My boyfriend can't feel anything with a condom on?

Question

I tried stick my finger into a condom, and touch my finger from the outside, I feel nothing! So I ask if he can feel anything when we had sex, he said "Yah..." I said "Really?" he was like "Maybe not much honestly..." so no he wasn't initiate to lie about that. Can you guys feel anything through a condom? I want him to feel good during sex too you know so this bothers me. If not, how to not get pregnant if we do it unprotected? Birth control? How effective are they? Or what else we can do to prevent prenancy without using a condom?

stevie123 · Accepted Answer

Condoms suck, but are necessary.
You can't feel much through them, just pressure.
You cannot feel her heat or wetness.
The other BC methods are:
IUD , implanted into your cervix
Spermicide, messy, tastes yucky
Pill. can cause different problems, and must be taken daily
Patch-like pill, only you don't have to remember to take it.
Tubes tied, permanent solution
All above , except tube tying you need to use two types together to get near 100% protection.

ilovesexyfeet · Accepted Answer

The best way is not to have sex! Implants are a good way because u won't forget to take it but none are 100% effective including condoms as they can split. Look for the ones that are thinner material but still strong. Does he cum when using one? If he does then he can obviously feel something so don't worry about it x

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If you're not on birth control then I'd recommend you start! Make sure you don't miss a pill and you take it at the same time every day! Orrrr use the vaginal films (spermicide) . Its way better than using a condom. Condoms suck.

Mgoods · Accepted Answer

I don't like them, neither does my partner. I'm on the contraceptive coil now. But in the beginning of our relationship (like 2/3 years in) I went on the depo

CommieDearest · Accepted Answer

Birth control is just as effective as condoms when taken as instructed. Keep in mind though, obviously, it protects you from nothing else.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Don't go without one... one word: herpes. It was my grave mistake.

thisGUYknows · Answer

We CAN feel it. But it's nowhere near going raw dog. Birth control or IUDs are the best.

ezmode · Answer

Most of the time using a condom you feel very little or nothing

Coldice · Answer

Well some condoms have a lube to make a man last longer, It Numbs the actual feeling. But it is much more sensational without one

Doofey · Answer

Ummm anyone saying pull out is dumb. Use condoms, he can feel it lol. Not as much but yes he can. Birth control will keep you from getting pregnant but it won't get you protection from STDs. If you plan on going raw make sure you both test and use birth control.

ontharize · Answer

i tried a condom once, and within a minute my thang was like jello lol. so i feel ya on that. ima tell u a tricc that works every time, and works in every ones favor. but takes a lot of self discipline but this tricc has kept me bby free since i first started. its a very simple tricc... PULL OUT.

bodenrize · Answer

In vitro ejaculation.

Anonymous · Answer

Two good possibilities: Get tested and get on the pill and then he can ride you bareback. Or, have him fuck you with a condom on, then after you cum, take it off and suck him till he finishes.