Why can't I get wet?

I'm afraid I've been masturbating too much, and I haven't been able to get turned on or wet for my bf. The only time I get turned on or slightly wet is when I masturbate. Now, my bf is amazing in bed, so I can't understand why I can't get turned on for him. No matter what he tries, I'm as dry as a desert. I really wanna be able to get wet and turned on for him so that it will make things down there so much easier.
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  • Whoa whoa hang on there. "Turned on" an "wet" are VERY different things. I've dated someone who dripped when we had sex... and lots of times we didn't - she wore pads on a semi-regular basis. And with my current gf, we use lube. Every time. Even if she's right at the edge of an orgasm, if I'm entering her right then, I need to make sure to put coconut oil (not condom friendly, but excellent lube) on my penis.

    So as far as being dry as a desert goes... go to a nice sex store and get some condom-safe lube. Unless you're using only hormonal birth control and have been tested, in which case I highly recommend coconut oil.

    Now if you're not getting turned on for him, that's a different problem... but if he's "amazing" in bed, I hope you're enjoying it a lot :) and you are actually aroused. Yes?

    And no, can't masturbate too much. It probably helps you get wetter, all things considered - body gets more used to producing what lubrication it does. So don't worry there.

  • drink water (water/ being hydrated causes females to open up and get wetter) and cause makes to get better functioning erections.

    And don't worry about it stress about not getting wet... If a guy gets stressed over sex his dick... He'll probably not be able to get it up.

    And it also might help if you stop masturbating as much as you do :)

    Hope this has helped! Good luck

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  • No correlation between being turned on and wetness. Could be health problems or maybe you need to drink more water. Some women just need lube sometimes.

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    Disregard mother and breast.

    Go to a gynecologist