Let's Talk About Your Penis... #ErectileDysfunction #PenisSize

1) Does penis length, width and shape matter?

Let's Talk About Your Penis... #ErectileDysfunction #PenisSize

YES:

A) Crooked: A penis may be crooked and angled upwards which naturally rubs a girls g-spot the right way.

B) Shorty: A penis may be shorter (1-3 inches), but make up for that in width (3-5inch+). (It does feel better to be stretched vs stabbed with a pencil dick.

C) Mushroom Head: If a guy has a 2 inch dick... A thick penis head REALLY makes up for the lack in length. A full mushroom penis head adds yummy rubbing sensations and an interesting sense of fullness that teases.

D) Pencil Dick: A guy can have a pencil dick (whenever your length is proportionately too long for your girth) and the blow jobs or intercourse won't be easy. Some girls hurt too much when the penis stabs the back wall of her vagina. The girl might not even be able to perform a blowie without it turning into a full on deep throatie, which isn't easy at all for anyone but pros.

E) Big can be scary and hurt: Though a vagina can expand up to 200 percent when aroused (think of the size of a baby), most women are intimidated by dick sizes that are more than 5 inches.

F) Big dick attracts big vagina: If you want a beautiful size queen and her wide set vagina to love your dick, you will indeed need a king kong dong (8in+).

G) Shitty Man, but Sexy Dick: You could have the shittiest personality, but your nice dick or sex chemistry could keep her coming back for more. Uncontrollably.

H) Average Vagina and Dick Size: In the U.S., the average penis size is 5 in. long / 4 inches wide and the average vagina length is 3-4 inches while her width is an average of a little over an inch.

Let's Talk About Your Penis... #ErectileDysfunction #PenisSize

NO:

A) No Chemistry: A guy could have your average 5 incher dick and the girl could have her average 3-4 incher vagina, but there could easily be no sexual chemistry and it would feel like something was missing. Nothing beats sexual chemistry.

B) Zero Personality: might scare a girl away from having sex if she is the serious-bring-her-to-meet-parents type.

C) Lots of Money: Lets be honest, if you have lots of money you won't have to worry about your size or lack of ability to get it up.

D) Small but mighty. His dick may be small for you, but he could have a sexy voice that just brain washes a gal in the perfect way when he tells her all the things that he wants to do with or to her. He may compensate in other ways by being very very attentive and worshiping in all forms. It will make a girl melt for him, just as much.

E) Men are not expected to be the sex stud responsible for making a woman orgasm. Women who don't explore their own bodies, won't ever figure out what makes them orgasm. A man can't be expected to know a woman's body more than the woman herself. A woman is capable of fucking her mans dick to hit all her right angles. A woman can take control in bed for her sex stud to let him lay back and enjoy the moment without feeling rushed or pressured to perform.

F) Once interest is gone, there just isn't anymore sex and your dick just doesn't matter. If that's what is going on for you, there will be someone else in the world who needs the same thing that you need. Some people just can't have sex when not emotionally invested anymore.

G) Asexual = no sex. That person you like may be asexual and the only way to impress them is to have them fall in love with your mind. BUT GUESS WHAT, still no sex.

H) Stinky dick = no sex. If your dick stank or your asshole dirty... What makes you think someone will want to play?

I) If you are too hot, most people might just assume you are a slut boy. It's true, specifically with girls... They will assume that you get around way too easily with a face like that. NOT ALWAYS TRUE. But I was informed by a coworker who was a male model and actor (and incredibly hot) that he only got laid three times and he was 26. One of those times was with 2 women in New York, he claims. I don't know.

J) If you dont have the face, but you have the body. You will most likely get laid no matter what your dick size is.

Let's Talk About Your Penis... #ErectileDysfunction #PenisSize

2) Is it normal to lose an erection during sex?

A) 100% yes. No you don't need viagra.

B) Men are in a lot of emotional turmoil and pain. Us women have our moody cramps once a month and men have their erectile dysfunction. It happens.

C) His dick needs a break. You could be fucking like rabbits for 2 weeks straight and the guy can have a hard time keeping it up for a while, but take a break and it will be back to normal. Dicks can get exhausted too.

D) He needs to feel emotionally connected. Men need to feel like they are free to express emotion and love to share an intimate moment with someone. He may still be sexually attracted to a woman's body, but missing something really important such as love and emotional intimacy can kill the vibe AND he could still be horny... But now horny and frustrated. (it happens to women, they just don't get wet. It's less noticeable.)

E) Masturbation feels safer. Some men avoid sex in fear of losing an erection or in fear of getting a girl pregnant, etc. This can kill any boner while trying to have sex. Masturbation is always a guaranteed cum-session and guarantees 0 judgement.

F) Porn has raised expectations too high. I mean it happens and the only thing that will save your sex life is if you find someone that you have sexual chemistry with. Even if the girl looks like a porn star it will never be the same and this can kill your boner too.

G) Too focused on his partners pleasure, he forgot about himself. Once he is so focused on pleasing his partner, he can forget about his own pleasure and then it just goes bad from there IF the partner and the guy don't understand or communicate why. The partner might think, "oh, he's not sexually into me" and he will just feel even more worst with a bad reaction from his partner. and bye bye all sex vibes.

