What's the big hype about anal sex?

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I don't understand what's so great about anal. Explain please?

SomeGuy37 · Accepted Answer

It is SOOOO intimate, so personal, it is like the ULTIMATE trust thing you can do!! I had a GF suggest it, but she wanted to do it, with me, with a toy, and I was unsure, like everyone, I think, but she was so gentle, and so perfect, and it was about the intimacy of doing something, so personal, in a place that most people are embarrassed about! There's nothing WRONG with it, and people have been doing it for thousands of years!! Guys don't usually feel what it is like to be 'penetrated' like women, and having that experience is AMAZING, and nothing like you can imagine!! The first time, I came so hard that it hurt, but it was like nothing, ever, before! It won't 'make you gay' but it might make you closer to the right girl, that loves to share intense sexual feelings, together!!
You have to have the right partner, and it isn't about the orgasm, it's about doing something, trusting, relaxing with someone you trust. It isn't a 'quickie', it's a planned, sensual evening, relaxing together, being close, a sensual bath, gentle play, Maybe an enema. . . You have to want to explore the joy, and not be closed off, thinking it is wrong, or strange!
I LOVE vaginal sex with my GF, but sometimes we like anal, as it is different, and more intimate, maybe because it is so taboo, but more like because it feels AMAZING to both!!

G-Daz · Accepted Answer

A lot of people say because it's "taboo" but the reality is this phrase has just become a text book reference that people throw around without thinking. It hasn't been taboo for 3 decades now. Very mainstream.

Let's face it, sex education sucks and the main reason why guys like it is because of monkey see monkey do from watching too much p*rn . There's also the fact that sometimes when guys are circumcised, their penis loses too much sensitivity that Anal becomes a requirement for stimulation because the pussy isn't good enough.

I'm uninterested in anal and too thick for it anyway. It's unattractive and I'd hope a girl i end up with never asks me because of she did. .. that'd be the only reason I'd do it but I'd prefer not to. I don't want to be held responsible for colon cancer, a weakening of the anal sphincter etc causing her problems

SammyGurl · Accepted Answer

I'm not sure either, it really doesn't look or sound appealing to me. It looks like it's literally a pain in tha a$$! My friends who say they've tried it tell me that it is rather painful the first time and any other time they've tried it.

I'm super glad my BF doesn't think it Looks like something he wants to try, he thinks it looks gross!! I've already told him my back door is an exit only. He has got a little too excited when we've been having sex and poked me in the back door, not too much or even inside but it wasn't a pleasant feeling at all.

theshewolf · Accepted Answer

I don't know but for me it was not pleasure... it almost feel like... your shitting out a very big hard turd that is very painful... and afterwards your hole feels so hurt... for me i had pink stuff coming out of my ass and felt like i had strained my rectum... i couldnt sit either... who wants their dick to smell like ass? your sticking your ding ding in the same place my diarreah comes out of... just because its a hole doesn't mean stuff is meant to go in...

michelle3685 · Accepted Answer

First time was a disaster. The guy was a jerk and I was pretty much a novice to such things, so I stayed away from it for a long time. It was pretty unpleasant. Next time was heaven. The guy was so sweet and caring and was very concerned for me, and took his time, working within my comfort zone to get the job done. After that, I was hooked. Done right, it's wonderful.

heywat · Answer

I've often wondered the same thing! It sounds like a really painful unpleasant experience!

broadsword · Answer

It's almost become the new virginity. If a woman has lost her vaginal virginity then she has her anal virginity too.
As it has become more common there are women that find they do enjoy it very much.
From a guys point of view, firstly there is a sort of sexual game that goes on with how far can you get a girl to go and anal is asking for a lot and if a girl does it then that's amazing.
There is also something very erotic and naughty about anal its very much a psychological think. Also very submissive from a woman's perspective. Yes normal intercourse is giving but anal even more so.
From an actual act point of view anal is nice but not as good as a BJ or normal intercourse. It's just very submissive and naughty. If you do it in the doggystyle style position it is also very visually erotic a woman's body in this position looks fantastic and her offering her ass for penetration is wonderful. You also get to see it going in and out. Hope this helps.

GedrinDS · Answer

It's taboo, it's tight, it's different from what he is used to. and it CAN be very very pleasurable for both if done right.

Illusive_Man · Answer

It saves money on Weetabix and is a great constipation aid.

prissygirl · Answer

TRY it. It's So intense... so Personal

Ilikemadison · Answer

I have never wanted to try anal. As @theshewolf said, it's not exactly a clean place. Luckily (?) for me, all my gfs have cited my apparently considerable girth as a reason they'd say no to anal.

Argus14 · Answer

It's forbidden fruit. We all want what we can't have. Plus the tightness feels great for the guy.

SandPlanet · Answer

p*rn.  Nuff said.

Nylena · Answer

because it feels great. and it's easier for me to orgasm if I play with my pussy while I receive anal. it can be really intense.
as for the guys, most probably like it because it feels tighter

it doesn't hurt if you do it right but it's nothing you should do for the first time with a random/unexperienced guy. and you need to relax and clear you head from those "iiih it's dirty/disgusting" thoughts. then it can be really great.

stevie123 · Answer

For the girl, if you work your way into it , it can be better than if you just jam it in the first time.
It might take a week or two of conditioning, trying smaller things and working up to the D
I know some girls that love it, and cum just as hard anally.

Coldice · Answer

Honestly, its just wrong for me... But I also think for most people its that very naughty factor, or the dirty thing heheh. Its become more and more popular due to  p*rn,  but I still think its a NO NO. However if people enjoy it and wanna do it then go ahead

been_waiting · Answer

Guys like to put their dick in places.  If ears were large enough...

Doofey · Answer

It could be many things. They might like dudes, they might like it because it's tight, or that it's exotic :p

molan · Answer

I'll have tried it, I am not into it and did't because she wanted me to. I'll only do it for the girl, as far as for me I'll do much prefer oral and vaginal sex.

big-michael-1 · Answer

don't know anal any thing seem gross to me I see no hype

ColourExplosion · Answer

it's way better, way tigher, gives more pleasure. yeah, that forbidden and virgin part is just plain crap.

loveladies1 · Answer

A big part of it is the whole taboo/forbidden thing

jmmmfi · Answer

I have no idea definitely not my thing

Anonymous · Answer

usually tighter than the pussy

Anonymous · Answer

It's "forbidden". A lot of people like to do what's "forbidden". Something about the allure of not being able to do something

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