Different Types of Sexual Assault (Part -1)

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Hello G@G community,

We all might be aware of different types of sexual assault. Let's Discuss the solutions for different types of sexual assaults.

Sexual assault is any kind of sexual activity committed against a woman's will. Whether the rapist uses force or threats of force is irrelevant.

Sexual assault comes in many different forms and is often referred to as a continuum. This is due to the fact that some incidences will overlap, and the survivor will experience multiple different types of assault at the same time. Others may experience sexual assault as an isolated, singular event.

It becomes our duty to discuss and help the people who had experienced assault.

Objectives of This Take

To help people who had experienced sexual assault.

To share knowledge with people because I strongly believe that power is gained by sharing knowledge not hoarding it.

To change the opinion of people on this site about my country. 🙃

I am going to share different types of sexual assault in few parts.

Please GIVE YOUR VALUABLE OPINIONS and SUGGESTIONS.

Acquaintance Rape :

Acquaintance rape is rape committed by a person who the survivor personally knows.

Penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim.

This is also often referred to as “#date #rape,” especially when the two parties have agreed to a romantic relationship, but the survivor has not consented to sexual intercourse.

Acquaintance rape is often misunderstood; people think that because the two parties know each other, it isn’t “real rape.” This is incorrect—rape is a felony crime, regardless of the relationship between the people involved. A clear, consenting needs "yes" to be communicated in order for sexual contact to be legal.

Cat Calls :

Cat calls are verbal advances that include whistling, shouting, and/or saying sexually explicit or implicit phrases or propositions that are unwanted by the survivor.

Cat Calling has received a lot of media attention in the last few years—women, in particular, are fed up with being verbally harassed on the street.

Many perpetrators of this type of sexual harassment believe it is a form of flattery, but survivors do not perceive it this way at all. Instead, it feels to them like an objectifying, unwanted advance.

Date Rape :

Date rape is similar to acquaintance rape; in both cases the survivor knows the perpetrator but has not consented to sexual intercourse. The term “date” often leads people to believe that one must be dating the rapist for a sexual assault to count as “date rape,”

“Date rape drug” is a slang term for a drug that is used to aid a perpetrator in sexually assaulting someone. The drugs often have no taste, smell, or color, and can be poured or dissolved into drinks or food.

Examples of popular date rape drugs include, but are not limited to, Gamma Hydroxybutyrate (GHB), Ketamine, Rohypnol (roofies), and alcohol. They can cause survivors to feel paralyzed, or keep them from seeing well or speaking up.

An easy way to protect oneself from date rape drugs in public places is to monitor personal beverages. It is also a good idea to refuse any unknown drinks that are offered by strangers.

Exhibitionism :

Exhibitionism is a paraphilia in which a person derives sexual arousal from the act or fantasy of exposing their genitals to non-consenting strangers.

In the vast majority of cases, the perpetrators of exhibitionist acts are men and the survivors are women.

One common form of exhibitionism is “flashing.” A typical “flasher” will set themselves up in a public place where there are many people. They will conceal their genitals with a trench coat, newspaper, book, or other object.

When they see a suitable person to flash, they will enter the person’s line of vision and expose their genitals to the victim. At this point, the flasher revels in the reaction of the survivor, perhaps fantasizing about a sexual relationship with the victim as well. The flasher may masturbate at the scene to the point of ejaculation, or he may later masturbate to the memory of the event.

Thanks G@G community for providing me platform to share the knowledge.

Please share your thoughts, experience and suggestions.

Part 2 ? 🤔🤔

[Eugene]

Part 2: Nowadays rape.

