Well Jarett is right you know my girlfriend have the same problem at first she didn't wanted me to touch her down there but with some time she agree on that. Some days ago we had phone sex so she told me that she enjoyed that but at the end she felt bad like guilty or something so I'm giving her time so she can get over it I mean sex is not that important at least not for me of course I want to but that is OK I guess she is not ready as you are not ready when you realize that sex is not a wrong thing it is just something natural on two people who love each other. So it is all about trust so your boyfriend have to make you trust him and you will see that step by step you will do those things with him and enjoy them just remember trust him if he shows you that he really loves you everything will be OK jejeje I guess I am an idealist but hope it works 4 you too : )
0 0 0 0Aside from the self-consciousness, you're really, really okay, and the self-consciousness passes with time and habit.
The only trick you need to learn is to feel when you're going from hot to cold, from excited to gross, and to keep yourself on the right side of that balance. You should push yourself, but not force yourself.
Good luck. It might not feel like it, but you're doing really well.0 0 0 0
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I think the feelings you described are very common among woman. I am twenty and have only had one bf. We never did much because I always felt guilty about it. I felt like I was doing something wrong if I did sexual stuff with him. I have been single for a year now and well...I guess I'm in no rush.
I think since I value sex and intimacy a lot...and think it should really be kept within the marriage bed...I will probably wait to go any further until I get married.
I just pray that I can find a guy who won't demand it like so many seem to these days.
My best advice is to try to realize that it's okay and that you don't have to be doing those things if you don't feel right about it. See...after all...that's the whole point...it should be enjoyable.0 0 0 0i just want to say that I'm the exact same way! I love the IDEA of having sex and doing sexual things, but when I'm in the moment...I feel awkward and dirty. hopefully someone can help us!
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0 1There is nothing wrong with it. You need to realize that sex for women is definitely an emotional thing. Some girls get to the point where they can lessen the emotional part of it if they do it enough. But for you it seems like there is still a subconscious moral part to it as well. You feel uncomfortable because you feel that it is wrong.
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