How does a woman sexually abuse a man?

I am curious as to what constitutes as a woman raping a man, because I doubt any woman could truly overpower a man so there must be non-violent ways that a woman could rape a man. I know there are plenty of men who have been sexually abused by women and many of them do not report having been abused, but I do not know what is considered sexual abuse when it comes to a woman abusing a male.
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  • -There are guys out there who are so well conditioned to never "hit a girl" that they won't even defend themselves when being physically assaulted.
    -Sneak into his bed while he's asleep.
    -She could drug him first.
    -He could be underage.
    -She could have a weapon to threaten him with.
    -And lastly, yes it is physically possible for a woman to overpower a man. Statistically speaking most can't but some can. I went to high school with a 3-time female national champion wrestler. She was the nicest person ever and would never do anything like this, but if she wanted to, she could overpower most of the guys in the school.

    As to why he wouldn't consent:
    -He's gay.
    -He's simply not attracted to her.
    -He's in a committed relationship.

    As for what is considered sexual abuse. Legally it's still the same definitions as for women. In reality, the stigmas and questions of believability make it a very messy situation to investigate, prove, and prosecute.

    • well they also may not be ready. its as you sad any reason a woman has a man should have. its just that statistics say that men are supposed to be the sexual one and that isn't always true. people look at the majority.

  • This must be the 3rd question today about this.Don't doubt that a woman can overpower a man, if she plans it right.Some women could rip a man's dick off if they didn't get their way.

    I woke up one night to find one such woman on top of me, and wanting sex.She was about 2" taller than me and pretty athletic.When she angry, she had the strength of 10 tigers.I told her it wasn't a good idea, and she gave me a fair whack in the head.I knew that wouldn't get dressed and out the door without a few scars or body parts missing.
    She got her wicked way and it wasn't too unpleasant.She was 19 years younger than me and she was in good shape.

    At least she made me breakfast in the morning, but I'd still prefer it never happened.

Most Helpful Girls

  • There are ways of taking advantage of anybody like that without physical coercion. For example, drugging their drinks or food (with roofies or some other kind of strong sedative). A woman can sexually assault a man by forcing him to have sex with her against his will. If he does not consent, that is rape.

    • Also, if an adult woman has sex with a male who is under the age of consent, or who is a minor in some areas, that is statutory rape.

  • Either she is a big girl or she asked him if that rag smelled like chloroform

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  • The others are spot on. Spiking a drink and other things can be done to lower a man's inhibitions or make him out of it so that she can do what she wants. Not all guys want to have sex with anybody. Many men won't confess to being sexually assaulted because when other people find out that they are, they are viewed as 'weak' and 'unmanly' so it hurts their morale and self-esteem.

  • The vast majority of rapes don't involve physical force and asking if the victim did everything in their power to fight off the assailant isn't required for it to be considered rape.

    Beyond that there are plenty of possibilities. Note for example men get regular erections while sleeping.

    Sexual assault is a lot broader then rape.

  • OK ladies, in the interest of scientific exploration only, I unselfishly offer my body for you all to try different methods of sexual coercion, so long as it involves only you ladies and it all stays on my front side. Lol! Who is first? ;)

  • Coercion comes in many forms, direct physical force is just the most obvious and easiest to identify. This is a really good topic that more people need to talk about and get informed.

  • Have you ever had sex with a man who was extremely drunk? And let's say you wasn't drunk at all If so you forced to penetrate

  • If the woman is obese and extremely ugly smelly and dirty, i would die.

  • If you drug him and you have sex without his permission while he is passed out. That would be rape.

  • Some cougars take advantage of real drunk young people.

  • Spiking drinks. Snuffing out etc...

  • In any ordinary setting, forceable rape of a man is probably impossible. If a guy doesn't want sex, he won't get hard, so that eliminates penetration. If he does get hard, he has become willing.

    "My eighth grade teacher lured me to her house to have sex." "Any emotional scars?" "Nope, just fond memories."

    Two scenarios I can imagine would involve "gang rape". One would be several girls restraining a guy and giving him forceable oral. But like the above, if he becomes hard, he will have become willing. The other is real. Restraining him and forceably penetrating anally with a dildo. That's how F on M rape may actually take place.

    • An erection isn't consent. It's common for women being raped to get physically aroused that's not consent either.

  • women "sexually abuse" or "rape" men in different ways than a guy does to a woman for example (how a girl does it): when a girl goes out with a guy (whos nice and treats her right) than the girl is all sweet and maybe shows sexual interest and everything goes well etc then all of a sudden she eventually turns the opposite and gets "distant" and then leaves the guy without a word or "uses" the guy, just so she can be cruel to dump him so she can feel superior or whatever, or "control" a guy and not let him do anything even if its sexual with the girl especially if he's a genuine nice guy whos clingy, obsessive, committed and desperate for her especially if its "too soon/fast" from what girls call it

  • Anything that constitutes of forced sex i.e. w/o total consent of the man or woman is rape.

    Apart from the fact that there are cases of various women getting together to overpower an obviously either physically weaker man / boy or spiking his drink / food etc, there are cases of marital rape too where for various reasons the guy can't perform but the woman insists on sex forcefully. In the latter it's not physical but the more potent mental force :)

  • Peter Griffin has been raped quite a bit actually.