I feel it is generally true that a guy will only cuddle with a girl if they care about her, or at least are trying to form or are in a relationship with her. Why you may ask. Because cuddling is a way of expressing love, affection, caring, and possibly attraction. If a man did not really care for you or did not want to form a relationship with you, he probably won't cuddle with you because he doesn't want you to get the wrong idea about the nature of your relationship. We generally save the cuddling for those with who we are in a relationship with, or want to be in one with. If we are just sleeping with a woman, and have no intentions of anything more, we don't cuddle after sex for usually 3 reasons. 1. We don't want you getting the idea we are in love with you or want something more from you than just sex. 2. Not all but some guys may have sex with a girl that their not even attracted to at all just because their really horny or you are available. In this case they won't cuddle because after the sex is done, they are not attracted to the person so why would they want to cuddle? You wouldn't want to cuddle with someone you have no feelings for and are not attracted to right? The third and final reason is if we are attracted to you and want to have a repeat performance another time, we know if we get too lovey dovey, you may feel threatened by this especially if all you wanted was sex, or may panic now thinking we want a relationship with you and we don't want that reaction, because we want a repeat performance. Guys who will cuddle with you when they are not attracted to you or have no feelings for you will do so only because they are desperate and lonely. When I am in love with a girl, am attracted to her, in a relationship with her or seek to be in one with her I personally love and enjoy cuddling. I think at least 50% of men who feel the same about the girl they are with have the same feelings do to. I personally don't enjoy cuddling after sex too much, but do anyway because I know you expect it and don't want to feel like a cheap slut. But I only do this with women I care about. I don't like to cuddle after sex because first of all it's kinda nasty to snuggle up with someone when we are sweaty, and possibly have each others bodily fluids on us or in us. If you have just given me a really good orgasm I'm probably first of all slightly dopey and tired, and would just like to chill for 5 or 10 and enjoy the feelings of relaxation I now have as opposed to cuddling and hugging and being all mushy and stuff. Some guys don't like cuddling because they may just want some physical space. Also when most guys are stressed out or angry, we not only don't want to cuddle, but don't want to talk either. We prefer under those circumstances to be left alone and chill out, most of us anyway. As always there are a few exceptions to the rule. I hope you got the information you were looking for from this novel I wrote.
Haha your novel was helpful for me and others, I'm sure as you have a lot of thumbs up on your answer!
I'd say that there's some cuddling that happens either way, whether or not they care about the girl. But of course, if they really like and care about the girl a lot, then there's definitely going to be a lot more than the normal few moments. Generally, I would say it means something, but guys want to be close to someone that they can feel at one with and that they can trust. Mostly, I would say it's a trust issue. If a guy hooks up with a girl and they barely know each other, there's not going to be too much cuddling. But once there's a level of trust, it's a definite good sign of care for the girl.
Cuddling is awesome, nothing like it to have a girl put her body snuggled up to you. Especially when you have soft skin, when your body and your hair smells really good, and you like to make sure your hands are on his body. Maybe not quite as good as the actual sex, but it's a very close second.
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I love to cuddle. The more the better for me. I am married but my wife doesn't like to cuddle. I am very fit and attractive but not sure why she doesn't want to cuddle. Should I be asking the question "Why does my lady not want to cuddle with me? " hehe
Lol. Well I guess I will answer your question now! Lol Some women just don't like to be touched all the time,! Maybe she thinks if you cuddle your going to try to get things started, and if your talking about after sex, maybe she is hot and sweaty and doesn't want your hot body all over her making her even more hot! Me personally, I love to cuddle, but it distracts me from getting sleep because being close makes me want more. Lol By the way, your married. Why don't you just ask her?!
I don't know she isn't a cuddler?
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