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Walking around the house naked?

My boyfriend lives with his mother and both of them recently lost their vehicles. I have my own place but decided that I would save on gas and car mileage by living with them until one of them gets a car. Seem to be taking a really long time 4 months now. So it's me my boyfriend and his mom on the main floor and my Boyfriend cousin and his pregnant girlfriend who lives in the basement. My boyfriend constantly walks around the house naked and go from our bedroom to the bathroom with his dick and balls hanging out. I told him that he was disrespecting me by doing this and he said that I had low self esteem. I have spoken to him on several occasion about walking around the house naked for his cousin girlfriend to see him. He says that it's his mom house and whoever does not like it can leave. He goes on to say that I have low self - esteem. So I told him well how would you like it I walked around the house naked for your cousin to possibly see me. He said that I should do that at my parents house. What do you guys thinks I'm ready to hang the towel to dry because I believe his actions are disrespectful.
I don't love my girlfriend anyway so I'm going to walk around the house naked
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No Matter whos house it is I love my girlfriend so I will not walk around the house naked
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  • It sounds rather strange...

    But it's his mother's house i. e. his home, nobody minds, nobody cares. You're the only one, who seems to think it's somehow disrespectful. Who exactly is it disrespectful to, again? Because nobody else is complaining.

    And the way you worded your poll options point to an entitled attitude. So just because he doesn't do exactly what YOU want, means he doesn't love you?

    Self-esteem issues indeed. Your boyfriend is weird and the family is weird, but it's rather selfish of you to expect him to change the way he is just because you have a problem with a little bit of nudity.

    If you find his behavior unacceptable, then you can always leave. If you're going to keep on telling him what he ought to do because you said so, the relationship is only going to get worse and he will start resenting you.

    • Well him someone see him with this dick out they might just want to fuck him. I don't want to get cheated on. So what if I walk around the house naked. Lady you just don't get thanks for your comment any way.

    • So you think that lack of clothes = instant cheater. Okay, then. You don't trust your boyfriend at all and think he'll go around fucking everyone just because he's comfortable being nude. Yeah, definitely no self-esteem issues there.

    • "He is showing his sexual parts" Got news for you, it takes 5 seconds to unzip pants and drop boxers, wouldn't make any difference if he had clothes on or not if he was going to cheat. He's going to carry his dick around attatched to him till the day he dies. Some people are comfortable being naked, if you dont like HIS behaviour in HIS mothers house you need to leave. If it bothers you that much in general you need to evaluate your relationship with him. You're using lack of clothes as an excuse for the self esteem issues MaskedSanity pointed out.

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  • At first I thought that you were the only one who saw him and thought that it was no big deal but that is weird that other people see him esp letting his cousins gf see him. He sound at the very least respect that you don`t feel comfortable with that and at least put a towel around. It takes like five seconds.

    • As far as I know no one has saw him naked. So why not stop now before things get really crazy. If he is doing this in front of my face then lord knows what he is doing behind my back

    • Well, that is good that no one saw him naked. He is being selfish it takes literally five seconds to put a towel around you. Even if you think that no one is there you never know who could pop around the corner.

    • I would never walk around my dad`s naked. That is just weird to me.

  • That is one weeeeird ass family lol They probably do incest too, if you weren't there...

    And how is you asking him to not run around naked making it your fault, that you have low self-esteem? Those two are not even remotely connected. I agree with the others, he is an ass.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I have the opposite problem situation. My girlfriend is walking around the house naked. She wants me to take care of her. When she pee or poo i wipe her. After the toilet she wants hugs and carry her in my arms wherever we go. I like to take care of her but its normal? Sometimes when we are outside she pee her panties and pants and she want hug so I carry her. When we arrive at home i take off the peed clothes and i hug her naked.

    • Sometimes she poop in her panties and she doesn't want to be changed and she wants hugs. When im trying to take of the messy panties she is crying and she doesn't want to be clean. What should i do?

