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How should I ask this girl if she wants to be fuck buddies?

Ok there is this chick in one of my classes that I'm 99% sure is into me. I tried being nice with her but that didn't work because she started playing hard to get. So I started being an asshole and ignoring her and hitting on other girls in front of her and now she's into me again lol. But whenever we talk she always brings up sexual things and talks really dirty and does things like bending over in front of me to tie her shoes and stuff. So I'm pretty sure that she just wants to fuck which is fine by me. I've never had a friends with benefits before so not really sure how to ask her. Should I just ask her straight up or? And also separate side question: if a girl brings up the topic of penises on a first date should I assume she wants to bang? I don't know recently I've been attracting lots of dirty minded girls and I'm not really a player or anything but if they want to fuck I am down. Not really looking for a relationship anyway.
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  • When it comes to friends with benefits 's you have to be totally honest and upfront. There's no way around it unfortunately. So you'd have to really just be direct and ask her if she wants to hook up with you. Second question, it depends on the topic. You just say she talked about penises but it could be that she is just a very relaxed girl and wanted to show you that she's not shy to talk about sexual things. It doesn't necessarily mean she wants the D. However if she talked about like, blowjobs or something then yes. Then she wants the D for sure.

  • I think if a girl brings up the topic of penises on a first date, I think she wants your penis. I think she wants to bang you. Just ask her to hang out, and then start teasing her by poking her here and there and maybe swiping your hand across her butt gently by 'accident' and sometimes put your hand on her back and maybe squeeze her shoulders. That might make her go further like kiss you. Then you guys can get steamy and head to bed

    • I could have definitely kissed her on the first date but I guess I left her hanging. Anyway I can still go on a second date with her but I'm not really that into her. Any suggestions for the other girl in my class tho? Her seduction is really starting to work lol but I don't want to come off as desperate because I'm really not. But you think she might be teasing me?

    • Yeah, never come off as desperate, it might turn her off, give her a challenge. But yeah, I really think she's trying to seduce you. Just let her keep doing what she's doing, maybe she can catch you glancing at her sometimes

    • And can I ask you why you only want to fck but don't want a relationship? I'm not criticizing you at all, I'd just like to know what makes a guy do that. And how do you know a guy just wants you for sex?

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  • I think she's giving you hints that she also wants to fuck you. Oh boy! Why not? Ask her out and see where it goes. I mean, be direct to her. There and then you'll know if she's game to be JUST your FuBu. Tsk!

    • Haha sounds like you've done this before ;)

    • Yea, many times BEFORE.

    • So you've settled down then? Lao what do you mean by ask her out? Like on a date?

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  • There are two ways to go about it.

    1. Be a man and be blunt. State what you want to do to her and that you think y'all should be fuck buddies.

    2. Invite her over to hang out. Try to make something happen. Once it happens once, it's extremely easy to casually throw it out there...assuming you last longer than 20 seconds.

    • Agreed. lol

    • Yah that's what I was thinking but I don't know if she's just being a tease again or not. One way to find out I guess

    • Or option 3- Kidnap her. Stow her away in your basement. Wait until she develops Stockholm syndrome and then take her as your own.

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  • I don't think i'd just straight up ask... Id make an excuse to hang out alone and escalate the situation then have sex.

    • Yeah I just thought of the perfect idea lol. It involves alcohol so it's pretty fail proof :P

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  • listen dude, ask her to hangout and try and kiss her.
    odds are if she's talking sexual to you she wants to be sexual with you.
    and as for knowing if you should kiss her or not, if she touches yoou in anyway.
    she wants it lol

  • Try to have sex with her. If you like her, call her and do it again. If she stops you then you have your answer.
    If they bring up dicks they probably want it.
    Be careful though because she might like you as more and is trying to get your attention the wrong way. She will probably ask you what y'all are if you do hook up a couple times and when she does, because I can promise you she will, make sure you are as straight up as possible.

  • Dont lie your a player level 7

    • Lol what? I'm really not. How many levels are there anyway?

    • 40 levels. And you are a little. Your at stage. In denial (yolo) stage. Only gets worse from here my friend. Rip the good guy you were hello future heartbreaker

    • Oh dang looks like I have a long way to go haha

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  • Sing her a song lol

  • Tell her point blank with some very carefully planned out words.

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