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Is premature ejaculation normal?

My boyfriend usually finishes very quickly and I wondered if that's normal. I'm his first sexual partner (although he's gotten head from girls before). So we were about to have sex the other day and he finished before we even started. We were making out naked and then I got on his lap and then he came (he got himself to get hard again in a few minutes though. what a gentleman haha). And a few days before, I was giving him head and he finished in probably 60 seconds. I just wondered if that's normal and if there ate ways to get him to last longer.
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  • 20-30% of men experience PE so it's not that abnormal. now the medical classification suggest that men with PE ejaculate within 15 seconds of sexual arousal so your guy making it to 60 seconds would suggest that it may not be technically PE.

    ways to see if he can improve endurance?
    - he masturbates or you get him off before engaging in say sex. so maybe 1/2 hour before having sex he gets off. it should make him less likely to ejaculate so soon
    - he can practice improving endurance by masturbating and really focusing on trying not to "cross the line". PE is really a mental thing more than anything so if he is able to train himself he could improve things

    other things to do are use the desensitizing condoms which help improve endurance or there are also lubricants that can help a guy last longer.

  • Have sex with him until he cums. Then wait 15 minutes and have sex with him again. He'll last longer the second time.

    Also, men who don't get much action cum faster, since evolution has driven them to ejaculate quickly to maximize chances for impregnation.

    • Makes sense. Question, is having sex (or otherwise getting off) twice in a row uncomfortable or tiring or anything? Because the time I mentioned was the only time he's kept going for a second round. We always stop after the first normally.

    • It depends on the guy. I can go like 3 times in an hour, and when I was in high school, some boys would compete to see who could masturbate the most number of times in one day. I apologize if that was graphic. But the answer is he probably won't say no to more sex, unless he's tired from work or something.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Yeah you just get him super excited. :))
    Cup his balls and put some squeeze pressure on them
    Not too much though
    Make him wince or grunt just a little
    then release them when you're ready
    he should be able to catch up right away
    that's what is do and my guy loves it

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  • Its normal initially. But after some experience , he will satisfy you for longer !!! :)

  • If it's every time, he may need to stimulate you in other ways. If he doesn't masturbate that can definitely happen if you don't have sex often.

    Try having sex more frequently and you should notice it not happening as fast. It may have been an ejaculation from him not releasing in a long while.

  • yes that can be normal, nothing to worry about, there are ways to deal with the issue, try downloading The Lovers Guide, there is a section on it that deals with these issues and shows how to fix it

  • basically most guys finish up to 5 mins. so it's normal in my opinion

  • 60 seconds? he must have been insanely turned on.

    • You think so? I mean I sort of pounced on him as soon as he woke up haha so maybe..

    • i definitely think so.

  • yeh its normal, sometimes i last a minute or two from head and even a lot less from intercourse (though im able to go again)

  • he will be good soon... he has to build endurence

  • Well yes that can be normal. And easy way for intercourse to last longer would be to get him off through head or hand then proceed to intercourse.

  • Premature ejaculation is normal because there are a lot of men, but not good for woman to enjoy. Every man should learn to delay your ejaculation.

  • That's way too fast

  • omg its too early... lol
    i last so long

  • If you're his first sexual partner there is no doubt that you are just too much for him to handle. Hopefully he will be able to do the same for you once he stops giving you surprise facials lol.

    If he does prematurely cum and it gets in your hair or eye or all over your face, DON"T yell at him. It will only make it worse. I would imagine it stings like a mother f*cker but eventually he'll get better.

    Out of curiosity how many surprise facials have you got lol?

    • Thankfully none haha. He's kind enough to pull my head up for a kiss right before he finishes. :) I think you're probably right though. I'm his first sexual partner, plus our relationship is long distance since he's away for college, so we only see each other once or twice a month. Once he's back home, his endurance will probably improve.

    • if he pulls your head up before he finishes where does he cum? does he just get it on your shirt or bra?

    • Usually my stomach or legs or himself haha. Just wherever it goes.

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  • Considering it's a medical term for abnormal ejaculation my guess is that it's not normal.

  • Viagra will do it.

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