maybe he is asexual? Asexuality is a sexual orientation and like any other is just the way you were made. Asexuals can experience romantic and aesthetic attraction however. So, you could find someone to be handsome/ beautiful and want to form relationships but with no or little desire to engage in sexual intercourse with anyone; though some asexuals don’t feel those forms of attraction either. There are also grey areas where you may only experience sexual attraction occasionally. Also masturbation is related to sex drive or libido not always sexual attraction.
I am asexual btw, let me know if you have any questions.0 0 0 0Have him not masturbate for a day before sex. The weed should not matter too much, but ask him not to be stoned when he has sex with you to see if that helps. Try some more foreplay. Get naked with each other and just fool around for a long time before sex. Try giving him a handjob first before sex to get him hard.
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2 10It is not usual really. You should go to a doctor to get consulted. Also, try using Viagra or Cialis, get some info on it from
It is a very serious thing and has to be treated as soon as possible. Don't postpone it and be careful!0 0 0 0Send him to a urologist to get checked out. If it all good, he needs a script for Cialis. That'll get him rock hard.
0 0 0 0Oh, it's the weed.
0 0 0 0This has nothing to do with you. He has desensitized himself from all the p*rn and wanking. Permanent porn/masturbation ban and no sex for a month and he'll be hard as an econometrics test.
1 0 0 0Is he on any drug? Or is he smoking a lot? Or drinking?
0 0 0 0Well yeah he smoked weed daily until about a month agonijo, now he reduced it to just weekends... could it be a factor in this?
Ya ofcrse... its can b the prob smoking can lead to it...
Is he fit? Does he watch a lot of p*rn? Being dead serious
0 0 0 0He's not very athletic but not fat... And yeah since he jerks off quite often I guess so...
Does he have a lot of bat around his core or lower body? Either way, he needs to workout more. If he's jerking off to p*rn, watch it with him because he's basically training his brain to be aroused at said p*rn. When he watch p*rn and he constently switches from one to another, can cause ED. How old is he? If he 25 or up, he might need to see a doctor about his test levels do to his age. I have more info if you have more questions. feel free to message me. Trust me, I've heard it all before, you shouldve hear when I had to talk to a 70 year old man about taking Viagra. Also if you are wondering, yes I've professional taken courses about such matters.
This is a very normal side effect of low self esteem which he may be suffering from. It is actually very common.
0 0 0 0He can’t have sex with you because he is too busy having sex with himself. Dump the selfish guy!
0 0 0 0He's just gay. Tell him to think of Burt Reynolds.
0 0 0 1If he smokes a lot of weed it may also be that he is becoming a Juggalo, they are not capable of sustaining erections either so their may be a link. Ask him if he ever listens to insane clown posse.
Lots of guys have problems like that. Me for one. I ussually have delayed ejaculation so it takes me awhile to cum and i ussually have to finish myself. It can be uncomfortable at times but you just gotta own it and make the best of it. Also staying hard can be an issue but the key to that is warming lube and lots of blowjobs. sometimes ill get hard and fuck for a bit and get soft and then get a blowjob and then fuck a bit more. I've often have girls get self conscious and think it's their fault but like i said just gotta accept it as gospel and roll w. it
0 0 0 0Do you get really... Um lubricated? Totally happens to me an the wife... Top secret here... If so have him pull out and dry off a bit... then go again... it will feel tighter and give him more sensations. That's the reason men hate condoms too we have to focus super hard to keep it up...
0 0 0 0Very strange. how can he go soft so soon?
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