There is an ancient art that involves the redirection of sexual energy, sometimes called "chi," that is considered to be one of the most powerful energies we possess. For thousands of years people have been channeling their sex drive into other aspects of their lives with amazing results, especially when it comes to creativity and physical ability. Start using all of this pent-up energy to improve yourself, learn a skill, get a hobby, whatever. Whenever you start to feel frustrated, go for a run or clean your room or pick up a camera and play around taking pictures or WHATEVER. Just start putting the restlessness to good use and not only will you feel much better, but you may be surprised by how sharp your physical and mental abilities become when they are not sapped from the effort of seeking out and having sex.
Masturbation works too, have fun with it.
The way you're feeling has more to do with your perception of the situation than your natural bodily functions. You're getting yourself all worked up because you want sex NOW, and it isn't happening NOW, so you want it even more. Girls pick up on a negative vibe from guys who are overly interested in sex and we avoid them. Take it down a notch and you might find that it becomes much easier to get laid.1 0 0 0
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I have been doing what 'onemoreplease' has suggested. I was obsessed with trying to get girls at one point, but you can't force it if it's not the right time. I wanted sex so bad. I started taking out my frustration on many different things. I started picking up more sports and physical activities. I also took my frustrations out by learning to do things I found interesting such as building things and repairing stuff. I do almost all repairs on my car all on my own. I've remodeled a good deal of my house. Not only have I been taking out sexual frustration that way but I'm also doing some pretty awesome things that I feel good about. How many people our age can say they've replaced a clutch in their car or remodeled a house all in their spare time? Satisfaction can be had in other ways other than sex. Who knows, maybe some girls are more attracted to guys with more life skills like that? The trick is to find something you're interested in. Doesn't have to be cars or mechanical things. Take up a hobby like fishing, or electronics. There are tons of things out there. After you do that, the Playboy should take care of the rest of the frustration! Or there's plenty of free stuff on the internet too.
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