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Breast Insecurities? Do My Breasts Sound Unattractive? Guys and Girls Opinions Wanted?

Ever since I can remember, I have hated my breasts. Compared to my sisters, my mothers, and everyone else in my family, they just didn't seem right. So, about a year ago, my doctor told me that I have a deformity called tubular breasts (google image them if you do not know what they are). I was devastated at that time because not only were my boobs unattractive, there was a name for them and they are considered deformed... On the brighter side, I only have a mild form of tubular breasts, but they are still unattractive to me none the less. My breasts fill an a cup, the areola are large, they cover nearly half of my tiny boobs, and they are puffy. They droop a little too, so they are not round and cute like most small breasts. Most of the above description of my boobs, I can tolerate, but what gets me down about them the most is the large space between them. Tubular breasts tend to be far apart, but I have fairly broad shoulders for a girl, thus making them a bit farther apart. The spacing between them is around four to five fingers apart. Just to give a general idea, the average breast spacing is about two fingers, and three fingers is considered far spaced, but isn't unusual for smaller breasts. This makes me feel so disproportionate because my boobs just don't seem to fit the rest of my body and it has been really getting me down lately. For the guys: Do these breasts sound unattractive to you? If you were with a girl with these small tubular breasts, would you treat their breasts with the same love and attention as you would with a girl with normal breasts? For the girls: Do any of you have breasts like these? How do you cope with the insecurities? And please, no rude answers, (and no, I do not consider saying that they are not attractive rude.) I really do have really bad issues with them and the last thing that I want is people being rude and offensive about it.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • If I had a girlfriend with this issue I wouldn't even express any form of disgust. In honesty (If we're talking about doing sexual things) I likely wouldn't do much with them as they are small and I don't find breasts too attractive anyways. I feel like a girl's neck and stomach (if skinny) are the sexiest parts of the upper body of a woman so I'd be kissing/ sucking/licking those and not really caring about your breasts.

    Everyone has insecurities. Everyone has flaws and that's okay. In the end as long as you can find someone who loves you for you everything just works out!

  • The beauty of modern medical technology. If it is really bothering you then have breast surgery done for your self esteem. Have you ever seen the TV series the bionic man? Personally, someone who loves you would never criticize your looks...

    Steve Austin, astronaut. A man barely alive. Gentlemen, we can rebuild him. We have the technology. We have the capability to build the world's first bionic man. Steve Austin will be that man. Better than he was before. Better, stronger, faster.
    -Oscar Goldman

    • A lot of people are tearing on surgery. You must weigh the pros and cons of anything. The simple fact today is that breast surgery is not very invasive. it is not very expensive... If it were to overcome a complex you have about yourself then I would say it is well worth it. I would suggest also that accepting you as you is what is best. the fact remains that you are asking for opinions about your complex thus others opinions mean a lot to your self worth. I had very skinny legs growing up, so much so I had a phobia about wearing shorts. I got over it, it was at age 22 (seriously) that I wore my fist pair of shorts in public. I literally almost passed out from fear of being ridiculed. Self worth is important, if my answer was as simple as breast implants today I would have taken it...

Most Helpful Girls

  • My breast aren't like this but I am self conscious about mine as well. I think a lot of females have insecurities about their breasts. Mine are large and, like many others, sag. I don't like this. I wish mine were perky and pretty. I was very shy for the longest about my breast but I finally came to the realization that it's just life, they're on me, and I can't change it unless I got surgery, which I don't want to even begin with lol. I've learned to accept it and just keep going. When you're with someone who loves you, it don't matter about what they look like.

  • I feel you on an emoitonal level, as females we take pride in the size and shape of our breasts, so when we told bad news about them, it leaves us more questions then answers.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • All breast are beautiful if you asked me I like downloading videos with a lot of body worship

  • If you can live with a guy having a small or a bit of an awkward penis, then yes most guys will probably get used to it or over it, if you are his girlfriend.
    I googled it and have seen it before, but truly never gave it much thought. I know everyone has another body type and i just accepted this as one of those differences.

  • I think especially in light of their size, it won't be all that noticeable.

    Wouldn't impact me very much.

  • Small breast problem, I can understand.

  • Ahh thats fine!, nothing to worry your little head about ;)

  • I have no idea since I've never seen them.

  • well my opinion tubular breast are the best breast but then i think i have a fetish for them very very sexy would love to see them :)

    • how can i find such lover as you? it would be a life and mindchanging meet

  • 1. This is one of those things that would need a picture and not a description
    2. You seem to put far too much effort into finding flaws in yourself and that cannot be healthy

  • You had me in puffy nipples, they are so sexy. Damn I wish I could see them

  • Personally I dont mind Tubular breasts but every male is different.

  • No not at all unattractive.

  • Your description does NOT sound unattractive to me. They're not abnormal, just different. ( Is a ginger (M/F) abnormal in your opinion?)
    If I were with a girl with these small tubular breasts, I would treat her breasts with the same love and attention as you would with a girl with another shape breasts. I'm sure I'd like them very much because they're special.

    • Please, don't let you convince to have surgery.

    • Since I made some typos, I'll repeat: Your description does NOT sound unattractive to me. They're not abnormal, just different. ( Is a ginger -M/F- abnormal in your opinion?) If I were with a girl with these small tubular breasts, I would treat her breasts with the same love and attention as I would with a girl with any other shape of breasts. I'm sure I'd like them very much because they're special.

    • tubular breasts are VERY attractive until the woman gets over 40 and they start pointing south

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  • its just the shape of your breast. everyone is different.

  • No breasts are unattractive

  • It wouldn't matter if the girl I love has them, I would still get turned on, every time I see and feel them. I love all sizes, but prefer small, even very small.

  • Boobs are boobs.

  • i would need to see them first

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