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My girlfriend Refuses to take a HIV test? help?

She slept with this guy years ago without protection he was a player, And I haven't had sex only with my girlfriend always protected, And I asked her to take a HIV test so she could go on the pill and we could have unprotected sex then what she wants, I want it too :) But the doctor told her that it will remain on her record forever and will increase her insurance so she recommends not to take it and then my girlfriend agreed with her and won't take it help?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Okay. First of all, a doctor really shouldn't be recommending against taking STI tests, particularly tests. As for your girlfriend, she should take the tests if she doesn't want to risk passing anything untoward to you. She needs to look at the worst case scenario here. Her insurance increases or she gives you HIV. Remind her that you would do the same for her. And as people have already stated, there are places that will do it with the utmost confidence and it won't remain on their records.

    • Thanks for your Info, I told her I would travel 3hours with her to go in with her for support when she gets it done and she's asking me to get it done? Why would I get it done, I was a virgin before i met her? Help advice please thanks!

  • It might me on her insurance but in the end, it's important to do it. If she happens to have it, it would be better to know right away anyway. She has to understand that if she loves you, she has to do it.

    Though, in my country there are anonymous test that exist, you should check if it exists in your country.

  • Surely there are clinics there that test anonymously?

Most Helpful Guys

  • First, if that's true she needs to get a new doctor. Second, that's shady and I'd honestly wonder if she's telling the truth on that. The idea her doctor would discourage her from having a potentially life altering test, I'm skeptical. I get the vibe it's just an excuse.

    I would proceed with a great deal of caution man.

  • If she refuses and your generally scared se has HIV then leave her? Plenty more fish in the sea. Why wouldn't she get a test for you? I'm getting tested for my girl friend it is no problem for me.

    • She's refusing cause it's left on her record and then her insurance goes up, Am I being selfish asking her?

    • You're not being selfish if there's any possibilities that she has HIV. It's about both your and her health.

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  • Have your GF donate blood. The Red cross checks it.

    • good idea

  • how much is it going to increase her insurance, and safety first

  • you should try to talk her into it because then if she gets pregnant the baby could get HIV you guys wouldn't know until it was to late so thats a good reason to get tested

  • She can go to health department and take the test. Many labs will do STD tests anonymously. The results get emailed to her. She need not give her full name.

  • Keep on using condoms, until she gets tested.

    Also try to show her you really need get top get tested, and suggest going together.

  • If she won't, you have to weigh the possibility of risking your life, versus your desire to fuck her without a condom on.

    Either break up, or learn to love the rubber.

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