This sounds like one of those weird thigh gap issues that doesn't make sense to me; you probably have a healthy, normal body and are seeing something that most people think is normal. You probably already CAN pull off the underwear you want to wear (just size it differently).
HOWEVER! If you must lose fat, then know that there is no way to lose fat in one area alone. The body loses fat from everywhere in a slow, time-consuming effort.
Theoretically speaking, you could lose the fat pad by losing overall fat, but there is no way to lose fat in just one area short of surgical or other costly or unhealthy methods. While I don't recommend stressing over your fat pad, I do recommend that you learn about good eating and exercising habits while young so you can look awesome as an adult.
To lose overall fat (like everywhere): avoid non-fiber carbs (fiber is actually helpful) and high-fat foods and exercise for 30 minutes every day (or an hour every other day).
I think that's really hot, and I think most guys either think it's hot, or are indifferent. No one is going to think bad of you for it, except maybe some catty/bitchy girls.
Wear what you want and forget about this - live your life and enjoy it. You don't have to have a perfect body to be attractive or to have the kind of life you want to have. And few of us have a perfect body anyway.
Having a fat pussy isn't bad , lots of people in the p*rn industry like that type of thing
Self esteem is essential. Work on your confidence. I'm sure it's just in your head.
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I don't see anything unattractive or embarrassing about that. I've seen those in P*rn. They look just fine. Don't feel like a boy. You know you're a girl. And no vagina is alike.
Ha I think that is hot. My x had a really fat and beautiful one too. Grr I miss it.
its not supposed to be completely flat, the mound curve is hot, so dont worry about it, its called the "Mons pubis" by the way in case your wondering and its a normal part of a girls body
I personally love that. My ex had puffy outer lips and a mound to boot. Looked awesome in a bikini because she had nice definition, like that whole bikini bridge thing =P
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