  • Who the Hell walks around their Mother's house naked? This is one odd family if they all accept it; either that or he has some serious respect issues. He needs to get over himself and realize there are more people on Earth than him. And what the Hell does that have to do with your self-esteem?

    • Thanks for your comment I appreciate hearing another man's opinion. He started to make me feel like I was crazy and that I was tripping and things were in my head lol

    • No, something's tripping in his head if he thinks it's okay to walk around naked in his Mother's house when others are also there. I think he said something about your self-esteem just to deflect your comments with confusing BS. I'd put my foot down if I were you.

    • And don't forget to bring the definition of the word modesty to the table.

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  • Ewk. More than because he`s your bf... he shouldn`t be walking around naked precisely because it`s HIS mom`s house. What a sick person.

    • thanks for your comment

  • I'd been wondering who wrote the choices in the Crimean referendum. Now I know.

  • I think it's time you changed your man - he's sick and twisted - he likes the attention he gets - you should show him you don't take crap from men like him and you're not weak either

    • thanks for taking time out to give your opinion. I'm in thought

    • no problem

  • When I lived at home with my parents I used to walk around the house naked all the time; I hate being restricted & I sleep in the nude as well But then again my parents never really gave a shit. I stopped doing that when I moved in with the guys tho, damn bastards acting like it's the 50's...

    • I agree with you im walking around in my briefs or naked when im with my parents. I like to be free

  • Disrespectful to who? Im sure you've seen him naked before? its his body, and its his families house. If you dont like the rules in a household (thats not yours anyway) then why not leave lol. Every family does things slightly differently and why should being naked even be a problem if no one cares?

    • It is because his cousins gf sees him naked.

    • but if it doesn't bother her, or him or anyone else it doesn't matter does it? She's probably got some idea of what body parts he has anyway

    • Because he is showing his sexual parts. I had my bf live with a friend once and I did not know that his friend was in the hallway and I opened the door and I was in my underwear and my bf told me to try to be more careful and after that I was. I never even thought of it being a self esteem thing and I respected that he wanted me to be more careful.

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  • i dont even let my mother see me in my underwear these days...

  • He's an ass.

    • I agree thanks for understanding my question. some people who are giving their opinion just don't get that my boyfriend walking around the house naked has everything to do with me and how I feel

    • I'm sorry for being so blunt but there was no other way to put it. And sister... don't you let him say anything about YOUR self esteem.

  • I mean it is his house, but at the same time he should respect how you feel and not do that in front of her. Does he realize how much its actually bothering you?

  • Thats not cool. he's being stupid.

  • Sounds a bit disrespectful... I wouldn't like it at all. I'd be pissed

  • I'm in agreement with you. First, nothing to do with your self esteem. Its about respect and being respectful to others that are living there regardless of who owns the house. I mean I will do that from time to time but I live alone, and blinds are shut. I wouldn't do that if someone was living with me, it makes people feel uncomfortable, most people.

    • Thanks for your opinion:)

  • I use to do it if I left something in the bathroom, I still do. It's just boobs. I grew up with 12 brothers

  • Your boyfriend is kind of an asshole, I think you should dump him.

  • I love her but if she is jealous then do the same thing and walk naked with anyone around

  • if she doesn't feel comfortable with it I won't do it

  • you should just let him do it, but if you are really that freaked out about it you can eater leave or ask him to cover up near you

  • Update please, this is not your typical scenario and I'm quite interested!

  • If you don't want him to then he shoudktn out of respect for you

  • It's not sexual to be naked it's no big deal but he should respect how you feel about it too.
    you could give it a go start off being naked in your room and move on to underwear in the house then go topless and work your way to fully nude

  • I think its kind of funny. He got use to the people in the house and he walks around naked. Some people are free spirited and they don't think much of nudity. Its as if a whole family is going to a topless beach and they are topless too.
    His reply was a bit extreem. Try to talk about it calmly with him. Ask him why he does it? It might not be a big deal to him. It doesn't have to be about low self esteem. Its probably just a different way of thinking.

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