How do you know if you gave/are giving good head?

if the guy doesn't flat out say something like "that was great", what are some cues that you did/are doing a good job?


what if you're not just giving head, but having sex too.. like... switching back and forth lol?


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  • You can't know. but you can do it like this and it is going to be PERFECT!

    1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.

    2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.

    3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.

    4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.

    5. Say something like "mmmmm I love it" then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.

    6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.

    7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.

    8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.

    9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone. If you REALLY want to learn how to give a blow job then you have to read Jack's Blowjob Lessons ----> link

    10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it.

    Good luck


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What Guys Said 3

  • Cues? Well if he gets off is obvious that you are doing something right. Yet it could always be better right?

    Ask him to teach you what he likes. No harm in that.

    Here are some tips that make it nice, for me at least.

    - Make sure your lips and mouth are wet and slippery

    - use your hand to give you a hand by giving him a handjob at the same time

    - use your other hand to gently caress under his bag apply a little pressure to the base of his thing under his bag.

    -be in to it and not mechanical

    -be nude

  • 1) he's not complaining about teeth etc. . .

    2) he's moaning, breathing heavily

    3) you get him off. . . .If you are one who likes to finish him off orally and ENJOY swallowing then you will make him even happier !

  • If he busts in your mouth, or for that matter at all, then its good head.


What Girls Said 3

  • Well the first guy I gave head to was like 'Oh God you're good' 'You're so good' while I was doing it... and now my boyfriend - he's a moaner... hehe and then he will say stuff like 'Ah baby I love u' 'Yes that's it..' 'Mmmm' you know things like that? And he tells me I can suck dick like nobody! Hehe

  • If he comes like really really quick...

    • not necessarily I usually take a long time to come from just getting head. I think it's because its not an active motion like penetration, in a way it is like being tickled, it feels really good but in a different way that intercourse. Usually its a warm up for me, along with giving the girl head but if its just a bj, which is great most guys would love that from their girlfriend sometimes it feels good so why would you want it to be over fast or make yourself uncomfortable or nervous trying

  • if he stays hard and cums