Would you think badly of a girl if she lets you take a naughty pic?

[Anonymous]

I've had an on-off long distance thing (not exclusive) with a guy, and one day he was telling me how much he missed me and how glad he was that I was spending the weekend with him, and the next time I saw him he asked if he could take a pic while we were having sex. I trusted him at that point and let him, and since then things have changed 180 degrees. I haven't heard from him anymore and when I try to talk to him I get ignored. I have no clue what changed so all I can think of is that since I let him take that pic he now thinks I'm not gf material? but why doesn't he want to have anything to do with my anymore? any insight?

[Anonymous]

these types of pics never leads to a good thing... look at all the celebs that do it, or when people break up the first thing that gets posted online or spread is the naughty pics...

And as a guy... trust me, guys SHARE those pics with their buddies. I know, because a lot of guys I know take them with random girls and then show off...

My advice to girls, respect yourself and stay away from those types of pics.

[Asker]

yeah i only agreed cause my face wasn't in the pic. i have a suspicion that he shared it with his friends so i was already pissed, i just was wondering if that could be a reason he lost respect for me

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah... I think so. I'd lost respect for a girl if she did that and I liked her. To me it shows the girl doesn't value herself. A real girl doesn't need to take nude pics of herself and if the guy she is with is pressuring her. Then that guy isn't a guy she should be. A guy that RESPECTS her won't make her do shit like that. For me.. beauty is just seeing her nude. I don't need pics to remind me of how beautiful she looks through a pic. I can see her and I appreciate her for how she is.

[Asker]

yeah i only agreed cause my face wasn't in the pic. i have a suspicion that he shared it with his friends so i was already pissed, i just was wondering if that could be a reason he lost respect for me

[AustinMan]

If a guy asks a lady to take a photo and then gets his panties all in a wad over it, he's not worth the trouble. Lesson is never let anyone take really compromising photos with your face in them.

[Asker]

oh my face isn't in them. if they got out it could be any random brunette

[AustinMan]

Glad to hear that but he's still scum. Keep looking...

[Hrothgar]

That's something only he could answer. You say it's an on-off casual long distance thing, so he could be off and being casual with someone else. Only time can tell if he'll return, and then you may get a chance to ask him about it.

[bDizzie]

No I wouldn't. Why would I?

[sean1234]

Cameras are not safe to take pictures like that, I would be afraid she would send it to others by accident. Not like I would ever let a girlfriend take a picture like that.

[JohnJay3]

First I would never ask someone that I didn't love to do something so private as take a sexual picture like this. I would not have sex with someone I didn't love because to me it is something special and not to be done taken for granted. Just something to think about.

[Anonymous]

Naughty pics are hot! I think that they are great to give and get, and will keep a man interested. Men are visual and if we have a picture to stimulate ourselves to (of you), then it's going to keep us interested longer and excite us for seeing you next!

[Anonymous]

maybe he got what he wanted? sounds bad.

[Anonymous]

Many guys would think it makes her look like less of a respectable female.