A bimbo with feminism instead of brains got drunk, decided to fuck some guy, during the sex she sobers up and starts to feel disgusted about her decision and in order to save her face sorta "I ain't no slut" and get sympathy from the surrounding people (and maybe some shekels) like "yeah, yeah, sweetheart, you ain't no slut, it's a bad-baddie male at fault!" sues the guy for rape, although it's her that initiated it, or wakes up in the morning after sex, sees some guy she fucked last night, again feels like a cheap slut and in order to save her non-existing grace sues the guy for rape.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Thanks for sharing your valuable opinion on my take. Victim-blaming attitudes marginalize the victim/survivor and make it harder to come forward and report the abuse. If the survivor knows that you or society blames her for the abuse, s/he will not feel safe or comfortable coming forward and talking to you. Victim-blaming attitudes also reinforce what the abuser has been saying all along; that it is the victim’s fault this is happening. It is NOT the victim’s fault or responsibility to fix the situation; it is the abuser’s choice. By engaging in victim-blaming attitudes, society allows the abuser to perpetrate relationship abuse or sexual assault while avoiding accountability for his/her actions. This statement assumes that the victim is equally to blame for the abuse, when in reality, abuse is a conscious choice made by the abuser. Abusers have a choice in how they react to their partner’s actions.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Options besides abuse include: walking away, talking in the moment, respectfully explaining why an action is frustrating, breaking up, etc. Additionally, abuse is not about individual actions that incite the abuser to hurt his partner, but rather about the abuser’s feelings of entitlement to do whatever he wants to his partner. When friends and family remain neutral about the abuse and say that both people need to change, they are colluding with and supporting the abusive partner and making it less likely that the survivor will seek support.

[Eugene]

One thing is being a victim. Another thing is when a person simply is unable to hold a personal responsibility for his/her own actions and consequences, and proceeds to blame someone else in order to make himself/herself feel better, gain some sympathy and in some cases a profit, but he/she is not a victim at all. A prime example is one specific politician in the US that continues to blame everyone (including us) for her own failures and poor decisions.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Really it's Part 2. 😊 These assaults occur in two ways: the perpetrator will either take advantage of a person’s inebriation, or the perpetrator will force the survivor to consume drugs or alcohol without their knowledge or consent. Many survivors will blame themselves in these situations; sometimes they are told that they “drank too much” or “shouldn’t have been partying,” and this causes them to feel guilty. Remember that even under these circumstances, the assault is not the survivor’s fault.

[Eugene]

Again, I'm talking about the lack of the ability to take responsibility for one's behavior, actions and choices, while you're talking about assaults. There can be no "assaults" (in any way you may want to interpret it) whatsoever to begin with, simply inability to hold responsibility and/or trying to upkeep one's grace and value in a way of a "damage control" after poor decision. That doesn't make a person a "victim", nor there was an assault to begin with.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Remember that even under these circumstances, the assault is not the survivor’s fault. Sexual assault is considered alcohol and drug facilitated when the survivor is unable to #give #consent because she or he is under the influence of drugs and/or alcohol. These substances inhibit the survivor’s ability to resist the sexual act, and sometimes even prevent them from remembering the event. Consent to any sexual activity is pivotal to the reduction and prevention of sexual assault and coercion. Consent is a voluntary, enthusiastic, informed, mutual, honest and verbal agreement.

[Eugene]

Again, you either keep accidentally missing the core point, or bluntly avoid it on purpose: There may or may not be an assault to begin with. Understand? Compherende? A simple change of mind later on or during the intercourse, with further regret of one's own actions and decisions, which escalates into desire to "erase" this incident from one's name as inability to take responsibility for one's own choices.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Let's clarify the CORE point which is CONSENT. He/She can withdraw consent at any point if he/she feel uncomfortable. It’s important to clearly communicate with the partner that they are no longer comfortable with that activity and wish to stop. It becomes assault the moment they say “no” and the other person continues anyway. Did they indicate their consent? Did they indicate their willingness? ✨"*A person must indicate that they want to engage in sexual activity. A person who is “incapable of consenting” cannot agree to sexual activity. *" ✨ Determining the threshold between very drunk and incapacitated is not an exact science. Put your point with proper clarification that the person was able to give consent or not. If the person was able to give consent then it would not be considered as assault. If the person had changed his/her mind during the intercourse then it would be considered as assault.

