Why would a guy want the lights off during sex...

[Anonymous]

Does that mean he is not attracted to the girl?

[Anonymous]

I was actually wondering the same thing. I recently had sex with an incredibly attractive guy who spends a lot of time on his body, and I wanted lights on and he wanted them off -- and he suggested turning on the closet light instead. o___O I asked him outright if he was afraid of what he might see, and he scoffed and said, "Hell no!" mid-boner.

I doubt he thought you were unattractive, just as I'm sure my guy didn't think I'm unattractive; but I do think it's probably a confidence thing. Especially if he dedicates a good third or quarter of his time to body-building. Like my aforementioned guy. Totally pays off, mm ... but he could do with being more confident when naked.

[Anonymous]

or maybe he's hiding something it could be somthing is wrong with him or maybe he just likes it

[ryanontario]

no he's likely attracted to her , he just wants it dark for whatever reasons , maybe he has some self confidence issues towards his body or knows he doesn't look that great . that's be my guess but I do think he's attracted to the girl

[NMMan]

I would suggest that this may have more to do with how the guy views himself, as opposed to how he sees you.

[l-hedoniste]

Maybe he's self-conscious.

[cjwright79]

He has a dark soul.

[Littletad]

"This little light of mine, I'm gonna let it shine"...

Honestly I have no idea, maybe it's a preference.

[William]

Maybe he thinks you want them off? Lots of women prefer lights off!

[Lwallace97]

he could easily just get distracted and with the lights off it's easier to focus on that one thing

[maekkkella]

I've tried this too for the first time. All of my exes want the light on but this new guy I have wants completely light out. Now I'm wondering if it's because of me or it's him. He is so attractive though and has a great body. I hate too dark in the sense that I lose my orgasm real quick. I want to see his body so that it turns me on.

[Anonymous]

maybe he is embarrassed with how he looks?