Taken from Wikipedia: Fellatio (also known as fellation,[1] and colloquially blowjob, BJ, giving head, or sucking off[2]) is an oral sex act, involving the use of the mouth or throat, performed by a person on the penis of another person or oneself (autofellatio) fellatio can be sexually arousing for males and females, and may lead to orgasm and ejaculation of semen for males.[3][4] It may be performed between opposite-sex or same-same sex couples as foreplay to incite sexual arousal before other sexual activities (such as vaginal or anal intercourse),
If you only attempted to rob a bank (but somehow failed to walk out with the money), would that not count as bank robbery? Try telling it to the judge.
Couldn't have said it better lol.
My bf would say no. I have sucked on him once and talked about giving him a blowjob that day and he would be like what blowjob? He never counts it unless he goes.
No. If that was the case, the number of orals my boyfriend has given me has been 2... let's say it counts if at least for more than 10 seconds ahahha.
If a guy puts his wang in a girl and thrusts for a while but neither parties orgasm, did they not have sex?
Yes, they did.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Yes it only counts if he comes. If he wasn't there it couldn't have happened.
Now cums is a different story...
Err no. You are so wrong. If a man had sex with you but never cum, would you say you never had sex? No! Blow job or Fellatio from the Latin term fellāre, means. If you suck a mans penis you have performed a blow job whether he cums or not. Ejaculation happens after orgasm, but it is something that MAY happen during a blow job. Some men need a hand to help or a long maintained blow job as some of us don't cum so quickly!
Means to suck, or sucking* sorry! missed out some stuff! stupid iPad
Ok you guys completely misunderstood the point/joke that I was making. She said COMES now the definition of comes is: to come to or come towards. But what she meant was CUMS as in:ejaculating. Then I even threw in the correct form of CUM when I said BlowJob but no one can seem to understand it...
like the Anon said, it doesn't really matter.
But for my own terminology, when I say "BJ" I do mean that to include coming during the oral.
Count for what? Do you mean does it count for your scorecard that you gave a blow job? Dick in mouth is blow job. Maybe good; maybe bad; maybe not finished. But blow job it is.
I've never not came but it still counts. How about the opposite question. I sometimes cum 2 or 3 times during a bj. Does that count for 2 or 3 bj's? I would say no, just 1. You get my point.
I may not cum, but still have an orgasm. you ought to feel it in your mouth, and maybe a little cum may come out.
It's a bj if his penis is in your mouth. just like it's intercourse if his penis is in your vagina, whether or not either of you cum
No. It totally still counts.
Honestly, I don't care as long as I'm getting it, and I eventually get to cum, I don't care what the woman uses.
What guy below me said
not a bj if your hand touches his cock at all, plus you must gargle then swallow his cum or he will start looking for a girl that will
MY GAWDDDD HE MUST COME!!! COME ONNN!!!
Thanks for this dude, I'm so sick of weak men giving women bullshit advise about real men. If your going to suck our dicks purely, then you do it to completion. How can i enjoy a quitter?
Well technically she performed oral or not... Now if doesn't cum that' just says how good she was at it. Whether she satisfied him or not and visa versa... But regardless they still had oral sex. Saying its not is like when guys say I'm say I'm only going to stick it in a little and some idiot girl thinks she's not losing her virginity but regardless they still fucked... Or like when people have oral or anal sex and think that they didn't lose their virginity... Regardless it still happened!
No. It's a BJ as long as you take it in and out a couple of times. Finishing him is just the goal.
All jobs get grades...
These are for BJs, not HJs, sex/other:
A+ cums in mouth, swallow, lick it clean until limp
A cums in mouth
B cums by mouth on you in sensual place
C cums a lot by hand on you in sensual place
D cums mostly by hand nowhere special
F doesn't cum but feels damn good
Hahaha..no And reading replies to other answers, your friend clearly doesn't know what he or she is talking about. Once that penis goes into the mouth, you have given a blowjob. Same thing with eating out and sex.
No, that's like saying sex only counts if the penis or vagina cums. Sex is sex. Doesn't matter if one cums or how long it lasted. Intercourse is intercourse.
Keeping tally of this stuff is stupid anyways.
I think it's stupid too. I just asked this question because I've only given a blowjob once and my friend says it doesn't count because he didn't come from my mouth but my hand.
Getting into all the details of that is weird anyways, even if it's just sharing it with a friend. Not attacking you, just saying in general.
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