Inspired by: https://www.girlsaskguys.com/sexual-behavior/a52050-let-s-talk-about-your-penis-how-big-it-is

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Most Helpful Girl

  • My ex husband was avg size, but sex sucked.

    My husband is larger, sex it great. But it’s not about the size. Sex is great even without P in V intercourse.

    Losing an erection isn’t as uncommon as people think. Can be from simple things like stress or exhaustion. Yes, you can still have sexy time with a flaccid penis. You can even have intercourse with a flaccid penis, but it requires patience and lube; sometimes reffered to as “soft sex”. This can be incredibly sexy as it’s very intimate/erotic and slow, the penis can also sometimes regain the errection with this method. This is also used in some tantric sex. Men can still ejaculate with a flaccid penis. My husband is younger than me and has issues a couple times a month, but we don’t let it affect our intimacy. If you do, it can tear the relationship apart and cause more erection issues.

    • Thank you so much for adding your personal experience, you're helping to bring comfort to those who are struggling <3

    • No problem. The biggest issue with ED is perception

    • yeah, I can definitely see how that could be the hardest to get over too. Hopefully everyone gets to experience unconditional love <3

Most Helpful Guy

  • Dicks are as individual as the guy they are attached to. There are non-visible variables as well.

    Example, I am about average (5 3/4" long, 5 1/2" circumference), but my "spot" is not the head. In fact, I have very little feeling in the head. My "spot" is in the back, below the head. The advantage of this setup is I can go as long as I want, so long as I keep the friction from rubbing the backside of the shaft.

    The downside is there have been women I have been with that it seemed like no matter what I did, I couldn't find that "sweet spot".. which means I don't cum.

    • Very informative!!! Thank you for adding, I never knew that! <3

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  • Size isn't everything dude.. you need to keep it clean and functional or it won't do you any good. I suggest using a penis health creme daily. These are multivitamin and protein cremes made for the penis and ensure that it is extra strong and hygienic. I use one called Man1 Man Oil and I love it. Just google it. Cheers.

  • Size doesn't even matter!!! Technique and function works every time- perform better by making sure that you're showering regularly and using a penis health creme that has shea butter and vitamin e as these ingredients can promote healing and have moisturizing benefits. Good luck

  • its very useful information mentioned above thankx for sharing, but what i feel & think an avrg size is quite ok and enough to maintain good physical relation. its a modern world erectyle dysfunction is not major problme now a days because many different types of medicine are available into market for ED such as, Generic viagra, kamagra, etc.. etc (http://www. medstorerx. com/generic-viagra. aspx) penis shape , size, width does matter but all case are different.

  • Your friends not wrong.

    I'm attractive and naturally a bit flirty. Always with the side smile and low eyes when I talk (just how I talk to girls in general).

    A lot of them think I'm a "fuckboy" and all that.

    • Yea! It's slightly surprising, but it also makes sense. Thanks for adding your own personal experience to support that! I'm sure this will help a lot of guys understand a little bit more, as well as, help to inform girls to open their eyes to what guys think and are facing.

    • It's one of those where, even if the guy is genuine and wants to date, the girl knows that he's extremely attractive and that women tend to be more attracted to men in relationships... Therefore, a lot of hassle to keep women off... Have you ever been that way? Not sure why, but I'll get a lot of flirting from women but when I make a move, they just go cold. I'm not this super nice guy getting friendzoned, I tend to be a bit blunt and uncaring of a lot of things.

    • YEAH, I have to be honest. I became his friend because I friend zoned him thinking he was too attractive and too much "female attention" trouble... I'm guilty. Honestly, even after knowing that... it didn't change my opinion and it sucks for the guys. I just felt more confident in the friend zone... Because I also know that he wants to go back to New York and he is still a bit insecure. I really adore him as a person which I think he really enjoys more.

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  • Very well thought out and delivered like an expert. You got it all just right. Only missed one thing. Sometimes length and diameter mean nothing if the guy can't produce a decent load. I'll take a crooked tiny dick over a long and thick one if it gives me a lot of cum. What good is a few little spurts?

    • OH MY GOD I completely forgot. So I haven;t been on birth control for like 2 years and so cumming inside of me hasn't been an option for a long time... How could I forget? lol Thank you so much for mentioning that! That is really important. I also forgot to mention that a pencil dick is preferable during anal lolol

  • Let me tell this straight. I am not here to judge or give out a verdict on the penis size stuff but this article is easily the best and I wish every male on GaG would spend some time reading every single line once, twice or as many times until they stop feeling insecure about their penis!

    Good work @sugarchateau

    • Awe, that is so sweet of you!! Thank you so much! <3

    • Yea! Lots of responsibility lolol

  • black dick the best. sorry.

    • I didn't know your vagina could have eyes... so your black pussy is racist or?

    • @MrMAC777 loL

    • Tbh, I haven't tried it. I've met lots of great and sensual black men but I was always too nervous to go any further with them.

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  • over 5 inches can be intimidating to women? I don't by that. Sure, 9 inches or more I'm sure. But like 6 inches thats still about average and 7 inches is above average but not huge or big..8 inches is big territory but not huge.

