This is a question that comes up a lot on this forum. High heels are exciting to men. If I see a women in the street in high heels I'll always pay her some attention-women in flats or thick heels don't even get a second look, unless they just happen to look like Gwyneth Paltrow, which is highly unlikely. The combination of a skirt and high heels is irresistible. My girlfriend wears her highest heels and stockings in the bedroom just for me-phew! That really gets me going. I'm sorry that you think you will be "giving-in" if you wear heels for a man. He's asking you because he knows you look great in them-isn't that a compliment? I see that you are a mature lady. I think mature women are worried that they look tarty in heels (or will attract nasty comments from other women) and this puts them off wearing them. Don't worry about it-who cares what other women think? It's what men think that matters. Mature ladies look absolutely fantastic in high heels-smart, super-sexy, and hot. Go for it-knock 'em dead.
My girlfriend wears stiletto heels all the time and wears them when we have sex because she knows I LOVE that -- it is a HUGE turn on to see your lover wearing nothing but a smile and stilettos! If you have sex standing up with your bf/lover behind you, it gives her body great position in heels! Plus, its hot as hell!
The answer is super easy, and it goes for heels, lingerie, clothes and other things ;) Sex should be a moment for you both to have a time of playful intimacy, it is a moment where all trust is being poured over.
He wants you to wear high heels, AND you don't really mind, AND it makes for an exciting moment? Wear them all the times, why not? How much do you like/love the guy? How much do you appreciate the relationship?
Yes. We wear stilettos on the street to impress. Why not wear stilettos in the bedroom to make your boyfriend or husband happy? But I'd make it a treat for special occasions, not do it every time. You and only you decide whether it's a stiletto night, or not. That's the way to REALLY drive your bf/husband wild (and get him to do whatever you want! )
I don't agree. My boyfriend likes me in high, spiky heels so I wear them for him whenever I can - the more I wear them, the more he likes them. Don't let the killjoys out there put you off. High heels are sexy, and turn guys on. So they're bad for your feet? Who cares?
Yes. You know how the saying goes men want "a freak in the bed and a woman in public".
No! They want an all-together beautiful lover who respects and cares as much about you as you do them in fulfilling the other's fantasies.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!As a guy, I love wearing high stiletto pumps, so obviously sharing in this would be my preference. However, it is her choice, just as it should be mine. If we only uses our charms or attire to manipulate each other at our convenience, then our relationship won't be lasting. We have to be good friends first, in that we only care the other is equally or better supported and satisfied in all we do and say.
Let me explain something. High heels are the only type of women's shoes that guys get emotional over. Why? Because they make your legs look great, they make your ass stick out, and they accentuate the female gait, or walk. And, they are completely different from the utilitarian shoes that we guys wear.
The shoes are not what he loves INSTEAD of you; rather, they are like the frosting on the cake; and they add to the pleasure of the experience for him. If you are able to wear high heels, and you want to really turn your guy on, they can really be a powerful additional attractant! We guys love everything about you ladies! We were made that way, and it's because you were made that way!
High heels are nice to look at. Only wear them if you really want to, though. You need to feel comfortable with it, or he might notice.
It looks pretty but it's not practical during sex, at least for me. Maybe during doggy and riding, but that's all I can think of. If you feel uncomfortable with it, you should tell him and (if he's a good guy) he'll listen. But what do I know, I'm Just A Random Guy.
I've actually never liked the stilettos at all. I wish women would stop wearing them, they are too try hard. Classic heels are the best.
Nope.
Yes. High heels are extremely sexy in bed. Its a major turn on. Most girls don't know this and a lot of womens website I've seen say how bad they are for your feet. That's if you wear them 24/7. Wearing them in bed is great.
It's a fetish.
There is nothing sexier than a tall girl wearing really high heels in the bedroom! Total turn on!
Unless it's a short or medium-height girl wearing really high heels in the bedroom! Total turn on!
Well you should if you have no self respect or just say no if you don't wanna wear them
If you like heels, why not wear them during sex?
Not in the slightest for me
I think heels/stilettos are HOT!! Aspecially black pumps and/or sandals. As for women wearing them in bed or in public, is a big turn on for me too but is THEIR CHOICE!!!
I think girls who wear high heeled shoes are so much more sexy than girls who wear flats. I am not saying girls should wear stilettos all the time but they make a real difference when girls wear them on a date or going somewhere else smart.
yes and they like to lick them too
Actually I don't like heels. At all
My wife wears high heels in the bedroom just so I can cum on them; she occasionally wears them during sex too.
Definitely! I let my wife know about my foot fetish when we first started dating and she has since dressed up in heels for me. She wears then when we go out and during sex sometimes! ITs AWESOME!
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