Sexual Relationships 
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Males are pressured to be hypersexual beings.
This truth resonates around the world where a sign of success is sexual acumen and acquisition. It is treated as though women are a commodity that belong solely to the wealthy, the powerful and the genetically superior. This is of course false as you, dear reader, are here and your parents are unlikely to be the most powerful, beautiful or wealthy individuals around. I do not offer that as an insult but instead as something to consider: Most of the people around you are not any of these three things and yet they have relationships, successful ones even, and are content with them.
Woe be to the young man though for he is pressured to be hypersexual. The idea that he may find it more important to study than to chase sex makes him less "fun" when interpersonal transactions occur but the hypocrisy of society, that outer layer which never promotes the darker truth of it's own evils, will always declare him the smarter one. He is ridiculed for his lack of interest and violently rejected if he sees himself doing more than chasing tail in his life; it is fundamentally pushed as one of life's goals with nonsense arguments about biology and such as driving forces towards the ultimate fate of finding another person and wasting twenty minutes deeply lodged inside of them.
He is devoured by social myths where his penis is no longer an organ for his pleasure or benefit but instead a measurement of his manhood and viability. The term "manhood" even applies to the penis as a nickname and all that he is, the physical work of maintenance of the body, the rigorous study to sharpen the mind and the contributions and volunteerism to steel and open the heart all yield to the size of his penis. He is shamed for being even average feeling insecure all of his life unless he is notably able to cause discomfort and pain living out his masculinity distinctly as a curiosity and nothing more to most partners desirable for but one thing.
There is nothing glorious about living this way.
Yet here he is, deciphered by measurements worth less than an eight of his height and less than 5% of his entire physical volume. And he is afraid. He doesn't want to be rejected because of his penis because that has fundamentally been drilled into him that this is all he is and furthermore that within his full worth it is his purpose and responsibility to act as a pleasing agent to whomever should receive him. He is terrified because that rejection is not a "no" to sex it is a "no" to what he has been ingrained with as his whole purpose, the only drive he should have, the primary reason he works and struggles and acquires power.
Is it not ironic that he has essentially become a baby factory that fights it's purpose?
He makes sure that his female partners are on birth control or otherwise avoids the process but then goes around rampantly giving in to "biological urges" that he's told he has living the emptiest of empty lives. He is so indoctrinated at this point that he believes this wholeheartedly is his person and being and when he has that momentary flash begging him to return to his senses he tells himself "It's just fun" because he cannot configure or deal with the conflict that lies in himself. To ease the dissonance he simply submits.
People talk about MGTOW and MRA and such not understanding that it is a by-product of reduced male worth. He believes he is a giant disposable penis who is taught that his life is empty and he can die as a soldier for glory and honor meanwhile given the opposite message from the "fairer sex" that he is completely replaceable and that they can have anyone they want. Is it a wonder he is failing in school environments? Is it a wonder he is checking out of reality altogether and living in digital worlds? Why else would he go to school but to make money to acquire power to get sex? Why take care of his physical body? That is what he is told from a young and tender age is all that matters.
Oft accused of objectification that he is taught to project he is the ultimate social object.
What Girls & Guys Said
0 3As a young man, you should absolutely be chasing women. If you're not, then you need to work on yourself. If you're letting feelings of inadequacy cloud your judgment to the extent of rationalizing this kind of behavior, then it's to be assumed you're insecure.
It's only within this generation that where we coddle these feeble minded mentality. If you're average, then get your ass the gym and make yourself above average. Go get an education. Go make some money. Go buy some nice threads and look sexy as fuck. Develop some confidence along the way. That's what women like... a man on a fucking mission.
As a young man, your testosterone levels are at an all-time high and this contributes to high sex drive. You should be getting morning wood every morning. You should have intense urges to want to stick your dick inside a warm wet hole throughout the day. If you don't, then something is wrong and you should talk to your doctor about low testosterone. There are lifestyle changes that you can make in your diet and exercise routine that can really help someone with low T out.
Just speak for yourself man. I don't associate myself with people of this weak mentality. You guys are absolutely toxic. I surround myself with aggressive go-getter types of guys because that's who I am. Guys like you bring guys like me down. Stop thinking you're so mediocre and just go assert yourself.
I pride myself on having a high sex drive and when I was single I was chasing after women every day. They liked my very direct approach and I liked being that guy.
And sex is absolutely fun and pleasurable. I really don't know how you're going to argue with that.
