Would an average guy like a surprise dominatrix roleplay?

[Anonymous]

My friends and I were having a discussion about whether or not your average joe would like to come home to his girlfriend/wife dressed up as a dominatrix (clothing, makeup, whip, "you shall now address me as Miss or Ma'am", the whole shenanigans). I personally think that most guys would enjoy a change from their routine, but I find it difficult for guys to enjoy having their SO commanding to call them Mistress or to blindly submit to every rule. Guys, what's the line between fun dominance and full-blown dominatrix action? How far would you go? Girls: have you tried anything like this? What do you think?

[jesseray]

Domination play should not be sprung on someone by surprise. To be a surprise, there would need to have been no conversations about desires, boundaries, pace, and safe-words. Your partner would not know whether you want to spit in his face, torture his nipples, kick his nuts, humiliate him for his penis size, cuckold him by telling him about how good your previous lovers were, etc. Without that conversation, there is a good chance that your partner will be horrified by your attempt at domination play, and even if your partner went along with it, there is a good chance that you will hurt him. Domination without discussion is a recipe for disaster. With that said...

I would not be too surprised if my partner expressed an interest in mild domination play. The idea of being dominated does not arouse me. Even so, it does arouse me to see my partner become around because of me and I can appreciate the intimacy and entertainment value of the roleplay. I would let her dominate me once in a while. I would not make it a condition of my agreement, but I would suggest that she let me dominate her once in a while. That idea does arouse me. I would like to be equally aroused by both roles, because (I admit) it does seem a bit hypocritical not to be, but I cannot control what turns me on. My dick (penis) is a dick (jerk) and there is nothing I can do about it.

[lericah]

For me fun dominance has an underlying trust and relationship and when your having sex an additional layer where the woman takes charge to do what she wants and to please herself to a greater extent and you to a lesser extent. It involves experimenting and trying new things.

I'm not into the verbal "call me mistress slave" stuff though thats just cause I'm no actor but it's ok as long as it stays in "the bedroom" and the pain is also a no. Dirty talk and a little spanking and prodding is fine though.

It all varies but I think most men will at the least play into it if not want it to be a regular thing.

[Sarah_cheeky_tease]

If ur dominating him he shouldn't get a say as ur in control

[funkipunk]

I don't really understand this fetish. I've seen p*rn before where the woman is treating the man like her bitch and ordering him around. I don't understand why any man would somehow have this be his fantasy.

It's nice sometimes for the woman to take control in the bedroom. Taking care of me, initiating sexual contact, etc. Anything beyond that though, I would have no interest in ever going there.

[Gonetowardthewind]

I'd have to talk about it with her first so she knows what I want, what she wants, a safe word, safety precautions the whole 9 yards. After we've talked about it, then yes I'd love it if I came home one day and she was dressed like that

[SüßeJäger]

No i wouldn't like it. I could probably let her make me do whatever she wants sexually. That about it.

[ProTraceurDGDJ]

I would go soft sooo fast~

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[John83]

I wouldn't be too into calling her ma'am or miss, but having her take control and ordering me to do things for her pleasure would be things I'd be into. Being tied up or handcuffed and blindfolded and spanked by her would also be hot.

[qwerty1313]

I would love it but im not 100% average. It may come as a shock but if you know the guy has some sort of curiosity about it I would do it.

[JennieF]

It definitely worked on mine.

[Anonymous]

it turns me off completely.