Thinking about getting an IUD?

[samhradh_leannan]

IUDs can be a great option for birth control, but they're also a pretty big commitment. If you're thinking about getting one, I hope these tips will help you prepare.

Note: I am not a medical professional, and these tips are not intended to be medical advice. If you have questions about your health or whether or not an IUD is right for you, talk to your doctor.

1. Plan to take the rest of the day off

Having an IUD inserted is an intense procedure. You'll probably be tired after, and you may have very severe cramps for the next day or so. I wouldn't recommend having your IUD inserted at a time when you'll have to return to work, or any other tiring activities, immediately after. You will probably want to rest for quite a while afterward.

2. If possible, give yourself a few days to recover

You might have fairly severe cramps for a few days after your IUD is inserted, so if it's possible to schedule your insertion at a time when you can take several days to rest afterward, you absolutely should.

3. If you can, bring a loved one with you

An IUD insertion is a pretty painful process. It's quick, but having someone's hand to squeeze- and someone to drive you home afterward- can make the process a lot less stressful.

4. If you go alone, make it as relaxing as you can

Bring whatever will help make the process more comfortable and relaxing for you- water, a book, maybe even music with headphones. Also think about transportation. If you're in a lot of discomfort, it may be tough to drive afterward. Consider taking the bus or a taxi or Uber, or asking a friend or family member to drive you.

5. Be prepared for some spotting

Bring some pads or liners with you to your appointment (not a tampon- you won't be able to insert anything into your vagina for a certain period of time). The doctor will probably provide you with a pad or liner, but you may feel more comfortable using a familiar brand. And you might want more than one, especially if you're not going straight home after. You may have spotting for quite some time, so stock up.

6. Stock up on Ibuprofen and heating pads

Your doctor will probably advise you to take a certain amount of Ibuprofen every so often to help with cramps and bleeding. If they don't mention it, ask them how much you can take and how often. Even if you're not feeling much pain while you're still at the office, it's good to know for later. You'll probably want a hot water bottle or heating pad, too.

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[heather4N0w]

This is my 2nd IUD and i love it. Pain is different with everyone I had mine put in and went straight back to work. yes was uncomfortable for a while but nothing a bad a period pain. I had a strange period for 4 months after inserting it but now i have no period. With my first one it had shifted and i had to get it removed because it was only giving me 40% coverage and i was thinking of having another baby. After my miscarriage (not the cause of IUD) and my ex and i broke up i decided to get it again because i was sure i didn't want any more kids right now and i hated periods. I also find my sex life less stressful because now i dont have to plan around a period i can just go for it. IUD isn't for everyone's body some bodies reject it but if your scared about pain dont be suck it up for that minute so you can enjoy 5+ years without warring.

[Pizzalover101]

Ibuprofen causes kidney problems so I sajest aspirin in no higher than 340 milagramas that's coated

[samhradh_leannan]

It's true that you may not want to take tons of ibuprofen forever, but it is the recommended painkiller for menstrual cramps and IUD cramping. That's because it's good at targeting pain from smooth muscle cramping (the uterus is smooth muscle). Ibuprofen also doesn't thin your blood the way aspirin does, so it's better for menstrual and IUD cramps since there's bleeding involved. Aspirin isn't very good when you are bleeding, because it can cause you to bleed even more. Ibuprofen can even help with spotting and heavy periods. It's also less of a stomach irritant than aspirin, and when you're dealing with heavy cramping/periods/spotting, and upset stomach is the last thing you need. All in all, there's a reason why doctors recommend it. I appreciate your comment though.

[Pizzalover101]

Ok giner helps belly vitimin e reduces cramping white willow bark reduces pain

[samhradh_leannan]

That said, every individual should discuss what is best for them with their doctor. Ibuprofen may not necessarily be right for every woman. But I wouldn't suggest aspirin unless a doctor specifically recommends it, because of the issues I mentioned.

[samhradh_leannan]

I'd like to see you get an IUD and then rely on vitamin E for the cramps...

[Pizzalover101]

Ok 😊😊😉

[cherryphi82]

It took me months to recover from getting an IUD. Inserting it wasn't the problem, but once it was in there, getting it lodged properly. The menstrual bleeding I had afterwards was horrendous, and I even bled midway through my periods and after sex. I would not recommend this for everyone. Be very very prepared.

[samhradh_leannan]

Agreed, you do need to be prepared for lots of bleeding and cramps.

[Marry_Me_Ladyslipper]

Only a wuss would use contraception.

[samhradh_leannan]

Or, you know, people who want to have sex without reproducing.

[Marry_Me_Ladyslipper]

Yeah and only a wuss would do that. Real people take their chances with nature and don't shame their fertility. If you truly loved your partner, you wouldn't deny him of his fertility power. I'm not surprised you'd have a negative comment, being that you aren't a Christian. All non-Christians believe contraception is right.

[samhradh_leannan]

Oh, it's you again.

[Marry_Me_Ladyslipper]

What do you mean me again? O. o Cheergirl38139 fixed it so I couldn't get in again. So it ain't me.

[Marry_Me_Ladyslipper]

Doesn't matter who I am, the point remains the same: wusses use contraception. Real people trust nature.

[Marry_Me_Ladyslipper]

You wrote the question and I gave my take on it.