''As a young man, you should absolutely be chasing women. If you're not, then you need to work on yourself. If you're letting feelings of inadequacy cloud your judgment to the extent of rationalizing this kind of behavior, then it's to be assumed you're insecure.'' ... or you just happen to be gay
@Stamps Are you implying I'm gay for my opinion or are you saying this context doesn't apply to a gay guy?
@Chico_brah I'm indeed just saying this isn't applied to a gay guy
@Stamps Gotcha. Well just switch the chasing women part to chasing men and you're good to go bruh. 😎👍
@Chico_brah Well, not me :P I'm straight, but I'm just saying
@Stamps Gotcha.
This went over your head.
What exactly did I miss? It just sounds as if you're stuck in this sort of victim mentality but because you can't reach up to what's considered the norm within your age bracket in regards to sex. I don't struggle with this issues as a man. I dony feel pessured to do these things. I WANt to. If you want to clarify one thing for furthermore that I did miss, the please feel free to do so.
Your first paragraph encompasses it perfectly: The ultimate form of insecurity in my opinion is doing something to acquire someone else's attention. Two sides to the same coin of course because if someone were to take my advice which isn't posted here which is to do well for themselves first or your advice which is to improve simply to attract others' attention then the person is improved regardless. Mind you I've no problem with you being attention seeking and enjoying it because what's wrong with that? By all means a healthy sex life is great albeit I'm personally not for casual sex but I had a long-term relationship and lots of sex with it so it isn't so much that. You're thinking too small. We now live in a world where male children are suffering educational neglect. Lots of men are checking out Chico. This is not a problem for you because that's just less competition or whatever but overall it is a massive issue for society which needs more than "toughen up!" The world changed.
Well I'm not really attention seeking as of right now. My opinions on this website are exactly the way I speak in real life for the most part. I get that it can be offputting to a lot of people and I understand that but this isn't relevant in the discussion here. It seems as if you placed a lot of emphasis into this victim mentality much more so than the opposin side. You might not declare it to be persuasive but this is the vibe I got from the take. That's doesn't mean I'm too dim-witted to comphrehend what you're saying. I'm digesting he take for what it is and I came to that conclusion. I think a simple "tough-up" is actually what a lot of guys need. We tend to over analyze our own problems and for this reason, we hype up our issues to be more complex than what they actually are. Some simple motivation can benefit a lot of people. I'm not naive enough to say motivation is the only and absolute solution but it's important to recognize it's simple value.
In a social dynamic, and going strictly by the real definition, you're sort of persuasive in a way that coddles the beta male. You placed so much emphasis into this victim mentality in comparison to the opposing side as I've already mentioned. Guys checking out as you say are mentally weak and I don't coddle or rationalize that behavior for that fact that it serves no benefit to do so. If a guy just wants to throw in the towel because of tenprorary feelings of inadequacies, then he's mentally weak and needs to step up.
Instead of dismissing my opinion as it's above me head, or I simply don't understand, you should take what I'm saying with some value. Other people have different experiences and for that reason, we look at things differently. It's not that this is just so above my head, it's more for he fact that I've been a guy who thought like this at one point. Wouldn't it make sense to maybe listen to the guy who's been on both sides of spectrum first hand? It might not be the opinion you want to hear, but it's my opinion and you can't just invalidate it for he fact that it doesn't lineup within your way of thinking. You're thinking too small as well. I'd suggest that you become a little open minded and perceptive to others opinions because others might actually some experience and value to offer. You're limiting yourself by being stubborn. You can be stubborn on the exterior all you want. I do that. At the same time, I digest what others have to say and apply it in my own format.
I also read a lot of books. These struggles that you mentioned have been dealt with by a lot of other men. Maybe someone has another way of looking at things which can actually be to your benefit. This applies to life in general. It makes much more sense to listen to those who are experienced then to run through a trial error a multitude of times. You can just take a shortcut by listening to others knowledge and wisdom. I'm not self proclaiming myself to be of this superior type in the context of this scenario. I'm giving you this advice from a general perspective. you don't have to listen to me, but it's in your best interest to listen to others in general before just dismissing it.
There are no victims in this world so there is no value to a victim mentality. That's exactly the problem; let's take the word motivation and change it another, propaganda, then further that by acknowledging that it can be both a good and a bad thing. Demoralization exists and in the world of Wolves and Sheep most people are sheep. Alpha, beta, theta, episilon, etc. are all imaginary titles in my opinion because there are only Doers and Wishers in my eyes and one either understands the world or does not. Two sides of the same coin as I said. We are not in disagreement about how simple the world is or the value of a man and such but look at the forces in play? You have fully grown men teaching other men about the "harsh reality" of marriage or referring to being single as glorious and misusing things like the Pareto Principle to justify their behaviors and nonsense. Sheep have voices too, you know, which is the main problem. The game has changed in a major way. Women don't need men.
