A drug can't change ones sexuality, it can bring latent thoughts of homosexuality out, even if very small. You can't blame a white powder for your husband looking at gay p*rn. He is probably bi, any man trying to convince himself he is straight while getting off to other men is deluded. That said, if he is bi? So what?
I don't Blame him, just trying to understand. FYI I have a GAY brother and have no discrimination for people being people. You can't choose who you are but you Can CHOOSE to be a DISHONEST JERK! I don't care if he is or isn't, that is his excuse. He's not my husband. He is adamant that he isn't and its only the drugs. Is it so hard to expect HONESTY from people? I give it, don't I deserve it to. He tells me it's only drugs and it fuck w/his mind and he doesn;t have it when he's not on it. I feel bad for the others girls he dates if he can't be honest.
you are preaching to the converted, im bisexual. I know its not a choice, but surpressing ones sexuality it is not healthy in the long run. Yes you deserve honesty, its also very common, there are a LOT of men on grindr and gay dating sites who are "straight"
Yes, that is what I told him but he is in Total denial... i feel bad for the next person that he won't be honest with.. he said it ONLY because of the drugs and only when he does it. Unless he is a real Douche by saying he thought about it and say it disgust him when he not fucked up and believe he isn't. He said he wanted to break up anyways because he was sick of fighting and trying w/me. This i had to push it out of him, I JUST want HONESTY. I been very understanding and respectful during the break up, i did get a few things off my chest. I am moving out and he avoids me like a plague. I did not try to get back together w/him or even Want to. Its is so hard to talk to someone nicely when it was amicable? I only ask him to be honest w/himself and other people. He got mad at me. All people deserve honesty... with ourself and esp. to others. common courtesy... but now he out trolling w/friends... if he's honest w/the persona nd they cool w/it that good..
Cocaine brings out the hidden traits of a person. I've never had issues like that and neither have the 23 other lads I do it with.
I'd suggest that he's in denial. He will mull this over constantly too. Will even compensate with you to keep denying it.
Thanks, I think the same way.. he's in denial and I feel bad for the next girl he will date... he so SURE that he's NOT... he ven said well I know myself that why i was able to tell you... I had other issue in our relationship anyways... i digress... regardless... that a Coward move...
I had the same thing happened to me everytime I did coke. One night I got pretty fucked up and was able to act on my desires. This confirmed to me that I was gay, I loved every second of my sexual encounter. Automatically going into the "bottom" role. That was 3yrs ago, I'm now transitioning to become a woman.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I have never tried any illegal drug. But seems to me nothing can alter your true sexuality. But hard drugs can damage your brain and they lower inhabitions. So i guess it is possible he is telling the truth. But in my opinion it is not probable he is telling the truth. He must at least have gay tendencies to even consider it. Not even a gun to my head would make me touch a guy. Yuck
I’ve done that a lot. I’ve never done anything gay. But I have a buddy we have gotten way across the line with. But that was sharing nudes of our girls and we talked about jacking off. He asked me if he could jack off to my gfs pussy pics when we were going to bed an I just gave him a roll of paper towels and told him to make sure he didn’t cum on my couch. I assume he jacked off to my gfs nudes and I for sure jacked off to his gfs nudes. That was not gay but the the next day I was like; did we just do that? Lol
I always claimed to be a straight male too and during cocaine use i would watch gay porn for hours masturbating and using a dildo. One night i acted out on it and at first i was only receiving head and strictly bottom. I always wanted to suck cock because i knew i would like it but couldn’t get myself to do it. I was with a fuck buddy of mine and we were partying as well. He was giving me head and fingering me hitting my prostate and turning me on like never before. I remember telling him not to stop and reaching for his cock jerking it and telling him i was gonna suck his dick so good. Shortly after he stood up and i sat up and sucked my first cock. He was about 7.5 and thick and i personally am a bottom that wants a hung top so i was into it more. I am also 8 inches and have found that it’s hot when two big cocks are enjoying eachother. I still enjoy having sex with my wife and do it regularly but she is aware that i enjoy sex with men. Acting out on it was the best decision. No better feeling than bottom!!!
Just finished a Marathon of a half ounce of coke ( I know it's s lot but now I have to come up with 900 in 2 weeks with Christmas coming up bad idea getting it) anyway I started late Saturday night with a "tester" with the intention of getting my mates in in it but I got greedy once I start I can't stop anyway coke always makes me hyper sexual but for years I would stay up wired looking at straight porn but for last year and a half all I want to do on coke is look at gay porn I think I looked at that much straight porn years ago that it wasn't satisfying my high any more I nearly even came out of the closet on fb yet when I'm sober I don't think about been gay unless their some underlying bisexuality there but apparently your sexuality is fluid can change slightly over time
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