my boyfriend recorded us having sex and showed it to his friends?

[rosarosaa]

OMFG I am just fucking pissed at this asshole!! he recorded us during sex and showed it to all his guy friends! wtf I seriously trusted him with the video and thought he would keep it between us! but no, we also have a lot more vids and he's probably showed them too! Im done with the fucker. one day one of his friends came up to me and was like "nice tits" WTF. I confronted him about it and he said he was just watching it one day and his friends wanted to watch too and he showed them and thought it was no biggie. should I break up with him? it was an asshole move...

[TirePressure20]

So in your "question" you say "I am done with the fucker" but are hesitant to break up with him because he is your first love?

Don't be the kind of girl who looks past this because you don't want to lose him, and you care for him, blah blah blah.

He doesn't care about you. Or respects you. Or values what you guys share. How do I know? Because he showed a video of you two having sex to all his friends.

If you don't break up with him, he'll do worse things because he knows you won't break up with him because you're scared. He'll cheat on you and treat you like crap.

You're in control of your happiness, not him. If you stay with him, you have a lot more heartache coming your way.

[LoneWolf21]

This

[SteelyMcBeam]

And this is why you should always wear masks when making sex tapes.

You are very right to be pissed, but we folks on the Internet can't tell you the best way to resolve this; the only people who can resolve this are you and him.

Whether you break up with him is up to you. Your feelings are what matter -not anyone else's.

You have my empathy, though.

[AmIReallyAGirl]

wow, that's a huge breach of trust. yeah, I wouldn't even give him the courtesy of a formal break up, just tell him it's over and go on your merry way.

if he asks, I'd say it's because you guys aren't compatible... he's assumptive and insensitive, he didn't even ask you about showing the videos in private first, and he's not trustworthy with valuable things.

[AmIReallyAGirl]

also yes, destroy the videos first.

[rosarosaa]

I care for him so much! but he doesn't realize what he did really hurt me.

[AmIReallyAGirl]

I'm really sorry to hear that you're dealing with this. Having someone you care about hurt you so badly SUCKS. But you're better than this situation, so don't despair! This was a huge mess up from this man's side, but if you feel like cutting things off will be worse than working through it, take a tough stance and really explain why this hurt you. If he doesn't seem to understand, don't get back together with him. Communicate and find out if he's someone who can really be with you and make you happy. So far, he's in the hole :/

[AmIReallyAGirl]

once someone hurts you like this, you have to be really, really careful. trust is easy to break and very difficult to put back together. things are often never the same again, and you have to consider those stresses, and whether there is real room for trust again.

[PinkAcid]

dont break up with him yet, find the videos and make sure theyre deleted off his phone and computer so he can't spread them around anymore. you can then dump him without worrying about revenge videos being sent to p*rn sites or around friendship circles etc

dont make any videos with anyone again, its just not worth the risk

[LoneWolf21]

If the video is on his phone or computer she is pretty much fucked. Those p*rn sites routinely hack phones and computers to get "their" amatuer p*rn pictures and videos.

[Luv2BRealExotic13]

Dump him. Before you do make sure you erase all videos and copies of them. Next time make sure to have a no recording device policy. Breasts, vaginas, and ass in a picture cropped from the neck down is one thing and easier to deny. But videos with your face in it not good. You have every right to be pissed.

[quietvixen17]

Yes, break up with him. He doesn't respect you or the privacy in your relationship.

[islands7]

Get the videos & destroy
Have a lawyer send a letter indicating consequences to any other potential transgressions for him/friends
Court order - restraining order
Cut off all comms to him/friends

Caring/loving in this relationship has just been spotlighted as entirely one sided.
This guy cannot reform when associating with scum like those friends

[jesseray]

Destroy the videos, *then* break up with him.

[NaturalBornFiller]

YES YES YES BREAK IT YES

if a lawyer could help...
...sue his ass

...unforgiveable

[rosarosaa]

this is unforgiveable..

