Insecure about my penis size: women's opinion?

[gamer4ever]

Hello, I am very insecure about my penis size, and I needed some opinions. Yes I know this question has probably been asked tons of times, but seriously my insecurity is driving me crazy, so I really need help. My penis when 100% erect measures as follows: Length: 5.7 inches (NBPEL- without pushing into the fat pad) Girth: 4.5 inches (Mid-shaft) Yes, I am under 18 years old, but my penis has stopped growing for a while, so it has reached its full size now. Plus, I am at the stage of puberty where genitals stop developing. I've always read that women prefer a length of at least 6 inches, and being only 5.7 inches always upsets me. I've read that the average is 5.5 inches, but still I always hear that women prefer 6 inches minimum, and any less is not enough according to most women. Also, my girth is 4.5 inches, which also upsets me a lot, because women prefer a thicker penis, and mine is pretty thin. The average girth is around 4.8 inches, and I am only 4.5 inches (at my thickest point), so I am below average in girth. Overall, I'm really insecure being only 5.7x4.5, as most women (from what I've read and heard) prefer length to be at least 6 inches, and girth to be at least average (4.8 inches). I lack in both areas, and feel terrible. Any thoughts will be appreciated. Thanks.

[Orion1084]

Take it from someone who has a very large girth: it's not all it's cracked up to be. Yes, you're a fraction of an inch below average (average is about 4.8"), but you'll never cause a girl to get a sore jaw from oral sex.

You'll also have a much easier time with anal sex (if you/her are into that). You'll never have to worry about tight condoms leaving a very painful red ring/bruise around the base of your shaft, either.

You're plenty big enough to get the job done. Sure, some women prefer larger, but there are more women who will complain about a large penis. Many of them prefer closer to what you've got. It's just more comfortable for them.

You're also, technically, above average in length, so there's no problem there, either. Learn how to use your fingers and tongue, and you'll be more than capable of satisfying the majority of women in bed.

[gamer4ever]

I understand, but for some reason almost all girls I've heard from prefer a thicker penis as opposed to a longer one, because a large girth gives the "filled up" feeling. I would be completely satisfied if I had average girth (4.8 inches), but I have a below average girth. I've read on the internet that a girth of 4.6 inches is also considered pretty thin, and I'm under that. If 4.6 is considered thin by some, then 4.5 is a complete bummer. I'm sure some women don't prefer a overly thick penis, but at the same time I'm sure most women won't prefer a thin (below average) penis like myself. They'll at least prefer an average girth (4.8 inches) which I don't have.

[Orion1084]

I get what you're saying, but you're really fine. 99.9% of women are not going to nice a difference of 0.3 inches in girth. You're honestly worrying about it way more than almost any woman ever would. You're your own worst enemy in this situation.

[gamer4ever]

Would you say I am considered 'average' overall? I mean I am average in length, and below average in girth, so does that make me a little below average overall?

[Orion1084]

I would consider you almost perfectly average, actually. You're within a few tenths of an inch on both length and girth, so there's literally nothing wrong with your size. It's average for a reason. Sure, there are plenty of bigger guys out there, but there are an equal number of guys smaller than you. Very, very few women would be disappointed by a guy who's right in the middle.

[gamer4ever]

Also, when we talk about the average length is it measured in NBPEL or BPEL? Because, I am 5.7 inches NBPEL, and 6.3 inches BPEL (when measured from my pubic bone- pushed into fat pad).

[Orion1084]

As a matter of fact, length is technically measured when bone pressed. In that regard, you are actually abover average. See, you're in better shape than you thought. :-)

[gamer4ever]

Honestly? I thought when people referred to 6 inches being average it was NBPEL. So 6 inches 'BPEL' is average in reality?

[Orion1084]

That is correct, yes. So, you're actually above average. Most scientific studies concerning length publish the BPEL when discussing the official average. They do this because it takes into account those men who are more overweight that the others. It wouldn't be a successful study unless the eliminated anything that could affect the results, such as the pubic fat pad. BPEL is the measurement that they use to ensure the most accurate reading across all participants.

[gamer4ever]

Just another question- When measuring NBPEL is the penis held parallel to the floor? My erection angle is high, so my penis points up. If I measure that way (while it points up at an angle) I don't get my full NBPEL measurement. In order to get my full NBPEL measurement I need to hold my penis parallel to the floor, so that way the angle doesn't affect anything. Is that the right way?

[Orion1084]

Yes, that is the correct way to measure. The reason being that if you measure it at an angle, you're not able to get the ruler (or whatever measuring device) flush against the pubic bone. Measuring when it's straight (parallel to the floor) is the best way to get an accurate measurement.

