The same reason why most females don't enjoy their first time actually having sex.
You answered your own question because it's way to tight.
Now some females deal with this better than others. Nothing has been in there and you still haven't popped your cherry, lost your virginity, bled. That's the thing about it you know it must be painful if the result of it is you bleeding.
But like I mentioned it before besides hopefully being in love with the person you lost it to.. Most females do not enjoy their first time because it is painful.
Some might suck it up feel the pain only as he enters but others will be soar like hell.
You have to be reeeeally turned on.
Try to rub your clit till you feel like orgasming and then just stop right before and finger yourself.
... aaaand lots and lots of lube!
It's normal. I've only had 1 orgasm from fingering and it was by myself.
Did it hurt?
I'm not a virgin, so no. It becomes uncomfortable though.
Yes I fingered a virign. Majority of women don't have orgasm vaginally ( yes it is possible), but majority of women have it through fingering. I have been with a few women.. and honestly I only made a few orgasm through sex.. usually it's through fingering... to make women orgasm through penetration is usually harder.. but it's possible... positions like ( doggystyle, Cowboy or reverse)
Yes and she seemed too enjoy it
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