How on earth is it it going to fit inside?

I have recently just into my first relationship. We haven't had sex yet but I don't think it will be long as we have done all the things before. I have masturbated before, and I am really tight. I can't seem to get a hairbrush up properly, and I know my boyfriends penis is bigger than my hairbrush handle.. He has also commented when fingering me that I am really tight.. (Although he said this is good as it will feel better for him) So yeah basically.. How is it going to get up if I can't get the hairbrush handle up? If I keep trying it with a hairbrush will it make it easier?
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  • I would suggest you get a dildo that isn't too too big. And get some lube. Start by stimulating your clitoris until you get aroused and wet. Then use lots of lube and gently insert the dildo into your vagina. Your vagina may be "tight," but remember that it will accomodate the birth of a baby. If you have any remnants of your hymen that haven't already been stretched, using the dildo will help with that. Doing this on your own will show you that your bf's penis will fit inside you just fine. The first time you have intercourse with him you may want to get on top. That way you can insert his penis when you are ready, and only insert it as far and as fast as you are comfortable with. And use lots of lube. You'll be fine.

  • I'd suggest buying a set of graduated dildos. Use them to gradually stretch things. He'll fit. It just may take a lot of patience. Id suggest you use the spoon position the first time so you can completely control the initial penetration. Astroglide is a great lube. Take your time. There's no hurry. Enjoy!

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  • Sounds like you haven't broken your hymen. I don't know why you would. It hurts. So I highly doubt you did while you were masturbating.

    Once that's broken, it'll be easier. Sex will still hurt for awhile though. People like to act like it only hurts the first time.

    Just take it easy.

  • Trust me, it will fit. The vagina is a very accommodating muscle. Use plenty of lube and go slowly.

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  • Oh trust me it will, it stretches and it fits lol. It might be painful at first though, after that it will feel great!

  • Are you trying the hairbrush handle when you're on the verge of orgasm, or just randomly?

    • To start off with

    • Get close to orgasm, then try.

    • I'll try that. How do I do that with my boyfriend? Lots of foreplay before we try?

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  • If he's got a dick like a baby, it can fit.
    That is:it can be 13" long and weigh 10 lbs.

  • Just have lots of foreplay and lube. It will be ok. My exwife was the same way, I'm average sized and it worked! Lol. She said the pain was like 3/10 so not bad.

  • Not being in control does wonders for the body. You wouldn't believe what will fit where when you're not the one pushing on it!

    • Would it not turn you off if it took a lot of effort to get it in? Haha

    • Human tenacity takes care of that. We're just not quitters.

  • You will need lots of lubrication

  • As someone else has said, it is designed to fit a baby out of it, a guys penis is about 10 times thinner, just be really wet and use lots of lube

  • Maybe your not ready

    • Not ready to masturbate either?

    • Maybe not with a hairbrush

  • use a bigger dildo as other people posted. worse case scenario, use an eggplant, a cucumber, banana,

  • Where there's a will there's a way!

  • Lube and lots of patience.

    You do know a baby can come out of there, right?

    Also, it might sound stupid, but it has happened before... make sure you can tell the difference between your vaginal canal and your urethra, because some girls can't.

  • get some lube..