You do have a lot to learn. I'll try to explain as best I can, but the truth is that some guys just aren't good at it. When you have passionate sex, you pour all of your emotion (aka passion) into the sex. It's like there's a fire burning inside you, a deep desire that you just can't get enough of.
If sex is 'just sex' to you, I can see why you're worried. Girls want a little more... here are a couple of tips you might find useful.
Instead of just sticking your penis in, do foreplay. Us girls love it. If you've never heard of it, it's basically like building up tension before the actual intercourse. It can be kissing, petting, touching, oral, basically anything that gives you pleasure and isn't quite intercourse yet. It gets both people really turned on and makes sex that much better.
Touch and kiss her all over. Try to make her feel like you can't get enough of her.
And perhaps most importantly... ask her what she likes. Every girl is different.
Hope that helps.
Passion refers to emotion. Girls like emotion. We like to feel love and be loved. Passionate sex is ideally a mixture of love, desire, and lust. During sex we want to feel like you love us, so we want you to look us in the eyes, hold us close, and touch us. But beyond that, we also want you to be aggressive in your endeavor to have us.
Picture being lost in the desert without water. Then all of a sudden you find a cool pool of refreshing water and you jump in and being to drink it. You're excited about the water, you probably run to the water.. you play in that water.
Your life is the desert, we want to be that water. We want you to want us, and want us badly. We want you to be aggressive (not rough) and forward. We want you to rip at our clothes and pull us in close and tight. We want to feel desired.
So, really, passionate sex is a cross between rough sex, and making love (you know, that slow stuff we see in the movies).
It's sex with an emotional connection, you are more there to get the other person off and it's not just concern for yourself. Taking your time to enjoy the other person everyone involved feels valued and loved (if it's a relationship). I've only been with my boyfriend but I assume sex can be passionate with a fuck buddy too as long as you still care about each other on some level even as friends. It doesn't have to be a certain speed or type of sex to me any kind of sex can be passionate, it just means that both people have a connection, care about each other, and are both really in the moment and enjoying every moment. Passionate sex is sex that both people REALLY REALLY want not just "eh I guess I could go for some sex" sex.
soft music, candles, a hot oil massage, soft kisses placed gently all over the body.
Take your time and slowly enjoying each others bodies. When my girlfriend and I have a "Passionate" night the foreplay will last for hours and hours just caressing, kissing, touching before a slow meaningful intercourse occurs. Once you learn to relax , slow down and enjoy it it WONT be just sex any more.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Then you are not ready to understand, because sex is only sex for you, that means that you wouldn't understand even if you read it, see it in a movie or even if someone tells you how it is and how does it feel.
Being in love consists in don't only think in yourself, you have to think also in how she really feels, what makes her really happy, even if it's not you.
Lots of feeling, intent, intense kissing, deep thrusts
You have a lot to learn about sex...
Explain don't jusy make unnecessary comments
If he doesn't even know what that means should he even be having sex? He has so much to learn, that is all I am saying, I don't need to explain. Just a comment from me. I don't believe that was an unnecessary comment.
The question asked you to explain. If your not willing to explain why even bother writing that?
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