Handjob problems! What gets you guys hard quick?

[Anonymous]

basically I've given a handjob before but I was extremely drunk (silly mistake I know) I'm not that out going so things like this I'm not comfortable with, but now I am and I feel ready, I know how to give one (there not that hard, I don't see why so many girls think its so hard) the problem is I'm a bit nervous that he won't be able to get hard, I know as soon as I rub him he will get hard but I don't want to jump right in I want to tease him a little (but don't worry I'm not one of those girls who just gets them hard and doesn't follow through) so basically I'm asking for you guys to tell me what turns you on, like so you're rock hard (I know everyone's different but ya'know) and girls if you want to tell me what works for your man then that would be great + any tips on the actual handjob would be helpful too, thanks.

[Insaan]

Sorry for acting pervert. But this way of seduction will turn me ir any guy on like hell.
The sexiest thing that could happen to me is that girl comes to me and bang me to the wall. Then she slowly goes down and put her hands on the pant. She will tease for some seconds that way and then she unzips the jeans and button and slowly slowly take my pant down.
Then she puts her hand in underwear without pulling that under wear down and start giving a little handjob.
Then with one hand she pulls down underwear and exposes my dic. WAAAAAH
Then with hand job plus blowjob, i go to Paradise.. Lol

[Asker]

thankyou x

[godfatherfan]

It is really not likely that he won't be hard when you take his cock out. Maybe if you catch him by surprise. but as soon as you start unzipping or unbuttoning he is going to spring up quick. Him being hard is the last thing you need to worry about.
The pussy is the greatest body part on earth. best to look at, best to feel, best to eat, best to fuck.

[swagswagswag]

Handjob problems? The only problem is the fact that you're giving handjobs, a guy can (and often times depending on how skilled the girl is) would rather do it on his own.

Head or sex please, i'll pass on the handjob

[Asker]

The fact your name is 'swagswagswag' are you sure your in the right age gap.

[swagswagswag]

Lmao, I can choose whatever name I want too, you're 18-24 years old and you still give handjobs... are you sure YOU'RE in the right age gap?

[SandraSlip]

If you only knew how many guys are absolutely crazy for handjobs. You have no idea. Everyone has their own preferences, maybe you should learn to understand that only because handjobs don't anything to you personally, doens't mean they can't be something very exciting for many other guys out there. There are whole p*rn sites dedicated to women giving guys handjobs.

[SandraSlip]

*don't do

[Asker]

and I can choose if I want to give a handjob

[Blubb]

@swagswagswag: Please only speak for yourself, not for the rest of us men. Handjobs are amazing if done right, you have absolutely no clue.

[Asker]

thankyou sandraslip - someone gets me here

[swagswagswag]

"a guy can (AND OFTEN TIMES DEPENDING ON HOW SKILLED THE GIRL IS) would rather do it on his own." what didn't you guys understand about that? And idc how much this guy likes handjobs, I guarantee unless he's a wierdo he likes head and/or sex more. Handjobs are childish, they're for 9th graders who are too scared to do other things.

[SandraSlip]

Again, it's a given fact that handjobs are extremely popular amaongst men, there are many men who have a handjob fetish. Like I said, there are whole p*rn sites dedicated to handjobs. You really seem extremely close.minded. Only because you personally don't like them you assume everyone else who likes them is weird. Now THAT's childish and immature. And what's wrong with a little variation? You know, people sometimes want sex, sometimes want oral, and sometimes want something else. There can be great excitement in all kinds of sexual activity. Sorry, but you sound very inexperienced and immature. No offense.

