The Penis Shaming Needs to Stop!

[Anonymous]

Hey!! Here's a dandy idea! Stop dick shaming!!!

Stop acting like the size of ones genitalia makes them any more of less attractive. Quit letting erotic novels and videos cloud your minds of reality.

The average penis is only five to six inches hard, and two to three inches soft. This is real life. You don't get to crack jokes about the size of someone's genitalia, or how it looks, etc and then get angry when someone does the same about your body, but you must realize how people will always think there is something wrong or weird about their sexual organs, especially someone with a penis because they have it engraved into their heads that "bigger is better!" It's okay to have a preference, don't get me wrong here. I know everyone does. Clipped, unclipped or big or small but do not leave someone for that reason. Bigger genitalia does not equal greater sex. When done correctly, sex doesn't matter about size. The average vagina only being four to five inches deep, and anus being only a few inches long as well.

People need to realize that shaming ones genitalia for it's size or the way it looks is just as bad as shaming someone for their body type. People so often say that someone with a natural, unclipped penis is gross or dirty, when it really is not. Foreskin isn't dirty, sure it COULD get dirty and like anything else, need to be cleaned but it's isn't that hard to clean at all. Just pull the skin back and wash daily with mild soap and water and bam! All clean. Easy, just like cleaning behind your ears!

Also another thought of mine: There is no reason to take off half an infants penis, destroying over 200 nerve endings because they might forget to wash it now and then. That's like saying you need to cut off your ears, because you might forget to clean behind them as well.

(I had a better post than this but it accidentally got deleted and I am sad because I forgot everything I wrote and this is very bad I am sorry)

[ManOnFire]

Nice to see a female talking about this. It's true. Women deny caring about dick size but they really do. I get tired of them thinking I'm big just cuz of my race.

It's also very curious to me that females think guys shouldn't care about their size, yet they can turn around and joke about his package! As soon as a guy judges a woman's body or her breast size, it's suddenly time for women to unite and get the anti "shaming" movements going. Women are the ones more insecure about their bodies and organs, yet seem to think their in some position to shame or judge guys and their penises. Such a joke.

[myTake Owner]

I'm not one of those women.

[MissMickey]

Isn't the whole 'black dudes are bigger than white boys' thing a complete myth anyway?

[ManOnFire]

@MissMickey Not entirely, but it still doesn't mean we should be esteemed because of our dick size.

[HonestWhiteGuy]

@MissMickey It is entirely a myth please ignore what he said and look up this study, I believe its the Kinsey one, it shows virtually zero difference between White/Black guys and Asians being slightly smaller but once again, almost no difference.

[ManOnFire]

@HonestWhiteGuy OMG, you're gonna quote Kinsey? Who's studies have practically been thrown out now? LMFAO!

[myTake Owner]

@HonestWhiteGuy it's actually not a myth..

[HonestWhiteGuy]

Well others agree with me thats its a myth and I've already listed evidence showing that, want me to link to studies showing that Black males have higher estrogen as well? Its a myth get the fck over it

[myTake Owner]

@HonestWhiteGuy it's not a myth get the fuck over it white boy

[ManOnFire]

@HonestWhiteGuy You really feel threatened by black men, it's almost hilarious. Dude, I answered Stacyzee's Take yesterday where she talks about how women DO care about penis size to some extent, and I had both women and men agreeing with my answer too. Your people are gonna agree with you, and others will agree with me. It doesn't make you and authority or Bomar brains just cuz you lean on some dead studies nobody even pays attention to anymore. White women from Europe and America are going to the Caribbean every summer so they can have sex with black island men that they feel are better lovers, and partly for their dicks. Read about it for yourself and then grow your own.

[MissMickey]

If it helps, I've been with two black fellas and they were both just as average as the other white guy I've been with. My current boyfriend (white, but Dutch) blows them out of the water, size wise.

[HonestWhiteGuy]

@ManOnFire And Black males are getting locked up at record numbers and not graduating college, your point? Everyone agrees its a myth but its one of the few positive stereotypes you have going right now so you are desperately clinging to it. You are the one that feels inferior, not me bud.

[HonestWhiteGuy]

@MissMickey This guy ManOnFire is a BLM supporter whackjob, everything he says is extremely biased/pro Black so it should be taken as such. I would ignore him but I like disproving people with factual statistics when they talk nonsense.

