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I have been married 15 years this May. Overall I'm satisfied. We generally have sex twice a week. In some ways I'm doing better than a lot of other married folks I know, but there are things I wish would be a bit different.
You are lucky
When i was married it was the same thing everytime. I worked everyday at a physically demanding job, she would always do it right when i wanted to sleep. It would not have been bad if she was good at sex. She layed there and just took it and made these horrible mimics of p*rn actresses as they moan so fake in their films. She couldnt ride at all and never wanted to go down on me no matter how often or how long i went down on her. I dont mind cause i love to taste and see and smell a woman's intimate slice of heaven. She also started to let herself go i kept myself in the same shape our entire marriage and she gained weight because she found a job at burger king and ate out everyday. Marriage is something i probably will never do its not worth what i went through and women are crazy period. better to stay and play and when you get tired of the person you leave with no hassle of legal papers. It would take quite the woman to settle me down and hold me down i hope i dont find her i like meeting new people and not having a mother telling me what to do and the lack of effort in the bed room.
I'm not married any more, but I was for about 6 years.I would have to say it was less than satisfactory, and nowhere near as frequent as before marriage.On average, I probably missed out at least 5 days out of 7.It could have been more like 6 out of 7.
Married 15 years.No, not satisfied.Why? Hard to pick whether its lack of enthusiasm or lack of sex in general, but they are intertwined.Been like that for a long time, started before we were married tbh.
Ohh ok. So how did you manage to stay in the relationship for such a long time if you are not satisfied with sex?
I'd been raised to think that you're supposed to wait and not push and sex is a bonus kind of thing. That doesn't really match up with how i -feel- but I didn't recognize that, plus i just... didn't have experiences of an actual good sexual relationship, beyond the early days with my now wife. So instead of saying early on 'this isn't acceptable, we need to improve this or its over' i just kept trying to fix problems, please her and hope things would improve again.By the time I had a better grasp on things, we have kids, etc. I try to nudge things in the direction of improvement, they are better then they were a couple years ago, but still 1/4 of what i'd like in both quality and quantity.
Erm, at least these couples are getting some form of sex, unlike many singles
You are not satisfied i guess..
I'm not married.
Hmmm...Then may i please know the reason for putting up this question my dear?
It's because I am curious.
Oh god! It's so cute! Girls are always curious. HeheBut you will never get any accurate opinions on these subject. World ia getting infidel day by day. People ( both men& women) find their way out for satisfaction.
Yeah you're right. Are you married?
No my dear..i am single :-)
Do you have plans of getting married?
No dear..i am student right now...what about you?
No plans atm but I want to get married someday.
Then marry me! LoooooooolDon't worry...i wish, that you get your dream boy to spend life with. :-) Are you single?
Lol. I have a boyfriend.
I am going to jump from my terrace now. :-( :-(Byeee
Hehehe I Wish you best of luck for both of you sweet heart. Well i am in air right now, just few seconds awayyy frooooooom groooounddddddd THUDDDDDDD!!
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