Can guys tell when a girl has never given oral before?

It was my first time going down on anyone, I'm still a virgin and really inexperienced. He knows that but generally, would a guy be able to tell if a girl is inexperienced? If so, how would he know this? I didn't make him come but he said I "wasn't bad for my first time", would that be upsetting to most guys?
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  • I'd doubt it based on my experience receiving. If someone is really good then you know they're experienced. However I've had many experienced guys shock me with their lack of understanding of female anatomy. Gotta be the same with women giving head.

    He probably isn't and shouldn't be upset that he didn't cum. All the guys I've blown preferred to finish inside me. Some guys say they can't cum from oral. One guy said this to me before I blew him but then realised he just never had good head before. So I know what I do is effective but not once has a guy cum in my mouth and I'd prefer to keep it that way.

    Don't beat yourself up. Your attempt is a lot more than many other girls would do. I didn't start blowing guys until 3 boyfriends ago. I just didn't like the idea of it until I met someone I really trusted. Now I love it.

    • I am a bit shocked by what you said. I have never met a guy that would rather finish inside a woman over coming in her mouth. The greatest would be to screw for a while then have the woman finish us off in her mouth. Hmm interesting

    • You have to bear in mind that the ones with the least respect for women do the most talking. You'll rarely hear a guy bragging about how he likes to kiss and caress every inch of her body but there are many of these guys. Even the most machismo guys I've been with crave intimacy... having said that I've never had a one night stand.

  • Not always. The first time I gave oral was also my first time for... everything. The guy didn't know I never gave a blow job or had sex. When I told him a couple of month later, he didn't believe me. Apparently my blow job was good

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  • its difficult to tell if they have no experience, but easy to tell if they have a lot ;)

    and if he didn't cum, that could be him as much as it is you. if he has desensitized himself via masturbation, it might be quite difficult for you to be able to beat that!

    personally if a woman is gracious enough to give me a mouth hug, it honestly doesn't bother me if i cum or not, there are plenty of ways to reach the finish line :)

  • Hey, it would not upset me in the slightest, it would be kinda hot actually knowing that mine is the first she is sucking on. He can always tactfully steer you in the right direction if you are doing things wrong. Don't worry about not making him cum, some guys either take forever from oral and some even can't at all!

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  • It might be a suspicion but could also be wondering if you're just not into him or his thing. Any effort is always appreciated, it's the frequency of attention that's more welcome than a once a year pro job

  • The only way he might think it is if you scraped him with your teeth a lot. But my first sexual experience was with an older woman ( i was 19 and she was 23). I knew she had a lot of sex before and she scraped the hell out of my cock. So there is no way to know you never did it. There is just women that do it well and those that dont. But there is no such thing as a bad blow job. He is just thankful your willing to do it.

  • I, for one, would not care. If you are enthusiastic enough to do it, I am good with it. Over time, we can fine tune the happy ending.

  • A guy can usually tell.. but I wouldn't be upset. I mean what am I supposed to do? expect her to be perfect at it.. no. I'm not perfect at 1st time things I have done. So I can't expect that from her.

    But I'd appreciate that she is at least trying, which is better than not doing it at all.

  • Absolutely no idea. Upset bc my girl didn't make me come giving me oral? NO!