Personally I think you are too young to be making such a decision.
As well, based on things you said here. I don't think a doctor would do one on you. If you live in North America you will probably have a fair amount of problems finding a doctor who will perform the vasectomy.
From things I've read. If you don't have children, a lot of doctors won't even consider the procedure until you are in your mid-late 20's.
But it's your choice. Good luck.1 0 0 0I reside in India, life is different here, some of your pets enjoy more luxury then us. Value of human life is like nil. 10-15 murders in every district are common thing daily. Unemployment and increasing population and competition in every branch of society. Petulant fools with power of gangsters and muscle power stand in election win and rule here, corruption in entire federal structure. And many things I do not want to say, like my parents will create pressure on me when my college ends around age of 25-30 to get married or a somehow get me in an arranged marriage, getting a girl of their choice and giving her lot of chance to seduce me. Cast a spell of lust for few days get me married and then she is pregnant. Wife for whole life, I leave her society rejects me.
I'm a parent AND I've had a vasectomy.
Both good decisions.
At your age I wasn't sure I wanted kids. Now they're the most important thing in your life.
Vasectomies can sometimes be reversed, but not always. I'd suggest not doing it yet, but eventually yes.
Good luck.0 0 0 0The Kid part makes me confused. What if my wife I love wanted our kids. What if she is not like me, happy with kids no matters whose they are or if they are being adopted.
You also have that dumb idea in your head that you love someone, and the idea of seeing little kids that are a mix of the two of you is kind of special.
Well for a guy like me it will seem dumb, but I know surely when a guy like you have experienced it, I assume it's like dark fantasy you feel along with the intimacy with her.
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I think you'd be making a huge mistake and I wouldn't date someone who was so fixed in their lives. I don't even want kids but the thought that you are so sure and can never change your mind it me off. I don't want children but I'd never take away my option to. In ten years time I may feel completely different. In ten years time you might meet a woman so amazing that she changes your mind and you want to put a baby in here. Love is a powerful and strange thing.
0 0 0 0CONGRATULATIONS, I am sure you found love in your life or are in love right now. Yeah I guess you could be right, because I never had a hug from a girl of my age like a friend, kiss is beyond horizon so sex to make babies is on either side of globe.
I do have love in my life and even that may change to something where we want to have kids. I'm quite sure it won't, but why make that decision now? I suppose as a woman you know you only have a limited time to reproduce so it is more of an issue. It will happen for you. Maybe not soon, maybe a long time down the road but it will happen. You will find someone.
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0 3You're too young to make a (semi) permanent decision like that. Maybe wait another 18 years and if you feel the same way then, get one.
1 1 0 0Next 12 years is the age till which I do not want to make a girl pregnant. After it if I am in love then we shall see
Condoms and BCP's are good enough then.
I'm not sure if you would be allowed to do a procedure like that at a young age. I think you have to be past a certain age
1 0 0 0Well yeah, but I think I can get it done after 18 constitutionally I have rights but medically I think they will want me to wait till 21. I am just giving it it a thought. Not going for it right now
Yea I wouldn't even think about that til you hit the mid 30s honestly.
1 0 0 0Thank you
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