[HonestWhiteGuy]

@MissMickey Of course its a myth, thanks for saying that. he's one of those BLM types that will try and talk over you or spew some nonsense from huffingtonpost if you prove him wrong Like I said before its virtually equal, he's the one trying to claim "Blacks are bigger" when everything I've stated and others have goes against him.

[Drazalicious]

Look bro I was on your side until you started regurgitating anecdotal crap about women going after Caribbean men secretly. I'm a gay man, and I have several hetero female friends. I know you are just trying to empower black people but trying to convince yourself that women have an innate preference for you guys over white people is ridiculous. Sorry, but nowadays people feel too fearful to admit that they will not go for black people. I know several people who refuse to even consider black men which is sad because I actually do date some here and there myself. Also, I am white and I probably have a bigger dick than you so yeah.

[Drazalicious]

Again, I am a gay man, and I have dated all races. I've been with the dreamy latino, the sophisticated black man, the gangster black man, and so many more. I've actually been dating so many PoC men that at this point I miss having a white boyfriend. They are much better lovers than men of color who tend to be weird about sex. Always leaning towards one extreme or the other. Too aggressive, too gentle, and oh god don't even get me started on Catholic latinos who have themselves convinced that they will marry a woman one day even though when we had a threesome with a girl they couldn't even get it up!

[SovereignessofVamps]

The only people who shame are guys. Girls (and some guys xD) know that dicks don't really feel that different from each other. I mean if he has a huge girth then yeah, but the sex is still the same after a few minutes really.

[SovereignessofVamps]

But the guy on here brag so much and psot all those ridiculous questions.

[Jeeevan]

What world do you live in? I see girls who just say any size is fine or they prefer one over the other which is fine but then you get comments by women who just blatantly shame people who don't fit their ideal.

[SovereignessofVamps]

@Jeeevan I haven't seen it. Most girls say what's in your 1st example. there's way more posts from guys.

[Jeeevan]

I hardly see any from guys, i get they ask questions all the time but its because they are insecure because of the comments some women make.

[SovereignessofVamps]

@Jeeevan I think they're insecure because they're competing with other guys. guys do that no matter what women say lol

[Jeeevan]

We don't compete against each other lol, we don't even talk about our penises with each other. I'm telling you it's because the comments some women make about it or how they put it.

[SovereignessofVamps]

@Jeeevan I've had guys tell me that's how ti is. And even with sex... guys try to amke her orgasm usually not so much for her sake, but so they can prove to themselves they're the best guy she had sex with. Srsly, guys are like this because of their own reasons. And their insults with each other can be so brutal, I don't think what the avg girl says would have an effect anyway.

[Jeeevan]

You'll be surprised, the comments a girl makes does effect a guy.

[Ray-98]

Any line that blames only men or only women is almost always wrong.

[SovereignessofVamps]

@Ray-98 I said that's just what I've msotly seen. plus why does it hurt guys? because they're competing with other guys!

[Ray-98]

I meant the bit about 'only people who shame are guys'. Or did you mean feel shame? Why it hurts guys has nothing to do with sex. The insecurity and having your confidence dented is what hurts. You might not notice it because its not something you would pay much attention too. But if you were a guy with a small dick you would probably find it difficult not to become insecure about it when the only time you ever heard anyone mention a small dick it was as an insult or a joke.

[Ray-98]

@sovereignessofvamps When I mean small penis is only mentioned as a joke/insult. I mean stuff like it being used as an insult against hate figures or people behaving like @ssholes. The most recent one is the news channels running with Donald Trump has a small dick. It makes a change from being compared to Hitler, the guy revving his truck at the lights or some hunter that has just shot an animal for sport. Same with anytime a girl is really angry with a guy. Same with this on mainstream TV. I can't post the link, but google Elizabeth Banks on Jimmy Kimmel. I am pretty sure that you would not get that audience reaction for any other type of body shaming. Countless articles in mens and womens magazines talking about penis size. After only seeing a small penis laughed at and compared to people like that all the time, it just gets to the stage where you think there must be something wrong with you and you hate your own body.

[SovereignessofVamps]

@Ray-98 I know the media, but I meant IRL

[Ray-98]

@sovereignessofvamps If you mean face to face, I think thats pretty rare. I have heard people make small dick comments about guys revving up their cars and have had a girl say to me 'he must have a tiny dick' when a guy walked past us with his shirt off and his muscles on show. That was horrible to hear. Online, not the media, but twitter and peoples comments on blogs. Some of the stuff people write just makes me want to crawl under a rock and hide.