    • You don't have to buy anything lol. Considering the females average vagina depth is 3.5 inches... and not all girls are experienced with porn or any sex exposure, it can be intimidating. Whether you believe it or not, doesn't mean it isn't a reality for most women.

  • You are very empathetic to males, which is nice and refreshing.

    • I really do try to empathize for all (even animals and environment, biggest reasons for me choosing to limit myself to a plant-based diet) in hopes that it might be returned, to help the world go round and continue onto greater things. I believe that if we take care of our neighbors, we are ultimately taking care of our loved ones. I can only hope for the best <3

  • Amazing and informative mytake. I've always believed, from personal experience as well as talking to friends, women enjoy big penises more for the aesthetic purpose rather than a sexual purpose. I wrote something along these lines not too long ago, if you don't mind checking it out that'd be cool :) The Relationship Between Penis Size & Vaginal Tightness, A Theory. ↗

  • I am waiting for marriage, and my future hubby won't be chosen by his penis size.

    So I never think of it. It's unnecessary for me. In the end I'll take whatever he has, right?

    • It's good to let men know that that's still an option for them too! Thanks for sharing!

    • Welcome. :D

    • My brother and giresearch he been with tell me 2 inch erecto yet I have heard on other room giving great orgasms to girls who have say he the best lucky shit

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  • Honestly.. I have never measured my... I don't get how a girl would be concerned about its size.. Also, I can't change what I have.. so it doesn't make sense to think about it that much..
    What I have learnt is.. women are emotional creatures.. treating a woman the right way.. is all that matters..

  • For 2), there's a very important factor missing!

    He may be too physically tired to maintain an erection. Even if a guy is extremely horny and WANTS to have sex, if he is physically fatigued he can lose the erection (especially if he is on top).

    • lol I promise I tried, but I did end up splitting the ideas so I believe you are right! So thank you for adding that <3 I promise i'm not lying lolol and just in case you are wondering where my claims of trying are, here: "C) His dick needs a break" but the example i gave there was a bit drastic. But then I did say in D) "He may still be sexually attracted to a woman's body [...] AND he could still be horny... But now horny and frustrated." but those were two very split ideas. <3<3<3 thank you for reading

  • Interesting article to put the penis issue to rest.

    • Hahaha I'm hoping!

  • nice one !
    as I mentioned in the article you got inspired by, I'm a 7*5.5 and from my experience some were looking at it with a dropped down jaw, some were like "meh" and once or twice were like "this is the smallest I've tried :D
    but all of them didn't really care or mention anything about it till I asked, they were more into the act itself, so I agree with you, knowing how, when and where to use it are more important for sure...

    • Thank you so much for adding your personal experience! It really helps. I'll be linking this to future questions that involve this. I only hope to continue to help others <3

  • I honestly never understood the penis size questions. It's not like you have to whip your dick out and show her for approval before she agrees to date you. Mainly being confident and knowing how to use it or at least be willing to learn if your parents is trying to be objective.

    • Well-said! Thanks for adding!

    • I meant to say if your partner is trying to be objective. What I wrote just sounds disgusting now lol. Thank you

    • I must be brain dead, because I didn't notice it lolol

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  • ALMOST EVERY TIME THIS CRAP IS RAISED IT'S BY WOMEN, THEN THEY WON'T SHUT UP ABOUT HOW MEN WON'T SHUTUP ABOUT SIZE, ETC.
    IT'S WOMEN WHO TALK ABOUT THIS CONTINUALLY, NOT MEN.
    STOP BOTHERING US WITH THIS S**T. YOU'RE ALL A BUNCH OF GAPING, SLOPPY, JEALOUS, INFERIOR WASTES OF OUR RESOURCES.

    • Alright. I wasn't assuming about anything with guys. I was trying to be informative and helpful. I'm sorry you got upset over this and other posts.

    • STOP THE FEMINAZI S**T DEGRADING MEN, WILL YUH? STOP TRYING TO MAKE MEN FEEL LESSER, AS IF THEY DON'T MEASURE UP. IT'S WOMEN WHO DON'T MEASURE UP, AND MUST DEMAND EQUALITY BECAUSE THEY CAN NOT TAKE IT/MAKE IT, BECAUSE THEY AIN'T MEN.

    • Wait, are you joking?

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  • what i thought i had a micro penis... everybody was 11"+ they told me so. and checks out in porn so... :/

    • was 15yr old dumbass

    • Yea, it sucks when everyone is misinformed and feels shame

    • @sugarchateau i was joking lol. Nah i have small dick. Girl never complain they say it's big, i said no it's small. I don't measure , that's kinda gay?

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  • Finally a women is speaking truth

    • I mean, I really tried. Someone mentioned that I was objectifying and I'm really glad that not everyone feels that way. I didn't mean it in that way.

    • So thank you for understanding

    • kick him in the face and tell him " Someone mentioned that I was objectifying and I'm really glad that not everyone feels that way. I didn't mean it in that way." This is reality deal with it.. No women in the world says truth, i am giving you a glimpse and hoping you make the most of it,.

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