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Did he cum inside of me or weird joke?

Okay, so me and my guy were having sex. The usual. We use the pull out method more then condoms. This time we were using the pull out method. We were having sex for about 15-20 min then he was on top steady motions/fast back and forth then slowed and laid limp on top of me. I felt a slight quick pulse. I asked right away after he stopped "what's wrong?" He answered "I came." I was immediately confused because we don't do this. I said "wait are you serious." Then he said "well did you get back on your birthcontrol?" I answered "no, you know I'm not." And then he leaned foward and thrusted upward a few times still inside of me. I again said "what're you doing?" And then he said "I'm kidding." I was so confused and he slowly was becoming harder again and we continued having another round of sex for 10-15 min in which I visually seen him pull out and ejaculate. I'm just frustrated because why would he kid about that or is he just too embarrassed to tell me the truth that he actually did? Anyone have a clue?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Honestly, when you use the "pull out" method, it's a risk. You have definitely more risks of getting pregnant doing that.
    I really don't trust this method because even if I'd trust my boyfriend, I know that you can be caught up in the moment and forget to pull out...even pre cum can get you pregnant. He was not funny but you have to be aware that if you do get pregnant, it'd be both you fault. I would not be able to stress each time I'm about to get my period. You should really check for a real contraceptive (pills, implant or IUD)

  • If he was immediately hard again, I doubt he came inside you but it's impossible to know for sure. When he pulled out, was there a normal amount of fluid?

  • I suggest you get yourself on some sort of birth control.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Why are you worried. You obviously do not care if you get pregnant because the pull out method really isn't much better then letting him fill you up on the inside. Plus, wouldn't you know if he came inside you? can't you feel it? i know it usually runs out of a woman when she gets up right? if he is young he might be able to rebound that quick so it is certainly possible he did. you need to try and get him to tell you the truth.

  • precum makes you pregnant - so pull out doesn't work, even if calculating your moon cycle

    quick pulse = he did cum a bit, even though he was slowing down to prevent it, sometimes you can feel the warm cum

    lie = didn't want to end the session in trouble, now counting on his luck that it "didn't take"

    can't be trusted anymore, gal - outside of marriage
    but he won't do that this week, right?

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  • He was probably scared to admit
    its better to take a contraceptive now
    better safe then sorry

    • I feel like that's my only option. I don't know why he would kid about such a thing?

    • because he is probably scared

  • Sounds like he said "I'm kidding" to prevent you from getting mad. It worked.

  • Pull out is dogey
    But maybe he didn't cum but was about to and stopped so he calmed down went a limp
    Got into it again and bam I'm done
    How long from the pulse till he has soft and then how long till hard again if 2-5 min chances r he didn't blow but is poss but if 10 or so there's a lot greater chance he did
    And to why he did man not always very clever when all the blood that's meant to be making brain think right is in his willy

  • The longer your session of intercourse, the more semen will have leaked into the penis/precum. My precum is crystal clear at first but becomes cloudy the longer I go (i see this in masturbation). The cloudiness is semen. If you are not ready to start a family, use another method.

  • The pull out method is playing with fire, precum can contain sperm and you can easily get pregnant without him ejaculating, go on birth control or use condoms

    • BC AND condoms

    • No, if she was on birth control i wouldn't be using condoms.

  • he did most likely

  • Sounds like you handled that situation really poorly and he is a douche bag. Enjoy your baby!

    • Aye I'm 26, not exactly worried in that sense just want to know if my man is being honest.

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