My mom is a milf and attracts more guys than me. Even my boyfriend.?

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I am 25 and my mom is 43. She is extremely pretty for her age. Her face and her body are like she's 10 or more years younger. It might sound weird calling my mom like that, but she is a total milf as guys say. Guys, also a lot of younger even pretty hot guys are constantly hitting on her. She really knows how to handle it well. She likes the attention but never goes too far with the flirting. My dad however is often very worried/jealous since he definitely looks older. I can see him getting nervous when she goes out with friends or to the gym. I trust her though. I don't think she would cheat even when the 10 hottest guys in town would hit on her on her horniest day of her life. But she does still go out with her friends a lot and dresses rather sexy. My problem is that she gets more attention from guys my age than me (and I have to add that I am not at all ugly myself). I've had a lot of boyfriends and finally have one I'm really serious about and wanted to introduce to my parents. He was constantly checking out my mom. I noticed that he tried to keep it under control but his eyes were on her ass most of the time. I know he doesn't mean to do bad but I'm angry now although I know I shouldn't be. I was so jealous I immediately took him to my room to blow him and make him crazy about me again. I know it's immature but I'm angry at my boyfriend for looking but can't really blame him as it's probably beyond his control. And I'm angry at my mom cause she attracts my boyfriend sexually. I know it's not their fault but please help me to deal with this situation.

Red_Arrow · Accepted Answer

Long ago I dated a girl who was quite beautiful. Her mother was very good looking, also. At that time I thought, "Wow, in twenty or so years my gal will still look that good!" Very positive. And if she had been as sexy looking as you make your mother sound, I would have been looking at her just like your boyfriend does your mother. But the important point is that I would be looking, not touching, and not even wishing. Just appreciating. My wife once told people that she never minds my looking at other women, that it just shows that my hormones are still working. If I ever stopped looking, she would figure I was to decrepit for her.

You mom is not going after your boyfriend. She appears happy in her marriage and is passing up all kinds of opportunities, so why go after yours? And who cares if your boyfriend admires her? If he thinks she has a great bod as well as being generally good looking, he will believe that you will, too, later. (And most likely now.) And if it gets him horny and bothered, he will just bring that to you, so enjoy.

Now about getting mad and taking him into your room to blow him. If you are going to reward him for looking at someone else, that will just train him that he should look at other women to get a blow job from you. Not sure if that is what you want, but if you want that, then he will continue making his looking obvious and expecting a rewarding BJ from you. (Actually sounds like a very good deal for him.) Do not sweat it. There is really no bad situation for you to deal with. Guys look. It is normal and expected. If you do not express displeasure with that, he will just think you are that much cooler.

By the way. If your mother was not currently married due to divorce, death, whatever, do you think she would be snagging those younger guys? Sounds like she definitely could.

kevsan · Accepted Answer

The reason that caused you to rush to your room with him is probably the same reason causing your mother to behave the way she does. She is teaching you to be like her, but where do you think she learned this behaviour? Ask your Dad whether she has always been like this, or can he remember when it started. Then take it from there.

Aleera · Accepted Answer

WTF? He can't control it? It's not like he is seeing Megan Fox, for God's sake.He shoudn't be looking at her-She is your MOM.And  if that happens again for like two more times you should talk to him about.Not make a scene or anything...Also you should get your self esteem back on the train because you're a young girl and don't forget that time beats all...Now I don't know so I'm just supposingly saying that If your mom dresses revealing in front of your boyfriends then you should talk to her about it...

zombiebabe · Accepted Answer

so seems like you guy admires your mom's beauty..don't be angry because of your mom or feel insecure..all you need to do is to pamper yourself and act sexy like your mom..normally most guys get attracted to women who care a lot about their appearance..try to go to the gym as well this might boost your confidence

Myownhero · Accepted Answer

Haha, well that can be awkward but also a good thing, maybe you look like your mom? can you help me :)

islands7 · Answer

The BJs are working remind him that as she grows older, you'll be looking more like her

kheserthorpe · Answer

I wouldn't assume he's finding her more attractive than you.  In fact your own attractiveness may be increasing his attraction for her.

Masana · Answer

I am 18 and my mom is 38 always when we go out they think she's my sister and ask me to hook her up with them. So I absolutely feel you. But in fact she's your mom the fact she looks good now for het age means you will look that goof aswell, look on the bright side. And your boyfriend hopefully fell in love with you because of your qualities and not your moms. So relax and enjoy the time with your mom, later you can laugh about it