[samhradh_leannan]

It's perfectly fine for you to have that opinion. You don't have to use contraception if you don't want to. Nobody is going to force you to get an IUD, especially considering that you don't even have a uterus. But you don't have to use your religious beliefs as an excuse to harass people for their most personal decisions. I do trust nature, and I do trust my body to do what it was made to do, and that's exactly why I choose to use contraception. If you don't wish to, that's totally okay.

[Marry_Me_Ladyslipper]

You're a liar. If you trust nature, you wouldn't use contraception. Just an excuse to live in sin is all it is and this goes for everybody.

[Marry_Me_Ladyslipper]

If you truly loved a man, you'd want the fruits of yours and his sex to be shown. Fruitless sex is arrogant and selfish. Sex is not about pleasure. It's about giving more children the potential to live.

[samhradh_leannan]

A difference in beliefs doesn't make me a liar. I hope you don't think you're actually going to change my mind about any of this. Don't waste your time.

[Marry_Me_Ladyslipper]

It's a fact. If you want to deny a man her fertile power, then you want to control him, thus you don't love him. You're the fool. Not me. You just want to cheat sex for your benefits. You don't want the responsibilities of sex.

[Marry_Me_Ladyslipper]

I meant his fertile power, not her. Although her power can be applied too.

[samhradh_leannan]

What about the fact that my partner doesn't want kids either? How does giving him what HE wants mean that I don't love or respect him? I'd suggest that you stop talking about facts right this instant, for your own good. Because talking about facts when it comes to this type of issue will only work against you.

[Marry_Me_Ladyslipper]

Because he is brainwashed. He doesn't understand his fertile power and what it means to become a father and that sex is the avenu not take in wanting a be a father. If he doesn't want kids, he shouldn't have sex. To use sex for pleasure only is being ignorant to the facts of life. Also, contraception usage is always dangerous, no matter what form. You nor anybody living was ever the product of contraceptive sex. What do you mean stop talking about facts for my own good? How will it work against me? I sure would like to know.

[Marry_Me_Ladyslipper]

avenue, not avenu.

[Marry_Me_Ladyslipper]

Sex is for bonding and baby making and never to be picked which, but to be used together. Sex is more pleasurable when you produce fruit. There's 20+ links I've shown you to prove this, yet you stay stubborn to the facts. Also if sex is for pleasure, then why do men most like women when she is in her fertile years and not before her fertile years nor after her fertile years?

[samhradh_leannan]

You do realize that pregnancy and childbirth are dangerous too, right?

[Marry_Me_Ladyslipper]

Yes but the woman agreed to that by having the sex. Answer my questions now.

[samhradh_leannan]

It's not a fact that sex is only intended for reproduction. It's not a fact that using contraception is a sin, or morally wrong in any way. Those are your opinions, your theological beliefs. They're not facts. They're not things you can prove.

[samhradh_leannan]

A woman who uses contraception isn't agreeing to pregnancy by having sex. She's agreeing to have sex using contraception. It's your OPINION that she is, or should be, agreeing to pregnancy.

[Marry_Me_Ladyslipper]

Can we do this 1 on 1? I'm level 1 so you know who needs to initiate the contact.

[Marry_Me_Ladyslipper]

It is a sin. There's scripture to prove so. It is a fact that sex isn't for pleasure only but to be used together. Sex is never to be used only for pleasure. No other creatures use contraceptive sex, except for humans.

[samhradh_leannan]

We are doing this one on one. There's no one else involved in the conversation.

[Marry_Me_Ladyslipper]

Okay, suit yourself. What do you have to say to my previous post?

[samhradh_leannan]

So you think anything that's written down somewhere is a fact?

[Marry_Me_Ladyslipper]

You believe the same thing with scientists and doctors and the Word proves itself in everyday life. Those scientists just test theories.

[Marry_Me_Ladyslipper]

No other creature besides humans use contraception when having sex and their sex is pleasurable. Those animals accept the responsibilities of sex, unlike humans. We can learn something as a species from other species.

[Marry_Me_Ladyslipper]

Contraception is not planning ahead, it's playing God, which other animals don't do. You're lucky I can't send links.

[samhradh_leannan]

Believing something that's written down because it presents compelling evidence based on real observations is very different from believing something that's written down purely because it's written down. I hope you realize that. And humans actually aren't the only animals to have sex for pleasure. We're also not the only animals that have oral sex, or the only animals that masturbate. But regardless of that, humans do TONS of things that other animals do. That doesn't automatically make them wrong, bad, or harmful. For me and many others, contraception IS planning ahead. That's literally, objectively, factually, and irrefutably the purpose of contraceptives. You may think using them is playing god or that it's otherwise wrong, but that's just your opinion.

[samhradh_leannan]

*Humans do tons of things that other animals DON'T do* And they also do tons of things that other animals do, obviously.

[Marry_Me_Ladyslipper]

Message me 1 on 1 and I'll send 3 link you can't refute. Oral and anal is not sex.

[samhradh_leannan]

Do those links make any reference of any religion or religious beliefs? Are they associated with religion in any way? If so, I can refute them, because they're not based on anything that I recognize as valid. Oral sex and madturbation aren't sexual intercourse, but they are activities that involve using our sexual organs to mimic sex in order to achieve the same outcomes (aside from pregnancy). So that still shows that we are not he only animals that value the pleasure that comes with sex, or the only animals that know how to use sex for pleasure alone.