[Eugene]

Uh-uh. Especially changed her opinion on "consent" in the morning, while another party was either sleeping, or already missing.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Are you Sexist?

[Eugene]

I'm a realistic person that observes the trends around the world and came to a conclusion that such mentality like you exhibited in last few posts leads to a generation of self-entitled, delusional and irresponsible women, which harms them as well.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

AGREED👍👍👍 🤔🙃 Have a great life ahead.

[coolguy919]

@Being_a_good_indian I think you are the one being sexist in this one. He's making a very valid point. And you are ignoring his points. I have another question for you. If both get really drunk and end up having sex, and the girls feels bad about it later, is it still rape? If the guy is drunk, and the girl is sober, can the guy consent? Can he report rape?

[Being_a_good_Indian]

@coolguy919 In law, consent to sex is when someone agrees by choice and has the freedom and capacity to make that choice. If a person is unconscious or incapacitated by alcohol or drugs, they are unable to give their consent to sex. Having sex with a person who is incapacitated through alcohol or drugs is rape. No-one asks or deserves to be raped or sexually assaulted; 100% of the responsibility lies with the perpetrator. Everyone has the right to live their life free from the fear and experience of sexual violence. It doesn't matter whether it is man or woman. *" If both get really drunk and END UP HAVING SEX, and the girls feels bad about it later, is it still rape? Both end up having sex. He/She can withdraw consent at any point if he/she feel uncomfortable. Consent is required till the movement the act is over. Determining the threshold between very drunk and incapacitated is not an exact science.

[Bell44444]

Catcalls are not assault.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Thanks for sharing your valuable opinion @Bell44444 . There are many "grey areas". It doesn’t matter what you are wearing or where you are going, catcalling is always offensive. That’s why there is a difference between that word and a simple compliment. As a result, women feel embarrassed, dehumanized, invaded, disempowered, scared and more. The individual definition of sexual assault may vary. 😊

[Bell44444]

Assault is not the same as offense. Catcalls are offensive, you're right. They aren't assault.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Yeah, From your point of view you are correct. 😊 But what about when it turns into assault or fear?

[Bell44444]

You see you say something important there. Let's focus on some key words here: "turns in to" and "fear" 1) turns into: implies a change, now something more than catcalling is happening. That extra may be assault, catcalling still isn't. 2) fear: fear may imply that threats have been made, MAY. If so, that is not a catcall; it's a threat, a legally different action. Catcalls are still not assault. The threats are threats and the catcalls are catcalls.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

You have a point. I appreciate it. The answer will depend on the context and circumstances involved in the situation. The main consideration boils down to a threat of harm and whether a reasonable person would consider it a threat of harm or not based on all the factors present. #Verbal #assault usually involves threatening physical violence on someone, although sometimes yelling or aggressively using words to offend or attack someone can constitute verbal assault. The threats must be something the assailant is capable of carrying out, and which cause fear of imminent danger to the victim.

[Hwlsop]

Cat calls even without threats can make a women fear for her safety. They don't know the intention of the cat caller.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

@Hwlsop Thanks for sharing your opinion. 😊👍

[Bell44444]

@Hwlsop Bad drivers make me fear for my safety too. Is that assault?

[Hwlsop]

"assault OR fear" understand the word "or"?

[Bell44444]

@Hwlsop you said for, not or

[Hwlsop]

the quote is from Being_a_good_Indian. He said assault or fear.

[Hwlsop]

It is important to note that I am in total agreement with your first statement that catcalls are not assaults and don't want to hear somebody compare being catcalled to being raped. I was just making a point that catcalls don't need threats to put fear in a woman.