[SovereignessofVamps]

@Ray-98 Yeah, I've seen that too. It is a really common insult... and yeah girls do say it sometimes, but I meant like the site comparisons on here or IRL with the really mean jokes... usually those are guys.

[SovereignessofVamps]

@Ray-98 And the guys tend to get obssessed... I just think guys think differently with the insult thing. Like you are right girls do say that stuff, but guys... they can take insults to a whole nother level. I don't know why some are like that, but a guy was just telling me how severe the insults can be. So I meant that even if girls say that stuff, they probably got it from guys 1st.

[Brokenheartedx]

Sorry but adults who know better know bigger isn't always better... women that don't have high crevixes will back that up... if they've encountered a large one they'll recoil of faced with another... Becos if u don't have a high cervix it's like being stabbed inside.. it hurts...

men with small penises and slim girths Have to remember they have fingers... there is nothing wrong with slipping a finger or two inside a woman while you're penetrating her...

Don't generalise everyone that all women think the same

Foreskin or no foreskin as long as the penis is healthy it's all good

[myTake Owner]

I wasn't generalizing anyone, but most of the time a lot of women I've seen always dick shame. And that's why I wrote this. Yes there is adults who get this which is why I'm glad.

[Smmyskittles]

People are going to do it regardless.

However, I do agree. He's got what he's got.

- Give me the man, dick is a bonus.

[Waffles23]

I'm your man

[guyabcd2020]

Dick is a bonus!! 😉 2 incher hard?😂

[Smmyskittles]

@Waffles23 <3<3<3<3 Are you, blueberry waffles? ? ? ? :D :D :D

[Waffles23]

No I'm just a normal waffle

[Smmyskittles]

@Waffles23 - I Guess... I could learn to love plain waffles...

[Girly1710]

I didn't know this was even an issue. I thought everyone already knew this stuff.

[myTake Owner]

No, sadly It's a big issue.

[YourFutureEx]

"The average penis is only five to six inches hard, and two to three inches soft."
That broke my heart ;_;

[Waffles23]

I think most penises are somewhere between 6 and 7 inches.

[anonman32]

@Waffles23 thats what guys say lol.

[YourFutureEx]

@Waffles23 Oh no! My self esteem
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[YourFutureEx]

@anonman32 He made Asian boi cry
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[Waffles23]

Ur over 7"

[Waffles23]

So you're ok

[YourFutureEx]

@Waffles23 Please stop
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[Tomboy_Cool]

lol doode 5in in U. S is average no biggie ( no pun intended ) 😝

[TayTay21]

I agree. There isn't anything guys can do about their size, so why give them crap about it like it's a personal failing. Girls wouldn't like it if guys trashed them for the shapes of their girl parts, either.

[Sigh82]

Lol at penis shaming. Sorry, I don't know what guys you may be having sex with but the average for me is not 5 to 6 inches hard. If you like men with little penises fine, but some women don't

[myTake Owner]

It's not funny. You're really immature for your age. And no it's average look it up on google if you're that dumb.

[Danny1775]

Grow up

[desidoll]

Nice take. I think shaming anyone's physical just needs to stop.

[masterkamasutra]

did u choose your fav dick among that art?

[desidoll]

@masterkamasutra Definitely the circumcised one but please don't ask me to point out which one lol because there're so many.

[masterkamasutra]

you hate foreskin?

[desidoll]

@masterkamasutra No, but I'd want a cut penis but let's say I met an amazing dude who is uncircumcised I wouldn't mind loving him.

[masterkamasutra]

would like to follow you, join me.

[summiter]

Well written opinion... thanks.

[MissMickey]

Dick size isn't exactly something that's a deal breaker for me.. According to the statistical average, majority of my boyfriends have been smaller than average and my current is well over.
At the end of the day, who cares? If the person you're with loves you for you, then it shouldn't matter what you're packing.

[somebodysaycheese]

Dick shame? A woman doesn't know his dick size until she is intimate with him. if women dick shamed wed make it known anything under 7 inches wouldn't get sucked and all the small penis would go out and get penis enlargement.

[slimstiffy]

this comment made me curious, would it be more enjoyable for the woman to suck, if the d is bigger?

[somebodysaycheese]

@slimstiffy depends on the girls preference

[Ray-98]

Dick shaming has nothing to do with sex. It is when people use a small dick as an insult or to mock someone.

