Does wearing high heels change the way guys react to you?

[Anonymous]

I work in an office and tend to dress quite conservatively. I recently went on a shopping trip for some shoes. The friend who was with me talked me into getting some high spiky heels. She always wears them, and said I would notice a change in the way guys interacted with me. She was right. My boyfriend loves me to wear them in the bedroom with stockings, etc and insists I keep them on during sex. Slutty I know, but wow! He can't keep his hands off me. At work, the men have suddenly got very attentive. Especially if I wear them with a little skirt. Have any other girls noticed this effect? It's crazy!

[Married-in-PA]

It isn't crazy, it's basic, primal sexual attraction.

1. Heels make you a little taller. Although some guys have a petite thing, many men (like me), appreciate tall woman. It projects healthy confidence on your part.

2. Have you seen what a nice pair of heels and a tight skirt do to a woman's butt? OMG, it's like wearing a sign on butt that says "look here". Heels have the tendency to push your butt up and out. Grrrrrrrrr, boy is this a nice effect.

3. Heels are very lady like. Only women wear heels, so it's a (constant) visual reminder to us men that we are in the company of a lady.

4. Heels made these delicious, sexy tapping sounds when you walk on wood or un-carpeted floor. Boy is this a big tease, because it's an unmistakable sound (if you've experienced it before). And it's such a nice feeling to know that "a beautiful woman is approaching" -- even if you can't see her yet. Talk about anticipation.

As you can prob. Tell, I love women in heels. It's one of those few things in life that makes me so glad to be a man.

[SeaCadet]

A lot of guys like high heels. Its makes women look more fragile and in need of attention. Makes your legs longer, a firmer butt (firmer butts are always sexier), makes your calves have some muscle definition ( which is sexy). Also it moves your chest forwards which makes them look bigger. Anyways its basically perfect in everything except I'm pretty sure it hurts to wear them. But ya any girl who doesn't wear like 4 inch spikes is missing out on a lot. Think about why strippers wear high heels I mean stripper heels aren't sexy, but its been proven that wearing high heels makes the strippers earn more money.

[Lesae]

YES! I wear stilettos to work and I do get treated differently than on the days I wear flats. It's normal. But, if you ever need a boost of confidence girls buy some stilettos and a skirt.

[Sugarcoat]

Guys like it because it draws attention to your butt. Heel are so uncomfortable. And they give you feet problems. I'd rather a guy likes me for who I am, not what my shoes do.

[That-Guy]

Wearing heels won't make or break a relationship or attract a guy worth while. If a girl is a 7, Heels will bring her to an 8. That's how great the Heel/skirt combo works if you can do it. Guys catch you with confidence and girls catch us with physical attraction, initially.

[PistonBroke]

I don't agree with this . When I see a girl in high heels I admire her legs and feet, not her butt .

[Sugarcoat]

I just don't think what you wear should be that important . I'd rather choose a partner based on who they are, not what they look like .

[deadwait]

I don't agree with PistonBroke . When I see a girl in high heels I wonder if they come in my size .

[metaldave20]

They make inserts for heels now, as well as retractable heels, you should check those out... that made me sound gay that I knew that I had just happened to see that somewhere, thought id mention it, but yeah, we all know personality is the key, but really I mean don't you feel more confident and "sexy" when you got them on, plus it makes you a bit taller, which is always a good thing

[That-Guy]

Heels and a skirt = keys to a man's heart. Top that off with a sandwich and an Xbox controller in the other hand and you'll have him tearing up from happiness.

[deadwait]

Yes, they ask me for my number =P

[johnsmith2116]

I'm not a girl, but I myself tend to take more notice too.

Assuming that she has nice legs, high heels just make a woman's legs look great!

[Amazon_Linda]

Even though my man is just 5ft tall, I wear massive 8" heels a lot and I'm well over 6ft tall barefoot. He goes really shy and quiet, but also loves it. I feel being really tall gives me a sense of power and authority.

[Anonymous]

There's a site on the web called Classic Pumps. They sell very nice shoes but there's something special. The front is cut low, so it reveals a little toe cleavage. For some guys, very sexy. You'll definitely get noticed, and the shoes come in many varieties (flat to 4" heels)