By definition, victim fits the criteria in the way that I was referencing it. You can call it whatever you like though. I'm not much a philosophical thinker so I'm not about to argue that part. Motivation is not to be synonymous with propaganda because propaganda implies something else entirely. You're just changing words to make it fit your narrative and way of thinkingz you're again, dismissing what I'm saying. You seem to default on this kind of thinking. It's like you don't like what I'm saying, so let me put together some other words that only make sense to my narritive. I'm not going to argue like that because that's a huge headache for me. I'm a very logic based thinker so if we can just use normal definitions, that would be great. Continued..
Once upon a time that wasn't true and it turns out that this is the first generation to really survive such a thing. Women not only do not need men but make a marked appearance in media of all sorts stating this openly and demoralizing them. Slapping them on the back and telling them "get out there tiger!" isn't going to work anymore. The sheep are terrified. So what do terrified sheep do? They hide. Unfortunately we have plenty of safe spaces, and no I am not referring to that collegiate nonsense of political childishness, but instead pornography, video games, bullshit jobs that pay the bills, MGTOW which supports a focus on women as distinctly alien creatures, etc. all of which act as escapes from social pressures because Wolves are still out there being predatory and it isn't a matter of sheer personal insecurity anymore either. Male educational decline is a real problem. Female teacher favoritism? Real. Demonizing of males? Real. There are no victims and it's not a mindset.
Logic also tells me that women need men from a biological standpoint and for the fact of how reproduction works. To say women don't need men is conpletley irrational. Most rational people would disagree with that 100%. The people who think like that, tend to live their lives on the internet. Real life is much different. Women still need men. No amount of social conditioning will change that within our lifetime.
You're automatically deeming yourself as a sheep here. I don't understand why someone would settle for mediocrity in life. Life is short and it's not worth it to live that way. I'm all about conquering and being on your life mission. Dominating your goals and making a diligent effort to do so. I live by this and this is why I'm successful. Successful people tend to have all of these traits in regards to mindset in common. The same applies in the reverse with sheep.
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The world is aggressively changing. It isn't a matter of opinion whether women need men so much as it is an economic fact that about 30% of women now earn more than their husbands with both working. That number is not stagnating and the increase is actually getting more rapid. That "sociological conditioning" won't happen during your life, no, because it proceeds it and has for quite some time. To be frank you're behind.
As for comparing us and the merit of our goals I've no idea what yours even are let alone if you've made meaningful headway. My guess is that yours is to run around adventuring, get a job, stay fit or something of the sort and that's about it. You might play into entrepreneurship a little or something and get a little clout. Nothing wrong with that but hardly lofty.
I do have some bad news though; Wolves do not pander to the opinions of Sheep.
I have to agree here. Women are increasingly devaluing men and making approaching or chasing in the traditional sense useless. There is no reason to approach someone who is going to rip you apart just for showing interest and when that becomes the norm then men will give up. As they have. Telling men to go with their instincts isn't good advice because their instincts are now telling them to avoid hostile women.
The rest of society doesn't follow bohemian college campus co-ed lifestyles. Maybe it works in that scenario but in the real world men are being shamed for simply existing.
100 girls will claw each other's eyes out over one guy while 99 guys get nothing.
Which would be fine, if we were killing the rejects, but instead, we keep them alive for labor. They just work crappy jobs until they die.
social darwinism?
@Mr-Kabuki Let ugly or underdeveloped boys enjoy their childhood, let them enjoy cartoons and cereal and rollercoasters and rock 'n roll, let them enjoy as much of life as they can, then HUMANELY euthanize them before they have to go through puberty and beyond. Why make someone live only to suffer and scrape and struggle and all for nothing? No reward at the end, no benefit. Just bitter anguish for it's own sake. Is that not exceedingly cruel? Is that not vicious beyond belief? It truly seems so to me.
@Mr-Kabuki Women are the ones who make this eugenics necessary, not men. Women refuse to give love to more than half of all males. Is that right? Is that okay? The absolute LEAST that the State can do is put these men out of their misery. Just put women on the death panel. Let them examine each and every 12 year old boy, nude. Have doctors' opinions on their potential for further physical development, and just make women kill all the spares. They're already doing it, just make them do it all the way.
While they claw their eyes out for a dude that will probably cheat on them. I live an happy and wealthy life and I don't feel like I need a woman in my life. I am free !
@googeee Stay strong.
shouldn't men just kill themselves?
What? I've never felt pressure to be hypersexual