I'm twenty-eight and still a virgin. At this rate I'll be twenty-nine soon and then... a 'wizard' (according to nerdy subcultures).
My friend once told me about how he and his girlfriend exchanged v-cards back in high school.
Ever since then I wanted to find a girl who is also inexperienced so that we could also go through the process of growing and learning with each other.
Currently, I am friends+ with an experienced girl (friends+ means we've gone to 2nd base but we both know that we'll never sleep with each other). She doesn't seem to mind teaching me things like making out and letting me feel her breasts and I think it's cool that she's so nice to me, but both of us have questionable futures and there are good odds that we will move away from each other anyway.
But I have developed a phobia with experienced women. I am afraid of being compared, but also depressed that I cannot be the guy to give a girl her first orgasm.
I want to say that I would be very emotionally attached to my first sex partner. She would mean the end of my curse and probably be one of my best friends for life if not potential spouse.
I would be lying if I didn't say that I had not contemplated suicide, or at least remaining a virgin forever. But at my age there are no more women 'like me' and I'm slowly realizing that I really will never be able to do what you are thinking of doing.
Congratulations to you both! I'm happy for the both of you. You two are going to be each others' firsts and always have a special place for each other regardless of whether you marry or separate!
I lost it pretty young and unexpectedly at that while it was THE BEST experience I've had in all times till date - guess nothing's going to beat that feeling & memory immaterial how many have been great after that :)
Emotionally attached to her I was and losing it to her made it deeper for sure :)
Losing virginity is generally an emotional thing for both genders immaterial if it's a 'stick it in' kind of a situation at that point of time. With guys the emotion is mostly like 'I'm a man I'm a man, I scored...' etc ;) but there are guys who value it too and are sentimental about who they lost it to
Most guys don't care and they act like it's a chore. It's pretty sad. If you're lucky enough to find a guy who actually values losing his virginity with you, then cherish the experience : )
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99 percent of men want to lose their virginity as fast as possible.
Not all men do have sex right away in their teens but unless their religious or can't get a girl, most will try to.
Most guys are like this...
"WOOHOOHOOHOOOOOOOO!!!"
xD nice.
If you're under 18, then you shouldn't be having sex. You talk as if you're 30 or something or at least your mid 20's.
I wasn't emotionally attached. I just really really wanted to have sex. I was 16, we were in a car, and I was so excited I lasted about 2 seconds after I put it inside her. But I was glad I'd had sex. Didn't make me feel bad at all.
"How do guys feel about losing their virginity?"
woo hoo finally...
by the way aren't you too young for sex?
When I first lost my virginity, I was emotionally attached as it was something new to me. You will always remember your first. Tips? Since it's the first time for both you guys. I would recommend you to foreplay or do something that leads to it and not force it. For example, maybe go out for a romantic movie and dinner before doing it. That way you guys are emotionally into each other first and everything else will follow. Also remember to use a condom and be careful! Enjoy the moment!
I lost my virginity on a family vacation with a girl that I met staying at the same hotel. I was just really excited to have sex and I didn't really have any emotional attachment to this girl. I'm actually kind of glad it happened this way because the first time is never really that good. I have no regrets about it to this day.
A man is not a Virgin. He is is just yet un-fukked. There is no momentous emotional ceremony. Just relief that we have finally gotten in. My only first time regret is that it hadn't gone better. I was so excited I shot on the way in. If I could only have held out 30 seconds so I could have had just a little in out in out in out in out before I came...
Do you A. get emotionally attached or B. are you just happy to stick it in.
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