I'm really worried about the size of my vagina

I know this sound silly but I'm quite worried that I'm loose down there. I have had sex and its felt good but iv never been able to come from just penetration :S Also I do get quite wet so it takes away the friction which sucks :( I always see all these girls going on about how they can only fit one finger up there and no more else it hurts :S which confuses me as I can easily fit one finger in there (I do have rly skinny fingers) and I can also fit two (side by side) I can't rly fit 3 fingers up there without it hurting abit or just being pretty difficult. I just wondered really if I'm loose because of this, or are these girls just really tight :S its getting to me a bit, cause I want the guy to feel pleasure when we have sex. For lads and girls how many fingers can you fit in a girl? And also what's it feel like when you have one finger inside you/her? like is the vag rly tight and strong around that finger? can you feel the sides are snug lol? Obviously I'm not like a bucket hehe, like I can feel the sides, I just wondered to get an idea if I'm loose, having never put my finger in another girl :S Thanks in advance for any of your comments :)
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Another thing to add, like when I put one finger in me its just really soft and squishy, its not got that really tight feeling, so fingers can go in easily :S
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Most girls, 3 in 4 last anyone counted, won't come from penetration alone. This is normal, most guys adapt. (It's what Pocket Rockets are for, folks.)

    Don't knock wetness either. It beats rug burn, most days.

    If you hear the girls going on about how tight they are, you must have read how, for some of them, sex is always painful. Be happy with what you have; you're fine, and any guy will be happy with you.

  • ok was your first guy that big or so brutal with you that you think he made you loose? if you haven't been through that then why are you worrying, you can enjoy with both big guys and tiny it just depends on their performance, don't let yourself down because the lack of confidence is the only real turn off, just make the guy doubt himself if he can satisfy you or not, that's the boys job

    • Haha that's true I guess. I've only had sex with one lad who was just average so I don't think I've been stretched hopefully hehe. Ill try to feel better about myself I guess, ty :)

    • Yeah and if your getting wet so easily this is really mind blowing guys love the thought of a girl that drips, not al girls like that, maybe you can squirt too, you have to try for yourself

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  • honestly don't worry about not being able to come from penetration alone, that's totally common.

    as far as size, everyone is different, don't stress out! guys have different girth width, and we have different widths, too.

    • That's true, I just don't want a lad to have sex with me and think I'm really loose and have been about lol, iv only had sex with one lad. and yeah I have just had a look at stats on google, does seem not many people can come from just that, ty for making me feel better :)

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  • being honest never met a girl couldn't slide two in. Maybe the dudes you been with just little in there area lol. but if you want to test that theory let me know ;)

    • Hahaa :P like you could fit two fingers in easily enough tho? ty for answering btw :)

    • Truth is for some reason a lot of girls say they are so tight lol yet they stick tampons in there size of your thumb. Id say if you can easily slide your fist up there than might be a little loose. Sure you are perfect the way you are and btw worst I ever had was wonderful :)

  • I imagine some women would be prone to exaggerate their tightness. Much like men tend to exaggerate the size of their penises. You may be a victim of insecure girls saying things to make themselves seem better. Secondly, if 2 fingers barely fits...you are in fine shape. that's normal and you have to remember that the vag is a stretchy organ. If your relaxed and take your time, you can get (almost) as many fingers in there as you want. so don't worry, everything's normal..

    • Aww :) ty, you've made me feel a lot better

  • Two or three fingers is normal. A lot of women can’t orgasm with penatration. My wife only orgasm from clitoal stimulating.

  • my girlfriend is super tight but she still can slide in 2...specially when she's wet..so you shouldn't even be worry bout being loose...ive had a girl who use to say that she can't fit one finger at all...but trust me she was super loose...i think that most of girls who go around and say stuff like can't fit one fingers are the ones that are loose...

    u shouldn't worry at all

  • honestly I can only get one. and yes it is tight or hard or whatever. its all very snug. lol

    • See its people like you that then make me feel I may be loose lol (not meaning that offensively to you ofc) hmmm, don't have to answer if you don't want but are you a virgin? and is that like with your vagins muscles completely relaxed, cause that's pretty tight haha

    • Reason I'm asking is just cause I want to know if I need to do something about it you know, like train those muscles downstairs to make it tighter and get more pleasure as a result for both parties during sex x

    • No I'm not a virgin, I've always been that way really. haha I mean wen things get going of course I get looser but yea