My husband wants me to use a strap-on on him. What have you done to your man regarding toys?

[Anonymous]

I'm not too sure about it. We have used toys, on him and me but I still find it a bit strange. He really likes it and I want to please him. Do other guys like this? Is he normal? Do any other wives do this and like doing it? Using toys was not too bad but using a strap-on is just a bit full on for me at this stage.

[BeardedJaw]

Yep, it is kind of 'extreme' and 'out there' on most levels. But a lot of couples have worse and crazier stuff.

Just be sure to tell him what you feel and not 'act like you like it' just to make him happy. Because sex is for two people (or more?), and if one of you is seriously offended and utterly disgusted by something, just stop.

So talk about it, consider it, TRY it if you think it's doable. Then talk about it afterwards.

Compromise.

[Cheeky_Unfortunate]

It's normal. A lot of couples do this. However it's one of those "try it" type things. You should try it but if you don't like it then let that be the end of it for you. Trust me you won't lose anything ( other than possible catastrophic levels of respect, but it's temporary ) doing so.

[bubbiexo]

It is not something that I word be into personally, but everyone has their own preferences!!! Obviously you know him well because he is your husband, so it is your decision. Talk with him about it and if you're uncomfortable you don't have to do it. I knew a woman whose fiancé was really into that kinda stuff, and she complied a few times.

[marebear22]

My husband has never asked me to but that doesn't mean its abnormal. Sex is about experimenting and exploring. As long as your comfortable with it then I say go for it.

[CuriousEddie]

I think it is hot... I like the reversal of roles.

[Anonymous]

Any guy here will call that "gay" due to lack of experience and maturity. If it's his wish, give it a try! Sex is about experimenting as marebear22 mentioned, and we all have a fetish!