[Asker]

are you going to leave or what? jheeze

[Asker]

thanks again sandraslip

[swagswagswag]

Saying they're extremely popular amongst men is a vast overstatement, I talk to men and have more honest convos with them than you do (seeing as lots of guys talk differently to girls than they do other guys) and I can't think of one person ever that's said or implied in any way shape or form that they would take a handjob over head or sex, a handjob is like that job that you didn't really want that much, but nobody else hired you so you'll settle for it. And idc if there are whole sites dedicated to handjobs, there are sites dedicated to bukkakes, rape, hentai, peeing on people, obese people and plenty other fetishes. Just cause there are p*rn sites dedicated to a fetish doesn't mean the majority of people like it or that it's extremely popular. Most girls can't even get a guy to cum through a handjob, every time i talk to one of my boys about stuff like this I probably hear more negative comments about handjobs than positive. Unless the girl is REALLY good which is rare, Ill pass.

[Asker]

so you'd rather not have anything than have a handjob? so you can just go home and do it yourself? just leav

[Asker]

*leave

[swagswagswag]

In the moment no, cause at least I can say I got some (even if it's just a handjob) but realistically I would actually, handjobs lead to blue balls most of the time. Masturbation doesn't. I know everything I like, girls don't.

[Cheeky_Unfortunate]

Just be to be boring the actual answer to this would be to put pressure on the top of the PC muscle, or from a person's vantage point the top base of the penis and press in and use the other hand to gentle rub the frenelum pressing in slightly.

It's funny because it's guaranteed in non-impotent men.

[TadCurious]

Well, especially for a guy in your age range, if you've already been making out he's almost always going to already be hard. But, if he's not, you can take the head of his penis between your thumb and first/second fingers (where your thumb is really like more down on the frenulum) and just gently twirl it between your fingers. That will get him hard pretty fast. by the way , the "frenulum" is the inch or so of surface of the shaft of the penis (on the front side) just below the head. It's loaded with nerve endings. You'll do great. As other commenters have said, there's really no "bad" handjob. It's pretty much all great to have your hand down there.

[Asker]

thankyou! I've updated the question do you mind answering that aswell? much appreciated.

[TadCurious]

I think the sexiest non-sexual body part on a girl is her hands. Girls' hands are amazingly beautiful. I love to watch a girl use her hands (and not just for handjobs LOL). Breast are really sexy because we can see the FORM of them even through a girl's clothes (more or less depending on what kind of bra she's wearing and what else she has on top.)

[thatbuffedkid]

Guy of his age can often be soft too? I am js

[shabcomp]

Tease him with ur tits andslowly rub youry palm on him pennis. Don't grab. Just rub. That's how my girl do it and I love it.

[syrick]

think of it this way rub agains thim and danc eover him and hell be rock solid. and there is no sexiest body par though we tend ot focus on certian ones. its the whole package that makes it amazing. and with the ahdnjob rub his sack. so many nerves there. and the inside of his thighs jsut like a girl tons fo nerves and a real turn on.

[thatbuffedkid]

Hjs sux. Js

[Asker]

why comment?

[thatbuffedkid]

Because I am just trying to help you? Do your guy like it?

[Blubb]

"sux" is for singular, not for plural. And they don't suck, you just haven't ever gotten a good one. They can be amazing, just like BJs, only different.

[Asker]

he says he does so im going to please him not you

[thatbuffedkid]

Believe me. I've had them more than bjs, I am wayy on dom side to like em. Altho I do prefer those nylon hjs? If you know what I mean. That's only one I "enjoyed" and liked

[thatbuffedkid]

You think Id need you to "please" me? Lol pshh. I am out, was just trying to help doe

[GoldCobra]

Making out gets me hard the fastest

[YalancıBahar]

Kissing and pantyhose make me hard. What do you think?

[CuriousAZ]

Dirty talk. Tease. More tease. Foreplay. Tongue kisses. Lick his nipples. Hold his balls. He will get hard

[Anonymous]

Whispering something dirty while doing it..

[Anonymous]

who does handy's after high school? Maybe give him a handjob with your tits, he likes those!

[Anonymous]

I like bum and legs

[Asker]

was is it about them XD

[Opinion Owner]

I'm confused

[Asker]

like what could i do to make them even more appealing (positions and that)