[Fitness-Fanatic]

Thanks for the insight! Good Take 👍:)

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Thanks for appreciating my work. You're Welcome. 😊

[DeeperMeaning]

Let's not forget that men can be victims of sexual assault too.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Thanks for sharing your valuable opinion on my take. Men and boys who have been sexually assaulted or abused face the same mental and physical effects as other survivors.

We should remember that males can also be victims of sexual assault.

#Feminist 😊.

Future Parts.

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[DeeperMeaning]

Thank you for your kind response. Looking forward to your next post. :)

[CoffeeGirl456]

I agree, but from my side, there are more politely condition I v seen I can say it always significant of assaults. Yep, I understand there are a different types of it, well I wanna support your task that its true. Thanks for share something good here.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Thanks for appreciating my work. Your support matters a lot. 😊👍👍 You should share your opinion on this topic.

[CubsterShura]

What do you call it when a guy from a criminal family calls his entire family in front of the survivors house and attack them and cause a riot bringing weapons with them? Happened with me.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

I can understand your concern. It is called as Aggravated Assault. The category Aggravated Assault—Knife or Cutting Instrument. includes assaults wherein weapons such as knives, razors, hatchets, axes, cleavers, scissors, glass, broken bottles, and ice picks are used as cutting or stabbing objects or their use is threatened.

[CubsterShura]

Our security guard and brother got injured. The boy's mother was also there and she argued with my mom using the foulest words ever. My dad was in office but when we called him he came with my uncles and by them some neighbors arrived for help. For the entire time nobody allowed me to get out of my room or even see through the window. I changed my school afterwards.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Thanks for sharing your experience. It will encourage many girls like you to share opinion on this topic. It is critical situation for family members and for especially for you. The help from family, friends , neighbors is important factor. You got support from your family. Remember, you are not alone. You have support of your family members. You have support of your uncle and neighbors. You are not alone. They care for you.

[CubsterShura]

Honestly, most didn't even understand what was happening and they were just there to watch it. Fortunately the man living in front of our house was a very influential person in our area so he had the power to stop this. I used to play with his daughter when we were kids. Fortunately, had good connection with other families in this way too.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Yeah, I TRUST YOU. Few people might be their who can understand and help you and your family in such situation. Humanity still exist on this Heavenly Earth. The people who have power come forward to help people in such situation.

[CubsterShura]

True dat

[zzzondarrr]

Wow, dont you have police in Bangladesh?

[CubsterShura]

@zzzondarrr We do. My father was about to report to the police until their family apologized in the last moment and my father decided that they can be given a last warning, mainly because there was a huge misunderstanding. He could have easily gotten all of them in the prison but later they never annoyed us again so it was all ok.

[metalsucks2]

What about female teachers sleeping with their MALE students is that not rape?

Or you mean to tell me men/boys can't be victims of rape or assault?

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Thanks for asking questions on my take bro. 😊 What about female teachers sleeping with their MALE students is that not rape? In simple terms, it’s all about permission (or agreement). This is something that must be clearly established between two people before any kind of sexual act. If female teachers sleep with male students with consent than it would not be considered as rape. "you mean to tell me men/boys can't be victims of rape or assault" Men and boys who have been sexually assaulted or abused face the same mental and physical effects as other survivors. Definitely they can be victim of Sexual Assault and Rape.

[metalsucks2]

In the eyes of the law "sex" with anyone under the age of 16 is not consensual and when it comes to teachers the age of the victim is irrelevant. But of course the double standard means that when the genders are reversed = "he took advantage of this innocent girl (student) he must be punished what a perv". Basically female victim = taken advantage of and abused male victim = lucky consensual sex

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Age of consent laws vary widely from jurisdiction to jurisdiction, though most jurisdictions set the age of consent in the range 14 to 18. The laws may also vary by the type of sexual act, the gender of the participants, or other restrictions such as being in a position of trust; some jurisdictions may also make allowances for minors engaged in sexual acts with each other, rather than a single age. Charges resulting from a breach of these laws may range from a misdemeanor such as corruption of a minor, to what is popularly called statutory rape (which is considered equivalent to rape, both in severity and sentencing). There are many "grey areas" in this area of law. Rape of males is still taboo, and has a negative connotation among both heterosexual and homosexual men. Mostly, male victims try to hide and deny their victimization, similar to female victims, unless they have serious physical injuries. Please provide your valuable suggestions on this topic.

