Girls, are guys with a foot fetish creepy?

I have a foot fetish. Will this scare away most girls? What's the best way to go about sharing it? I don't want it to ruin my relationships in the future. I know some girls are just scared to death of it. Advice please!!!
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  • I advise to let girls know up front, early on. For example, when you're starting to get to know each other, ask her what's the weirdest thing about her and to be honest, and you'll tell her the weirdest thing about you. This will give you an opportunity to say that you've got a fascination with girls' feet and toes and they're a turn-on and you like to smell them or suck a girl's toes or whatever your thing is. It's OK to say you have a foot fetish. Yes, this will scare away 90% of girls. They'll want to distance themselves from you. And it's awkward if they are girls that you have to interact with every day. But eventually you'll find some girls in the 10% who will respond by saying "Really? That sounds sexy. Would my feet turn you on if I let you enjoy them?" And they would be open-minded and let you spend some time with their feet and allow you to be you, and not get bent out of shape about it.

    If you take the strategy of keeping your fetish a secret and then slowly reveal it, you will probably find that your girl is among the 90% and she'll dump you in a hurry. You will have wasted your time, energy, money, and your hope and dreams on a girl who's going to dump you anyway. Telling her early on will let you know if she's going to be a good match for you.

  • The last girl I was seeing was convinced I have a foot fetish. I just liked rubbing her feet but for me it was a way of showing that I care for her and trying to take care of her sorta thing. I didn't get off on it or get aroused just by touching her feet.

    Anyway, she was totally cool and accepting. Like others have said, I just wouldn't bust it out right away. Save it for when you guys reach that level of comfort with each other.

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  • I don't know if my ex had a fetish or not but he'd obsess over my feet saying how tiny they are or how "cute" they are and fascinate over my toes. He'd love to touch my feet and tickle my feet. Which he didn't know at first and he caught me off guard so I had no idea but if you tickle me there I can kick... and scream... pretty loud haha So I woke up his whole house in the middle if the night basically. He always offered me a foot massage or want to touch my feet. It was really odd but I got used to it. I don't think he appreciated the kicks that came with it though. You just got to find the right one hopefully she won't kick the sh*t out of you! haha

  • I don't have a foot fetish myself but I'd be OK with it if my partner was into it. It's really not as creepy for me and I absolutely love foot massages too... so :) Best way to go about it is to just tell the girl it upfront. Don't be shy about it. Perhaps just don't use the word "fetish". Just say "I'm really into feet" or something like that. The word fetish can sometimes worsen things because it sounds then more like a obsession of some sort when in reality it's hopefully just a really big turn on.

    • I like how you feel about it as i love girls feet. somw girls say this is weird. I guess they don't like to have their feet rubbed after a long day in heels. girls would kill to get a foot rub everyday. Which i what i would do everyday. Cause i really love girls feet. Glad your ok with it. I especially love girls feet in sheer and silky pantyhose. I love to give them foot rub and i could feel her silky pantyhose feet and we both can enjoy.

  • I know for me it 's really weird when I've met guys that have a foot fetish. They always ask for pictures of feet or to take your foot out of your shoe. Also I'm thinking if they really see me as a whole person do they like me or my feet? And why feet you walk everywhere on them?

    If you have a foot fetish advice I would have to say don't be creepy about it and over-do always constantly asking for her feet. And don't make it seem like you're focused on her feet most of the time.

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  • It's a pretty common fetish, so even thought it baffles me as to how someone could find feet sexy, I can still tolerate it. My feet are not pretty though.. So I'd totally feel super self-conscious if my partner wants to play with my feet.

    But foot fetish is not as creepy or gross as, say, blood or pee fetish.

  • I think its werid I akso thinj most girls will but I dont think irs a deal breaker if your in a relationship, just dont tell them right away cuz that might scare them away

  • i don't have a foot fetish personally but i don't see how it is weird... i think it's rather sweet... it's funny how people call these guys weird (i. e. guys who love the female body... even if it's quite a peculiar part of it) while weird dick/balls/blowjobs/anal/cum obsessed freaks with repressed homosexuality are not considered weird... people just can't think for themselves... p*rn is their bible... what's in p*rn is good... what's not in p*rn is bad...

    • i mean is a foot fetish weird and is anal not? come on...

  • I am an extremely ticklish cheeka and I know I'd find it weird if you started go at my feet sensually out of the blue. But if we got to know each other, and I was into you, after awhile of messing around and getting comfortable with each other I'd be all about your weirdness. You just gotta find the babe that's down with it otherwise ease into showing off some of your freaky side. ;)

  • I have always thought I had big feet so I was self concious of my feet. My sisters would make fun of my feet when I was younger. I wear a size 10 but love getting pedicures and foot massages. I just met this guy who has a foot fetish and he straight up told me right away, "I kinda have a foot fetish by the way". I had never been with a man who had a foot fetish before. He started by giving me foot and leg massages which I really enjoyed. The first time he put my feet and toes on his ***k I didn't know what to do. I could tell he was disappointed. But then after him kissing, licking and biting my feet I couldn't help but get turned on by that. Now I love wrapping my toes around him and giving him a footjob. Or having him tie my ankles together and giving him a footjob. I know it turns him on and my feet getting attention turns me on. You will find a woman who loves it just like I do. Just start slowly... It took him a month to put the moves on my feet ;)

    • I hope i can find a girl like you as i really love girls feet Especially in sheer and silky pantyhose Its auch a turn and love to rub them everyday if had someone to do this for. I really love girls feet. she will get her feet rubbed and i can feel her silky pantyhose feet so we both would enjioy. Your awesome girl.

  • you shouldn't tell her you have a foot fetish.
    while you have sex with her after awhile, go ahead and do your fetish!!