[gamer4ever]

Also, when measuring BPEL, how hard do you press against the pubic bone? When I lightly press against it, I get about 6.3 inches in length, but if I press in with more strength (harder) I get about 6.4 inches.

[Orion1084]

You're really only supposed to lightly press it against the pubic bone. If you're doing it hard enough to hurt, that's just too much. :)

[gamer4ever]

Not hard enough to hurt. Just with a strong push against the pubic bone rather than a light one. Nothing like jamming it in until it hurts/bleeds.

[NJ_Casanova]

Average depends on what study are where it was conducted, BPEL is the accurate/clinical way of measuring since weight doesn't affect it. Generally 5.1, 5.5, 5.7 are the most common averages I've seen in the results with girth averages between 4.6-4.8". You shouldn't worry about anything, your still young, length can't be changed without surgery (and you don't need it) My girth increased after puberty, with more use, LOL... so sweet it. Having "Too much" is worse than having "a little" less. Sucks having to stop because of her getting sore/in pain when yuor just getting started:-( And if she is ok, she wouldn't want it as often as you do, because of the soreness, BUMMER:-(

[murphtheman]

DUDE really? get a lover that will help you learn how to use it properly. Being a great lover is far more important then the size of your cock. The girl I'm with now (55) says that she never knew making love could be as good as she is having it now. Our chemistry is so good that we can go for 3-4 hours straight

[Robbey]

Sweetie, let me put it too you this way

I don't really care what size the ship is; I care about whether the captain can keep the ship in port long enough for everyone to get off

[tina15xox]

That is actually beautifully put

[NJ_Casanova]

LOL... Thank god, it wasn't that "motion of the ocean' crap

[emilyg25]

Honestly, 0.3 of an inch isn't that much. I wouldn't be like "oh, you're not 6 inches, you're 0.3 inches shorter than that" haha. Know how to use it, then you're in good shape :)

[gamer4ever]

I guess length isn't the biggest problem, but girth definitely is. 4.5 inches is below average, and women prefer girth over length.

[spencer97]

Ya like mine is 7 inches size don't matter really lmfao just eat right, masturbate which helps with length and well mostly just accept what u got and use it a vagina is only three inches deep so once u go past it not much feelin after three inches for her so u gotta be smart but big dicks are good for deep throating and anal sex and oral sex

[NJ_Casanova]

The best selling size toy has a 1.5" diameter, so that is a 4.7" circumference, she wouldn't even notice a difference.

[sharon19]

Learn to accept with what you've got and use it the best you can! size is not always what matters. It's how a guy uses it.

[Durty]

Thas whus up.

[bubbletrouble]

Its more so girth that matters but if it is at least 4 inches then FTW

[Nomad93]

Your penis will probably still grow man I grew like an inch when I was around 18 or 19. Also if your fat it makes your penis look smaller something like 5 pounds of fat makes your dick.5 inches smaller cause of the fatty pelvis pad. Learn how to use your tongue and be a genuinely nice man and the ladies won't care bro. #size queens might care but whatever they are usually major sluts anyway

[thelionting]

Dude stfu about your penis size... No one cares

[Outofthegrey]

That's almost the average exactly. 0.3 inches behind the average circumference.

But, that said.

Use fucking google and stop bringing all the cock Q's to us.

[gamer4ever]

Girth is the main problem, because women prefer girth the most, and that's where I lack in the most. 0.3 inches below average in girth is pretty bad, as women like girth more than length. 4.5 inches of girth is thin.

[Michael-in-SC]

Nothing to worry about, not that you could do anything about it anyways. Want to have some fun? Carry a ruler or a piece of string around with you that is exactly 6 inches long. Then ask women to estimate with their hands how long 6 inches is. Then show them how far off they are. Most women will be off by 2 inches or more.

[JackKerouac77]

I keep feeding my penis Schlong-Dong-Gro, and I'm up to 14 inches right now. Pretty amazing.

It's fabulous stuff.@Ihav2fart imported it from Vietnam for me for the low, low price of $12,000.

So worth it.

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[JackKerouac77]

@Ihav2fart

[Ihav2fart]

hahaha, you're welcome

[Ihav2fart]

You care about it more than girls would.

[JCT666]

Last time I checked, 5 inches is the average size...

[spencer97]

Ya like mine is 7 inches size don't matter really lmfao just eat right, masturbate which helps with length and well mostly just accept what u got and use it a vagina is only three inches deep so once u go past it not much feelin after three inches for her so u gotta be smart but big dicks are good for deep throating and anal sex and oral sex

[Anonymous]

Its bigger than my finger... so I guess maybe its okay :)

[Anonymous]

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[Anonymous]

The average penis size is 6 inches... so your fairy average. I wouldn't worry about it you have more than enough to satisfy a girl.