[metalsucks2]

Ok name me one case where a woman was sentenced to 25 plus years in prison for sleeping with a minor? All I see is "high school teacher given slap on the wrist for sleeping with student".

[Being_a_good_Indian]

As per my knowledge any perpetrator of rape is charged with punishment of 5-7 years. "*25 plus years in prison for sleeping with a minor*" ? There might any cases. I am not aware about any case in which perpetrator is punished TWENTY FIVE YEARS.

[topi_tonge]

V. nice take. It's lot informative. I should be aware and enriched with social knowledge to be a good Indian like you.

2nd part?

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Thanks a lot bro.

Part 2 ? 🤔🤔

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[kitty71]

Tell me if a guy and a lady know each other are friends not strangers the guy wants to have sex the lady probably but it is not ready yet, the girl may want to advance only in the oral sex department for the moment but the guy tell her not to worry about the intercourse everything will be fine especially if it is her first time and he knows it is her first time Will that be call Date Rape? I guy said in his 60´s said that is date rape beacuse she is against it and the guy is forcing her to have sex.

[Hwlsop]

Force is the key word which makes it date rape.

[kitty71]

@Hwlsop I mean the guy is not like forcing her to ahve sex but he wants sex with her but not like forcé forcé. so is it a date rape still?

[Hwlsop]

She has to say no or resist but I am sure that many girls don't want to but just go along with it. Legally that would not be date rape but morally it might be.

[COCOCHANEL]

i accidentally flashed my friend when he pulled the blanket off me and he said it was 逆セクハラ backwards sexual harassment

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Thanks for sharing your valuable opinion. "exposing their genitals to non-consenting strangers." There exist difference between sexual assault and Sexual Harassment.

[Anon-ymous1]

Uh, well... cat calls are not "Assault," they are "harassment." Those two aren't the same.

Get assaulted by being punched really hard in the face, and then get harassed by getting yelled at profanely by someone. Come back and tell me they're the same thing.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

@Bell44444 Read my reply on her opinion. Share your valuable opinion.

[Anon-ymous1]

I see it. The matter stands.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

#Verbal #Assault

[Anon-ymous1]

Hashtags mean nothing, man.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Yeah. Hashtags means nothing.

[burpzzzzz]

You're an idiot these things happen to men too.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Yeah Thanks for your compliment. Men and boys who have been sexually assaulted or abused face the same mental and physical effects as other survivors. We should remember that males can also be victims of sexual assault. I had already mentioned in one of the comment.

[prosmind]

Great and worth reading post.

[Tohru]

Thank you

[Being_a_good_Indian]

You're Welcome !!!

[Chris_Calm]

Sorry to break it to you pal, but you don't get to decide what is classified as rape and what isn't. There's a legal definition, for a reason.

1. Catcalling isn't rape, nor will it ever be.
2. Reading your stuff makes it seem like the girl has to sign a contract for the man to be allowed to have sex with her. If she doesn't say NO, even though she has the capability to say no or makes the guy in any way aware she doesn't want it even though she has the capability, then it isn't rape.
3. Exhibitionism isn't rape. I mean, come on, what is wrong with you? Everything you don't like or agree with, is rape huh? Probably, I am verbally 'raping' you right now, because you don't agree with my opinions.
While exhibitionism is illegal and a felony, it's in no way logical to call it rape.
I think it's disgusting how social justice warriors like you try to use predefined words like 'rape' to manipulate people into agreeing with your radical feminist doctrines.
It's time to get off the internet buddy, real life isn't like tumblr.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

Thank You for your precious Opinion. 😊