found out a friend of mine enjoyed doing that. Watching other dudes get off while you get off yourself? Definitely sounds like something you need to have at least a partial attraction to men to enjoy.
1 1 0 0Well like I said I have ONLY heard of all that and never done before but according to what you said it sounds like whatever 2 guys decided to do is a personal attraction and that's not true. Based on what you said it sounds like you're saying when two guys hangout they are sexy ally attracted. Really?
What? That's not what I said, I said if a guy enjoys watching another guy get off while he himself is getting off it sounds like there's a sexual fetish or arousal going on. Not "whatever two guys do is a personal attraction" like just hanging out...
You Have A Very Big imagination. If I ever do that with my friends at least my eyes will be on the p*rn or something that turns me on not someone's dick. Stop saying or calling us gay for no fking reason I'm sick now tired of that shit.
sounds weird to me. but, hey.. everyone is different.
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8 11its weird...
0 2 1 0I say do what you want and don't worry about the labels.
0 2 1 1Yes it's still pretty gay as you can like look at an other dudes junk
0 2 0 1So it is gay to have guys sports team? Which sports locker room do guys or girls don't see same gender naked
Difference here OP is that you're having a full group of guys tossing themselves off.
Exactly also in males locker rooms there is an unspoken rule that men don't look down
Actually the term circle jerk refers to guys in a circle, each stroking the guy next to him. Jerking together isn't necessarily gay. Especially if you were all watching straight porn and guys just thought "Hey, we all know we all do it, I'm just going for it." I guess it could be possible to do a buddy a favor while he pretended he was with a girl. Especially with just how horny a young guy can get.
0 0 0 0It's in the gray zone if you're in middle school. Beyond that it's pretty gay.
1 2 1 0there is that poor dog again... lol
Golden retriever puppies are the cutest animal in the world, even if that particular picture looks slightly dodgy...
LOL I know right.. haha they are the cutest! poor doggy =(
Being around guys while they masturbate isn't something I want to be involved with.
3 5 0 0Yeah, I think it's very homo-erotic. I would be extremely uncomfortable doing that with a bunch of guys. Reaching an orgasm with a man or men is pretty much the definition of gay, in my mind. What would be the point unless you're turned on by other men and/or their parts?
1 2 0 0Whether it's weird or not is completely up to you, but there's definitely a very strong homo-eroticism in it.
0 1 0 1Let me guess, you're White 'cause I ain't never heard of any other race of Straight Men doing this shit. *sigh* Anyway yes it's super weird/gay & this is coming from a bi White Man so yea that's saying something...
1 1 1 2Lmao! How can you prepare for that! It's like the kicker thought "He might hear me walking from behind.. I'll just glide 11ft through the air then."
Erm its boderline, maybe stepping into the bi area. T bagging is definitely gay, I've heard its slang for putting someones balls in your mouth. Anyway who cares if it is gay or not?
2 2 0 0sounds like you want to try new experiences , just say you are bi curious (locker room comparison) maybe your buddies have feelings for you
1 2 0 1Gay.. for sure
1 1 1 1Yes I consider that gay
1 1 0 1As you are one of the fucked up society who thinks all is gay
No im not but hey you wanted our opinion.
And is under the influence of this fucked up society.
It's not gay - it's extremely gay.
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I don't think it is as long as their is no
1. eye contact
2. attraction
3. general gayety0 0 0 0What ever turns you on I'ave always thought it a little weird.
1 0 0 2Yes its weird.
0 1 0 0That's really gay.
0 1 0 1So you're lesbian/gay. If you're not you wouldn't know it.
That "logic" makes no sense whatsoever.
Haha I can't stop laughing from what you said all this time.
just curious? or maybe a little gay or bi?
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