[NaturalBornFiller]

If he aires the videos, fyi, he does not have your written consent for your image/likeness to be shown! !!

[NaturalBornFiller]

Aside from all else!!! ...it is legal issue

[jeamsfranco]

Isn't there a "revenge p*rn" law?

[DrBigolenuts]

what'ya waitin for?

i just hope the vids dont find their way to the internet..

[Arwens-Fire]

I can't believe you're asking if you should breakup with him. If you're so upset that shouldn't even be a question.

[Red_Arrow]

Exactly!

[psm357]

I am sorry to read about this, it must be a bad experience for you. I suggest you asked him to deleted those videos.

[koibito]

Of course you should break up with him! It was wrong, totally wrong!

[rosarosaa]

he's my first love though!

[koibito]

Does he understand the impact of what he did? Is he remorseful? To me, what he did is just as bad as betraying you with another girl.. It's up to you what you want to do though. I personally believe not to allow someone who hurt me once to get another chance to hurt me again.

[Red_Arrow]

Sorry this happened to you. So often on GAG people will tell a girl to be careful about recording herself in a "compromising" way and she will respond with "LMAO. I trust his completely." And apparently you trusted your guy, too.

Important points here... he has proven that you can not trust him, so don't. He has shown that he does not respect you. So do not hold him in such high esteem. I hope you respect yourself enough to drop him immediately!

[Cheeky_Unfortunate]

"I'm done with the fucker" + "Should I break up?" = Some other hangup.

What is it?

[DodgersGM]

I couldn't imagine doing this to someone I truly cared about. Sounds like it's time to back up the dump truck...

[rosarosaa]

exactly!!

[ArabianPwincess197]

Dump him or show his pics to everyone

[joypantujan]

Oh. What a douche. Break his neck. LOL. No, break up with him asap. He has no respect on you as a woman and your relationship. Gosh! What was he thinking? *smmfh*

[Conviction]

Wow, you can't trust anyone nowadays can you?

[Insaan]

Ah! Such a common thing. You are one of those million girls who are victims of such misery.

[rosarosaa]

yesss thank you for understanding!

[Insaan]

Now do one favor... If you respect your self, go away from him.

[HyperX]

He might hv uploaded it to sm p*rn site as well :p

[YoungAthleticOne]

I would give you advice, but it wouldn't matter since your going to stay with the douchebag anyways.

[Dragan]

It is very bad behavior.Break up is a logical solution.

[Anonymous]

Don't feel for this trash she fucked her best friends boyfriend.

[rosarosaa]

bitch this was almost years ago, hahahaah do I have another stalker?

[Opinion Owner]

you're 18 sweetie you have a lot of growing up to do. I can see it in the way you speak as well. I get it your in high school you think you're all big and tough but your not. Life isn't about being a hoe and partying. Take that into concideration. Make money.

[rosarosaa]

HAHAAH jokes on you im 22 now. and im rich as fuck... I get on this when im bored but it seems like you made a life out of it. ;) stfu you probably a jealous anyway

[rosarosaa]

girls and even WOMEN have been jealous of me alllllllllllllll my life. for what? because my hair touches my ass and my lips are plump. bye.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol rich people don't say they have money honey. You sound really pathetic. Lol jealous because I didn't ruin my best friend by fucking her man. Yes I'm oh so jealous. Grow up baby. Like I said get that money and stop acting like a child like your still in high school speak with some sense. Maybe you'll get far in life just maybe. And by the way. You sound broke af. The only reason you might be rich is cause you duck for money. But mentally and physically you're broke. Goodnight 😘

[rosarosaa]

lmao only reason I would ever tell someone im rich is if someone calls me "broke", lol girls like you are hilarious. you think you're fuckin perfect and you try and lie to yourself and think you're better than everyone? wtf. in real life you probably ain't shit. by the way I got my shit together, just drama going on. last thing I need is a jealous broke bitch

[Opinion Owner]

LOL and when the the gets mad... peaccceee