WOW I used 2950 of the 3000 characters and my internet fizzed out as I was submitting it. I don't think I'll be able to write anything quite as insightful again the second time around, but I'll give it another go...
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Let's be completely honest, it's a distinct possibility that's all he sees you as. It doesn't have to be, but the first thing that most guys in his position are going to see in you is that you're a sexually exotic item. And whether you've admitted it to yourself or not, the first thing most women your age see in a young, strong, boyish, virile guy like him is that he's another sexually exotic item, a "boy toy".
But the things that you're worrying about aren't necessarily exclusive to relationships with an age difference. Everybody worries about whether or not other people like them for who they are or just because they fufill some sort of sexual ego. It's a completely natural worry.
When you're a sexually exotic item to someone else (as in, dating outside of your normal crowd), you always run the risk of being used for someone else's sexual ego. I've been there too. I'm a mixed Korean, Greek, and Slavic guy, and I wouldn't say that I'm bad to look at. I knew a white girl who I thought was great and we had a healthy sexual relationship, but later I would find out that she used to live in Singapore so she had a thing for Asian men. When I found out she would refer to me to her friends as the "cute Asian guy", I knew I'd be better off elsewhere.
Now, I've been with plenty of other girls where the exotic thing has never been an issue. I met a girl on a trip and we exchanged online contact information and kept in touch. To her, I was an extremely exotic item, not just for my race but because I went through a punk-rock thing at the time (I had a rocker mohawk haha). We admitted there was sexual tension but agreed we should be friends first because of the distance. Now, we have become very close and know that our relationship, while there's a lot of passion between us, is based completely off of a real-level attraction.
It's possible to have a relationship with real attraction in your position. One famous example would be Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore. Another example would be an older woman I met last summer, where we became close through talking. I didn't pursue it because I was a bit shy about it, but I soon realized I was completely open to something happening between us and that I liked her for real reasons. But of course, it's not the first idea most people get.
All in all...
As far as being called a "MILF", there's no other way to take it than flattery. You're the object of someone's desire and that's a thing you should take with pride. As for figuring out the terms of the relationship between you two, there's nothing more you can do but be open and honest and find those reasons for yourself. But at least wear the "MILF" badge with pride, it's not a bad thing in itself at all. ;)
You don't have to necessarily be a mom to be considered a MILF. It's more of a look. My friends goof on me about my mom being a MILF. The best way I can describe it is by naming some celebs who look like they could be mistaken for MILF porn stars because of how they dress and look (usually means the full lips, pefectly paid for boobs, blonde highlights) Sofia Vergara, Jillian Barberie, Alexis Bellino, Lisa Hochstein, Lisa Rinna... Is there a celebrity you've been told you look like or who's style you have?
I suppose it's a compliment in a degrading sort of way... Boys that age like to brag about sex, and will often get it where they can. As a woman your age, though, I gotta ask: is there a reason you prefer to bang little boys? (No offense to the teenagers, but... C'mon... it's a maturity thing.)
it goes both ways it is how ever you want to take it, MILFs are kind of a falling fad tho. I think ur boyfriend says it as a compliment
I sure hope so. I've been called one for a while now
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"MILF" is a compliment.
And no, they aren't with you because of that (I looked at your photo.).
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What is that supposed to mean?
MILF = Mother I'd Like to F*** In other words, they aren't after you just because you are a mom. ; )
They are after you because you are an attractive woman.
I think it's funny that term even caught on, because it really ought to be MILTF.
You should take it as a complement, crude though it may be. I think the attraction is to the idea of a more experienced, aggressive, woman seeking fulfillment.
I guess only you can make the call about why they have been dating you. I typically find that girls are usually tuned in to their guys' motives.
Depends on how you feel about being a sex object. Given your taste in boyfriends, you seem okay with it.
Yea you're probably right and do you honestly think that when these kids get into college they'll still be going for the older women? Just a thought.
from what I can see in your pic you are a milf and he's probably excited and bragging that he's banging a milf sounds like its just a sexual fun type of thing if you wanted something serious you wouldn't go for guys my age who aren't looking for that and he wouldn't go for a 34 year old women... be happy its a compliment...your a hot 34 year old milf that's f***ing a young guy that can't stop bragging or thinking about you probably and if you want more of a relationship then don't go for young guys who are looking for sex
better to be an attractive woman for the wrong reason, than an unattractive woman no one wants for any reason.
MILF? Mother I would Like to Fuck? Hmm, thats just weird.
It is definitely a compliment
i think MILF is a compliment if your not conservative
because MILF to me means ur sexy for a older woman
and don't all older woman want to look sexy?
but the part where a girl would get irritated is the fu ck part because some girls would think that its private and degrading
but too each his/her own
Usually it is!!
Yes and no
It's only a compliment if you're strictly into the sexing scene, but it can be insulting when you're strictly into relationships and others just assume the opposite. So basically, it's how you take it, either you like it or hate it.
Do you still date younger boys?
I am.19 so please write me
not like tht fucking others wife makes boy feel more excited humans love getting others own property and thy feel superior while fucking you we think we were doing great
MILF can be a compliment if you want to take it like the sexy way but if he's just dating your for sex, you better check unless its fine for you.
Yess mother I love fucking I've had so many
Trust me, even if they are younger being called a MILF is a compliment. If i were your boyfriend, i would be showing you off
Its a compliment.
You must be hot if younger guys want to bang you
Yes and no it just all depends on how you feel about do you like being called a milf
I had a long-term affair with a married woman who got pregnant. (The baby turned out not to be mine.) We did the deed before, during and after she was prego, and I'd buy her cigarettes because she was too embarrassed to buy them herself.
We both loved the sex! Neither one of us thought it was bad: she is a MILF too. You are the best!
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