I have Asperger's syndrome so is it OK to hire a prostitute to lose my virginity to?

I'm sure the right one will never come because love doesn't apply to me. I've tried so hard the last 4 years to find a girlfriend and nothing worked out. Maybe it's also bad luck.
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I'm just a cowardly wimpy pussy and I can never man up. Prostitutes are meant for some people.
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  • Hell yes, it's okay. You are not the only one with such a dilemma. Just be sure your choice for the evening is not compromised by a pimp or other exploitation (which satisfies the "moral" part of it). Virgins are just prostitutes waiting for the right price. Eric Fromm says we choose partners like buying cars--What can we get for what we have? Western culture is saturated with sexual guilt wrought by a certain religious superstition with which you should have no part. I'm married, but sex has always been about giving something to the girl, like it or not, in exchange for sex. I could expatiate at length over phony morality here, but won't. Don't think you are demeaning a girl making $100 an hour or more. I've known some prostitutes personally, but have never paid for sex (but have decided I will once I'm old). The only surprising thing about the girls is that they are normal people and often do have "hearts of gold." It is a business drawing billions of dollars yearly and so will never be legislated away. If you've got $2000 (total cost including airfare, I think) you can go to Pattaya to Soi 6 or Walking Street in Thailand and party your buns off for 2 or 3 weeks. If you can get to Europe you can go to Spain or Germany and meet the girls of your dreams. And there's always Nevada$ So get out there and boogie already.

    I think your real problem is being down on yourself. It is not a crime to be different, and being different gives one a POV the squares will never know.

  • Find a program like ASPPIRE, but for your state. There's more women in those programs than you realize. And likely one you can at least tolerate, if not fall head-over-heels in love with. The program I'm in has resulted in marriages of individuals who thought they stood no chance at ever getting married.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Not a good idea. You will remember losing your virginity for you whole life, do you really wanna give it to a woman who only wants to get paid? Plus, prostitutes will give you some funky disease.

    • Love isn't meant for those on the Autism spectrum, unless you're very lucky. Because dating is unbelievably difficult no matter how hard I try. I have nothing to lose with a hooker. STDs don't worry me.

  • Have you tried meeting other people with Asperger's syndrome? specifically females? My personal belief would be I think it's better to stay a virgin than have sex with a prostitute.

  • That would probably be a somewhat good route since women generally don't like social awkwardness. Prostitutes however will overlook it for quick cash.

    • That's correct. Losing money won't bother me since everyone else is so lucky compared to me. I've suffered so much from this evil disorder that I have nothing to lose.

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  • Short answer: fuck what other people tell you is the right way to live if you're not hurting other people.

    If you would like to have sex with a prostitute and if you're reasonably confident that doing so would make you feel happy after, not worse, then find an independent prostitute who is not being pimped or enslaved, enjoy yourself.

  • I've been through the same dilemma, however I decided not to do it. Ask yourself this question: do you really want to have sex with someone who doesn't desire you at all?

    I mean, you're 24 at most, there's still hope you'll find a girl willing to do all the work to form a relationship with you. You might think love is only for the very lucky, but why wouldn't you be a part of the very lucky as well?

  • Go for it man

  • Sounds like you have put some thought into it. Go for it.

  • Why would u want to fuck a prostitute. That's no replacement for love. It almost sounds like dating is only for sex to you. "I have no success dating so, I'm going to get a prostitute"

    • I don't care about love. I never loved myself and I never will because I look so ugly.

    • So its all about sex for you. Go buy a sex toy and be done with it.

  • If you're okay with it, why not?

  • I don't know why having Asperger's qualifies you for a prostitute, but I don't think you should do that.

    • Because I tried so hard at dating and nothing works. I can't stop being nice and letting others step all over me. There's no way I can be proud of myself because I've always had very low self-esteem since early childhood.