[slimstiffy]

yeah. which probably is a yes, coz usually girls prefer a bit bigger, never heard anybody say theyd prefer smaller.

[Billlewis]

I respectfully disagree; I believe that small penis humiliation is an important part of the dynamic between men and women, and I think it should be engaged in as often as possible.

[Gabriella171]

What's wrong with liking a particular size. I didn't even know 5-6 was average lol. I don't encounter guys like that. If a girl wants a large man that's her business but who really is going to be like your nice but i only date guys who are 8inches and up...

What I'm trying to say is if a girl doesn't like small guys thats her right , she doesn't have to fuck him

[myTake Owner]

Like I said it's OK to have a preference, but it's not okay to reject someone on that reason alone. Let's say if you were married to a man and he got into a accident and was paralyzed from the waist down would you leave him?

[myTake Owner]

And it's also not okay to shame someone just because of their penis size

[Gabriella171]

I'm going to be honest if I was looking for sex I'm going to choose the bigger guy if I'm looking for love then it can come in any shape or size. There's the difference. And if my husband and was put in a wheelchair I wouldn't leave him but that's a whole different scenario

[myTake Owner]

I'm not talking about hookups darling. Lol.

[Gabriella171]

Then what are you talking about? Who tf just sits around talking about dick size. Only time it should come up is when your about to have sex with someone.

[myTake Owner]

I'm talking about dick shaming. It's a commen thing. BYE

[GingerGuy]

Nice! Agreed. Same goes for women's breasts.

[Lightspeed-Lemon]

At least there are guys who truly prefer small boobs. But I don't think there's any girls who actually prefer a small dick. Best you can hope for is someone who doesn't mind it too much.

[myTake Owner]

Lol well I mean penis and boobs are two very different things.

[MissMickey]

Who on this earth likes small boobs? haha

[Lightspeed-Lemon]

@MissMickey Ummm, me? lol.

[MissMickey]

Really?

[Lightspeed-Lemon]

@MissMickey Yes. And from what I've seen, many other guys on GAG do. Smaller boobs are preferred for fashion modelling and for ballet dancers too, so it's weird people still have this idea that they're somehow not beautiful.

[MissMickey]

Hey man, if I had to choose I'd probably go with smaller rather than large. Just, through my personal experiences, men that I know normally enjoy larger boobs. My boyfriend is annoyingly obsessed with mine.

[Mayamoon02]

You guys like small boobs but as soon as my boobs grew a couple sizes (pregnancy) my man couldn't get enough! Haha @missmickey Men that date you probably do so because your boobs are part of your sex appeal. Most men dated me cause they are ass men! They chase women that suit their preferences.

[MissMickey]

@Mayamoon02 I like to think I'm more of an ass chick than a boob chick haha, but thanks. And I assume that they would help, but I'd hope that the men I've dated and the man I'm currently dating are with me for my personality.

[Mayamoon02]

@MissMickey Ha lucky woman then to have both! Yes of course, but let's be honest - a man isn't thinking about personality when he is playing with your boobs! Lol

[MissMickey]

@Mayamoon02 yeah I guess you're right haha :P i don't think he thinks about anything much when he's playing with me

[Mayamoon02]

@MissMickey Haha its funny!

[Lightspeed-Lemon]

@MissMickey I'm sure if you took a poll, it will show the majority of men prefer large. The "large breast men" also seem to be loud types who love sports, beer and are the most vocal about their preferences. But they don't represent everyone. So smaller chested girls shouldn't feel bad, much less be getting unnecessary surgery to become something they're not. Yeah, your boyfriend's likely not thinking of anything when he plays with yours except how good they look and feel. Lol.

[slimstiffy]

I like small breasts too, but were in the minority. id say its about 80:20 in favour of big boobs

[uknaked]

I certainly agree with you, most women who want a guy with a fatter dick have had children and made no effort to exercise (kegel exercises), then blame their husband, or whoever, for having an average dick!

[abundantlyrich]

Gag always seems to have a controversial amount of obsession with penises and vaginas

[desidoll]

Indeed.

[cathy23]

There's a lot more to a relationship than dick size.

[AhGojira]

I don' know about you but I sham wow my dick daily... Feet Ass Balls and Armpits..
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ns4mnmNBk1Y

[Tomboy_Cool]

that dick pic doe too much.

[myTake Owner]

Lol it's just a drawing.

[Axitcia]

I'm not one of those girl that would say anything is wrong with size, size don't matter