Girls! Would you do this with your boyfriend?

[Codysmith95]

Ok, so I am 19 and still a virgin, and I've only had one relationship with a girl I really liked but it didn't go far at all, only because I'm still waiting. I'm also looking for a girl who's a virgin like me. I know virgins are hard to find these days but that's besides the point. A fantasy of mine is if one of my relationships ever got serious and I didn't want sex yet, I would love to play the "exploring game", where both of us would literally take all of our clothes off and explore each others bodies. This can be similar to the I'll show you mine you show me yours game but we can also touch anywhere on each others bodies (just no sex). We can sit in front of each other or lay down or etc. I feel doing this before sex would help us become more comfortable with each others bodies, but I'm not sure because I haven't been there yet :D so girls, would you do this with your boyfriend? And if I wanted to do this with my girlfriend (once I got one haha)? How would I ask her? I don't want to pressure her into something she didn't want to do or make her feel embarrassed. Let me know :)

[Anonymous]

I think it's a good idea, because as opposed to pressuring a girl in to something she may or may not be ready for, it's giving her the chance to open up and be more comfortable with you first. It's far more respectful than just jumping right in to sex. As far as asking her if she would feel comfortable with the idea, if you don't feel right asking her, it's probably not the right time yet. Wait until the two of you are close enough that you can talk to her about things like that. Make sure she knows that you won't think differently of her if she doesn't want to, but lay down the cards that this is something that you're interested in.

[Codysmith95]

Wow! Great advice :D it's always been a fantasy of mine and I'd LOVE it if it were to actually happen. I consider sex as the penis entering the vagina, everything else is fair game. But yes, I'd let her know she's very beautiful and that we wouldn't have to if she wasn't comfortable. I'd just like the feeling of us both exposed and exploring each others perfections and imperfections, this feeling would just be heaven for me.

[epona]

I think that's a great idea, it brings you closer in my opinion... With the right girl at least ;). Bringing it up might be harder though I personally think you would just wait for the right moment and let everything go at it's own pace, a girl might feel insecure about her body so giving her the comfort of letting her know you like her body might help you :)

[Codysmith95]

Thank you :) I don't have a girlfriend at the moment, but when I do I'll definitely let her know that I love her body. Glad to know girls would try this too!

[epona]

it really depends from girl to girl though but honestly I think many girls would be (too) embarrassed of their bodies to do such thing so please keep that in mind and work on it as a couple (with your future gf) ;) Good luck !

[loveyourself0606]

If it's meant to be, it will come naturally. I'm a virgin and I would do that with my bf.

[Annymous8]

I would like to do that with a guy. You could just ask her if she would mind you two getting familiar with each other's bodies.

[KBob93]

What if she got aroused and wanted to give you oral, and just oral? Would that be ok? I mean, there's virgins who have given oral, but most don't count oral.

[Codysmith95]

Yeah I would t count oral either, sex is sex, and only when the penis enters the vagina according to science. But that's something worth a try! :) why have you done it?

[KBob93]

Exactly! I am a virgin, but I have a mental illness that compromises my "entire" purity. As in, I won't lose my virginity until marriage but I've done almost everything around it, and sometimes for the very sake of not losing it. My psychiatrist and I articulate it to be "alternative forms of intimacy" in order to maintain technical virginity. I have given oral, received as well, sometimes I just love worshiping the male anatomy. You gents are beautiful, lol. When I was in high school, my boyfriend and I were purely abstinent. But I massaged him a lot, which gave him a boner and enough gratification to respect my choice to abstain. It was a good outlet for me too, because I got turned on just enough by rubbing my hands all over his body. That's something you could have her do on given days, and you don't even have to be naked! He wore shorts or boxers.

[Codysmith95]

My goodness 0_o you sound like you'd be an awesome girlfriend! Haha sorry for the late reply, I'm fairly new to this site and am still getting used to notifications. But wow! We boys like when a woman does this to us! Like massage. I worship the female body myself, it's a beauty in art for a reason. :) and same here. I'll do ANYTHING as long as its not the actual penis sliding into the vagina, because that Is REAL sex, but I'd love to experiment! That kind of stuff is a definite turn on! Message me!

[Brunette-Bombshell]

Well, I would to this and it wouldn't bother me at all, I find it quite hot an errotic actually.

[Codysmith95]

Glad to know this is something women are open to, and when my time comes its definitely something that I'll ask my girlfriend to do with me :)

[galexyhorizon]

I am too a virgin and I think that is a really good idea. I think you should ask the girl face to face and don't ask if she wants to do it the same day just bring it up and discuss it with her and see how she feels about it.

[Codysmith95]

Yeah I think bringing it up would be the hardest part :( you're a girl, how would you like your boyfriend to ask you? I'm glad girls would be willing to do it

[galexyhorizon]

Well like if I had a boyfriend and he was a virgin and interested of doing this I would want him to do it face to face and just bring it up and not rush in to it give it time and one day it happens. C:

[Anonymous]

That sounds like a good stepping stone to actual sex