Is it weird to listen to people having sex - roommates? What do you do in those situations?

So I dont go looking for it, but when it happens, I kind of listen harder lol Partly to figure out "wtf is happening?" but also partly because I don't know I like listening sometimes I guess xD It makes me want to have sex or do dirty things when I hear it, also makes me kind of jealous. (virgin alert) But its also kind of like, you either want to make lots of noise so they will shut up OR you dont want to make any noise if its silent (often is, they assume people are asleep or listening to something) because then its this awkward "oh, yeah... I can hear you fucking... so yeah..." thing.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • In my previous apartment a girl moved in upstairs and had loud, bed-squeaking sex with her guy on an almost predictable basis several nights a week. I actually heard her having sex several times before I actually met her! lol! I did sound great though, so I frequently enjoyed listening! :P

  • I usually want to hear them. I find it hot. I close my eyes and try to imagine what's going on just by listening. It's a way of being creative which is good.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Happened all the time back in my college days living in an apartment. I lived with 3 other girls, when one of us was having sex we would listen harder, giggle and if our other friends were around make crude jokes. It was good times. I miss it.

  • I think it's normal to listen, and there's no way to really avoid being heard if you have roommates. I can hear my roommate and I'm sure she can hear me.

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  • I listen. Why not? It's p*rn for the ears.

    • Little embarrassing to say but this is pretty much dead on. Hearing sex turns you on just like watching sex would.

    • Why's that embarrassing to say? I must have no inhibitions or something because I'm the sort who would thank them at the breakfast table for a hot audio session.

    • lol!!!

  • There's absolutely nothing wrong with it.

    I used to live on a floor of about 8 people, and we were all really noisy during sex. There were more than a couple of occasions where I would be going back to my room and I would hear it, then go inside and touch myself imagining what was happening.

    It sounds a little perverted, but it's actually totally normal and loads of people do it. Whether you're doing it, watching it, or listening to it, sex is hot.

  • Hey, if you get horny, maybe ask if they'd be interested in a threesome, and if they're going to be that loud and do it while you're home. Ask if you can watch.

  • Yeah I sometimes do listen lol. Occasionally if I am in the mood, I will fap to what I'm hearing and try to visualize what's going on. In other situations such as walking in through the garage to hear my parents going at it requires a prompt trip to the bathroom for vomiting. So it all depends on the situation.