first of all, sorry for the jackass. obviously he's not a very good friend and now you know that which makes me wonder why you're even still writing about him. next, i would say to him how he's making you feel and that you blew him because you thought he was a good guy etc.. you can't tell him what to do after that but you can at least explain to him that what he's doing now is wrong. also, for my own amusement, or well, not amusement, but more like for my own information, when you said you "like" him are you saying you like like him or just liked him as a friend (and i know that just sounded juvenile but I'm just curious as to what you meant.) I have a very inquisitive mind and am always trying to better understand things for future reference.
as far as the whole swallowing thing goes. i don't know where he's coming from. i think any girl that can DT as well as swallow is a pretty cool girl. i can't think of a single reason why swallowing would be a bad thing. maybe only that he wanted to do a cumshot instead of having you swallow it. we like to do that if she doesn't mind, on occasion, because it's kind of a hot thing to do (at least to us it is, if not the girl). you may have wanted to say something like, do you want me to swallow it, or "im going to swallow it if you don't pull out". He could have also been more vocal about it and been like, " i want to do a cumshot". it's embarrasing but at least its the truth and that you know what he wants (even if you dont want it--which in then that case you could have said no)
sorry this is long, first real question I've actually genuinely felt bad for in a while
Swallowing is a GOOD thing, not a bad thing.
This guy was a jerk for talking about your business to everyone, and for making a good thing seem bad. Unfortunately, this is why it's best not to be sexual with people you aren't in an actual relationship with - by definition, such people aren't very invested in you, so it's no big deal to them to use you or to publicly hurt you like he did.
Even though you did this with HIM, after being friends with him a long time, he didn't respect you, not so much because you swallowed, but because you blew him even though you weren't in a relationship together. In his mind, that makes you a slut, and he doesn't respect sluts, so trashing your reputation was no big deal to him. That's how jerks are.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Some men lose respect for women who do not withhold their bodies (even their mouths). It's kind of disappointing to see someone you know and care about just surrender like that. Likely, he feels this way, and is a little hurt that he got that from you without going about it the right way, wooing you for year (s) and getting to know your innermost heart, before committing to you. So yeah, he lost a little respect for you.
But him telling others that you swallow is a childish, pathetic way of making himself feel better than you, because after all, there were two at that party. So it speaks volumes about his own personality.
Don't worry about it too much, and be glad you didn't make him your boyfriend. Then you'd be attached to a stupid, pathetic little boy, who gets hurt over things he had a hand in, himself.
The guy is an asshole - it's totally normal.
Well he lost respect for you because you blew him, not because you swallow. I mean he's your 'friend', there's no strings attached and he clearly doesn't owe you anything back. That's why having sex outside of relationships is always a bad idea, especially a one-sided thing like a blowjob. He used you and is now throwing you away, ironically probably in part to disguise his own shame.
Not to say his behavior in response to it isn't disgusting, though. It really is. And it's a shame that in this society if you call a girl a slut even if you allowed her to fuck you, there's a good chance everyone around is going to chime in. But it's the way it is, that's why as a girl you have to be all the more careful. I mean clearly you have terrible judgement if you thought this guy was an actual friend in the first place, so I'd be very careful whose cock I choose to blow if I were you.
Well he is a complete ass..
For some it is the ultimate in hot and actually means something on an emotional level when a woman swallows (for me it means a lot).
for others they are turned off by it.
it is unfortunate that you did something incredible for a jackass that doesn't appreciate it or you.
At least you found out about him and can drop him quick.
Sounds like a pretty fucked up friend. I would tell everyone he came in a minute> assholes like him ruin it for other guys.
Sounds like you suck great cock and honestly you would think he might want you to do it again, so why screw himself up?
You sure he wasn't bragging?
Yup. He said he hates me and told everyone what a dirty sl-t I am. Also called me an ugly skank, over & over...
I can't comprehend that, makes no sense to me. Most guys like it.
He was really really uncool for telling other people you did something that amazing for him. He obviously didn't deserve it. Going forward, don't think every guy would be such a jerk.
Many guys would think they'd died and gone to heaven if their girl swallowed. Obviously he has issues and it's too bad you had to blow him to see his true colors.
He is an idiot.
He a Clown for what he did, he should of thanked you and lift you up to a pedestal. Its a real shame you got with such a scumbag. Tell me if you still are troubled to find BWC because i have 8.5inches and The catch is that i keep my mouth shut until i die if you hook up with me haha
What a jerk
I think its more the fact that you hook up... I think a good girl would only swallow for someone she was exclusive with
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