I think that you're setting yourself up for a huge amount of pain and confusion.
The reason FWB is bad for girls is that people can't pick and choose how their minds and bodies will respond.
When humans kiss, touch, cuddle or have sex, it creates chemicals and hormones in our brains and bodies. And those chemicals also create an emotional bond with our partner. And the emotional bond is usually *much* more powerful for women. So the guy gets the benefits of sex and affection. But the girl doesn't get the advantage of a stable committed man.1 1 0 0Haha, hate it to break it to you but you're not friends with benefits.
If you've got the 'benefits' -and- you've got an agreement that you're in an exclusive relationship, then I think you're in is an exclusive relationship ;)0 0 0 0
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1 2Hes going away to college and you're supposed to not be with other people physically or emotionally? Why? The point of FWB's is that they don't interfere with your opportunity for real relationships. You don't have an opportunity for a real relationship with this guy.
0 1 0 0How do I not have an opportunity for a real relationship with him? We've been in one before and we could do it again right?
I can't imagine a guy wanting a real relationship with someone and then just letting it go like he did. Seriously. People in great relationships don't "take breaks."
Well I just noticed you said the point of fwbs is so that it doesn't interfere with your opportunity for real relationships. We both don't want a real relationship and if we did it would be with each other. Its just not possible for us right now because he's leaving soon. He thinks college will really change things. I see your point though. I guess its just hard since you don't know our relationship.
agreed 100% with anonclyguy
0 0 0 0Thank you :)
don't do it cause these never work and they always complicate things and
bring all ur old feelings back0 2 0 0And isn't that why you two broke up in the first place? cause of ur feelings for one another?
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